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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Need Advice About My Girlfriend |
CubsBullsBears |
Posted: 13 Dec 2023, 3:57 am
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I don't understand why CBB would rather have no girlfriend at all than have one he likes, who he said was pretty, who likes to make out with him, etc. No offence CBB but you weren't having sex before, and now you're not having sex but you have a great partner. Would you rather not have sex and be a... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Need Advice About My Girlfriend |
CubsBullsBears |
Posted: 12 Dec 2023, 7:25 pm
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TwilightPrincess wrote: Or he could ruin a decent shot at a relationship. It’s only been 6 weeks. She might just need more time. but I have no way of knowing one way or the other. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Need Advice About My Girlfriend |
CubsBullsBears |
Posted: 12 Dec 2023, 5:06 pm
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IsabellaLinton wrote: I don't understand either. I thought you really liked her? I do, but this situation is in the same vein as someone telling me they want to save sex for marriage. It doesn’t matter how attractive I find someone, I’ll never want that.
In this case, I wish I knew one way or the other. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Need Advice About My Girlfriend |
CubsBullsBears |
Posted: 12 Dec 2023, 5:00 pm
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In what way does it make you unsure about your relationship? not being sure if her and I are ever going to be on the same page regarding that, for one. It’s not that I’m unwilling to wait to some extent as long as there’s communication involved, and obviously there has not been. So, what are my opt... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Need Advice About My Girlfriend |
CubsBullsBears |
Posted: 12 Dec 2023, 4:46 pm
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What does a closed book mean? Imo that means she doesn't want to talk about something. Maybe she had some bad experiences with people in the past. I think that’s what it means too, which only provides uncertainty for me. That alone bothers me and makes me unsure of what to do about our relationship. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Need Advice About My Girlfriend |
CubsBullsBears |
Posted: 12 Dec 2023, 3:44 pm
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TwilightPrincess wrote: CubsBullsBears wrote: Heck, yesterday she literally admitted that she’s a “closed book”. What were you guys talking about at the time? I don’t remember what exactly. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Need Advice About My Girlfriend |
CubsBullsBears |
Posted: 12 Dec 2023, 3:30 pm
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TwilightPrincess wrote: Why doesn’t it make any sense? Everyone is different. because I don’t understand why she’s not turned on like I am in those situations. I thought that it was only natural to be. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Need Advice About My Girlfriend |
CubsBullsBears |
Posted: 12 Dec 2023, 3:29 pm
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TwilightPrincess wrote: How do you broach those conversations? Could she feel like she’s being pressured at all? I usually say stuff spontaneously.
I really have no idea about the “feeling pressured part”. Heck, yesterday she literally admitted that she’s a “closed book”. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Need Advice About My Girlfriend |
CubsBullsBears |
Posted: 12 Dec 2023, 3:24 pm
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TwilightPrincess wrote: 6 weeks doesn’t seem that long to me. I was worried someone was gonna say this. What I will state is that it doesn’t make any sense to me that her and I will be sitting side by side in the same bed, and while my sex drive kicks in in that situation, it’s not the same with her. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Need Advice About My Girlfriend |
CubsBullsBears |
Posted: 12 Dec 2023, 3:17 pm
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TwilightPrincess wrote: 6 weeks doesn’t seem that long to me.
Has she had sex before? Have you guys had open conversations about sex? no she has not. And like I’ve mentioned, she goes in redirection mode every time I bring up anything sexual. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Need Advice About My Girlfriend |
CubsBullsBears |
Posted: 12 Dec 2023, 3:13 pm
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We kiss, she lets me touch her boobs and butt, she once sent me a titty pic, but nothing more than that and she hasn’t really been clear as to why. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Need Advice About My Girlfriend |
CubsBullsBears |
Posted: 12 Dec 2023, 3:09 pm
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As a lot of you know from another post, 6 weeks ago I met a girl and we immediately started dating. Like me, she is high functioning but has some mild disability. She hasn’t given me much detail about it besides saying that she has a “learning disability”. I bring that up because it might have somet... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I have a girlfriend!! !! !! |
CubsBullsBears |
Posted: 04 Dec 2023, 4:58 pm
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Replies: 26 Views: 11,466
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5 weeks in and we’re still going strong! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I have a girlfriend!! !! !! |
CubsBullsBears |
Posted: 10 Nov 2023, 10:35 pm
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Replies: 26 Views: 11,466
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I’ve had various relationships over the years that would be over in a short amount of time. A couple weeks on average. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I have a girlfriend!! !! !! |
CubsBullsBears |
Posted: 10 Nov 2023, 4:30 pm
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Replies: 26 Views: 11,466
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Assuming you're (still) in a relationship, you are going to have to develop some new habits. You need to be sensitive to her feelings. Without being weird about it (more easily said than done) you must try to know how she feels about things that relate to her relationship with you. You may be incli... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I have a girlfriend!! !! !! |
CubsBullsBears |
Posted: 10 Nov 2023, 4:06 pm
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Replies: 26 Views: 11,466
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Assuming you're (still) in a relationship, you are going to have to develop some new habits. You need to be sensitive to her feelings. Without being weird about it (more easily said than done) you must try to know how she feels about things that relate to her relationship with you. You may be incli... |
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