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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you get obsessed and/or stalk people you like? |
| Homer_Bob |
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Posted: 12 Oct 2020, 3:46 pm
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Replies: 42
Views: 3,330
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| As a young teenager, I had my fair share of weird crushes but to me if someone dislikes me, there's no bigger turn off to me. I don't want to stalk those who want nothing to do with me. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Anyone terrified of being alone for the rest of their life? |
| Homer_Bob |
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Posted: 12 Oct 2020, 3:36 pm
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Replies: 249
Views: 8,069
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| I certainly had this same fear and didn't find an amazing partner until I was 32. Yes, this year. But the thing is putting yourself out there. Expect rejection, embrace rejection but accept it. It makes you stronger and the more rejection you receive, the more you will grow and not only learn about ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: ideal partner for people with autism spectrum disorder |
| Homer_Bob |
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Posted: 12 Oct 2020, 3:27 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 976
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| Believe it or not, I think finding an extroverted women is the best thing for us. They are easier to open up to, they are better communicators and overall opposites attract. One year and nine different women until I found the right one. Going for another introvert is the worst thing you can do, trus... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 18-19 year olds got it bad on dating sites(especially guys) |
| Homer_Bob |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2019, 3:47 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 564
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| Enjoy your youth while it lasts, while you may have a bit of a shortage of options compared to us in our thirties, you also have the least pressure as you have a lot of time. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating Again After a Breakup |
| Homer_Bob |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2019, 3:44 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 394
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| I do immediately or in my case, if I have one online date not work out after she chooses to ignore me, I go on to the next person so I don't dwell on the past and I keep moving things forward! It's never good to have a long hang up about anyone, it only holds one back more. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do aspies deal with breakups? |
| Homer_Bob |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2019, 5:28 pm
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Replies: 21
Views: 1,166
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| I got a feeling ghosting is a pretty common way they deal with it. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: One of the Problems with Dating Sites |
| Homer_Bob |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2019, 5:27 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 479
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| I usually can spot the fakes pretty easy. If they have only one picture or barely anything written, they are frauds. Another easy way to spot the real users, find the ones who are actually active such as the ones that say online now or recently active. The frauds almost never say they are online now... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Young girls would not talk too me in my last job! |
| Homer_Bob |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2019, 4:39 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 970
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| Dude, don't even think of dating people you work with. Just don't. You want to keep that part of your life separate. Like the two worlds theory, you should have one world where it's all about work and another world that's all about your personal life, if they collide it will blow up. Any Seinfeld fa... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Good dating tips? |
| Homer_Bob |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2019, 4:35 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 688
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| Expect rejection and not only embrace it, own it. Think of dating as learning a new subject. It takes a lot of studying and trial and error but the more you do it, the easier it gets. Yes dating sites are not an easy go. It takes a lot of searching but search within reasonable standards and perhaps ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling depressed due to being single at 30 |
| Homer_Bob |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2019, 4:29 pm
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Replies: 171
Views: 9,926
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| I have been exactly where you were not even a year ago but I finally have taken a more active approach to dating at 31. The biggest thing is not only to expect rejection but embrace it, own it. I use to be a p**** about rejection and avoided dating just so I wouldn't have to deal with it. Now I deal... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What do you guys think of Match.com? |
| Homer_Bob |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2019, 4:11 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 813
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| There are some decent quality people there but of course from a male perspective, the message reply rate can be between 25-50 messages sent to 1 response per rate if not more. There are easy red flags to spot on this site. I say stay away from the profiles with only one picture or a copy and paste s... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Someone liked and messaged you. Stupid OkCupid |
| Homer_Bob |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2018, 8:51 pm
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Replies: 42
Views: 1,723
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| That's how they try to get you so you pay to see likes. Online dating 101. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Worried I'll be forced to return back to previous job. |
| Homer_Bob |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2018, 2:51 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 782
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| Retail jobs are a dime a dozen, so are warehouse with the seasonal jobs being available. Fast food certainly is not anyone's only option. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Is it wrong to walk out on a job without notice? |
| Homer_Bob |
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Posted: 29 Aug 2018, 6:10 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 687
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| If you don't care about getting a reference from this job then do whatever you want. Looks like you already got another job anyways so it doesn't seem to have hurt you. More important jobs, I would never recommend but for menial jobs, walk away. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: What would your dream job be? |
| Homer_Bob |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2018, 1:39 pm
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Replies: 33
Views: 1,714
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| Self employment where I don't have to answer to anyone and can at the same time excel at that role. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Your Worst Job. |
| Homer_Bob |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2018, 1:24 pm
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Replies: 42
Views: 2,122
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| Service Clerk out of high school which more or less is a clean up and front end duties job at Supermarkets. Cleaning the redemption center not only was completely disgusting but dealing with the homeless and drug addicts who hung out there all day was unpleasant to say the least. Worst part is I did... |
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