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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Male disposability in life & dating

Posted: 17 Oct 2017, 3:40 am 

Replies: 392
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How long do you expect him to keep seeking before he gives up? Should he spend 40 years constantly seeking work? Without income that’s going be expensive and since he’s unemployed unless he gets benifits or government aid you have to foot the bill. Would you date a permanently low paid guy like he’...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Male disposability in life & dating

Posted: 16 Oct 2017, 2:57 pm 

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^^ I've spent 6 months of hell unemployed seeking non-stop for a new job after my last workplace went bankrupt 3 years ago. I tried it all and heard all the same excuses (too qualified, needs more experience, not exactly the same what we want, ...etc). I was considering to open a small food outlet,...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Male disposability in life & dating

Posted: 16 Oct 2017, 1:56 pm 

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No one can tell whether unemployement can be temporary or permanent, you can't read the future. So your real answer means No, I take it. Hm! Nope, you're ignoring both my and Hurtloam's answer. I was ready to marry my boyfriend before he found a job. But I knew he wouldn't avoid working. And you ig...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Male disposability in life & dating

Posted: 16 Oct 2017, 12:43 pm 

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But my mentally ill, jobless cousin has a girlfriend and they have been together for years now. TBH, many women in the family wonder why she stays with him... but good for him! Mental illness tends to correlate with higher intelligence. http://www.medicaldaily.com/why-smarter-people-are-more-likely...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Male disposability in life & dating

Posted: 16 Oct 2017, 12:31 pm 

Replies: 392
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1: Being unemployed doesn't destroy your health. ...unless we take depression, low self-esteem and addictions into account... 2: Not being obese is not difficult, but getting and working a high paying job requires alot of effort. You are unfair here. You can compare being not obese to having any jo...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Male disposability in life & dating

Posted: 16 Oct 2017, 11:49 am 

Replies: 392
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Closet Genious wrote:
This is why we can't have nice things..

? I don't get it.
By the way, Boo:
Would you marry an obese woman?

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Male disposability in life & dating

Posted: 16 Oct 2017, 11:45 am 

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The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
It is a simple question magz: yes or no.

Sorry, the answer is conditional.
Yes if I perceived unemployment as temporary
No if I perceived unemployment as permanent.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Male disposability in life & dating

Posted: 16 Oct 2017, 9:32 am 

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The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Would you have married a jobless man?

What do you mean "forget the college"?
I would marry an unemployed man if I didn't see him as hopelessly jobless. He could be jobless at the moment.
But the men I know prefer to find a job first, then marry.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Male disposability in life & dating

Posted: 16 Oct 2017, 9:18 am 

Replies: 392
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^ But the odds of guys on here competing against John Mayer types on dating apps is slim. Guys on Sausage apps....I mean dating apps are competing over very very few women. Like the thousands of job seekers applying for the same few jobs. Yes but my hypothesis is that even with a good job an autist...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Male disposability in life & dating

Posted: 16 Oct 2017, 7:44 am 

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^ Notice how Italy is among the list, and Italy is known to be one of the most 'macho culture' in Europe, stereo-typically at least. Or maybe in those macho cultures women choose STEM not to be seen as lesser beings, to feel more valuable, to be someone more equal to a male? While in more "fem...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Male disposability in life & dating

Posted: 16 Oct 2017, 5:31 am 

Replies: 392
Views: 7,899


^ Notice how Italy is among the list, and Italy is known to be one of the most 'macho culture' in Europe, stereo-typically at least. Or maybe in those macho cultures women choose STEM not to be seen as lesser beings, to feel more valuable, to be someone more equal to a male? While in more "fem...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Male disposability in life & dating

Posted: 16 Oct 2017, 4:47 am 

Replies: 392
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Outsider, in the Western cultures, the majority of your women don't seem much interested in STEM. But in Russia, Middle East and south Asia, STEM degrees holders are 50% and more women (the work market is a different story tho). Ironically, Iran and the Gulf countries, which are the most non-women ...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Are Aspies late bloomers when it comes to careers?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017, 4:33 am 

Replies: 16
Views: 2,129


I'm in STEM and I'm a late bloomer because of my mental health problems and kids. My sisters, whom I strongly suspect to be undiagonsed aspies but with no STEM interests, found some jobs in their early twenties - they theach music and conduct local church choirs. They get some money for this, not en...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Male disposability in life & dating

Posted: 14 Oct 2017, 4:26 am 

Replies: 392
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Umm.... you can't compare a whole scientific field to a some stupid golf club. Honestly, very few girls at my school were interested in computers, even the enteraiment aspect of it such as gaming, let alone coding. I recall when I created my first little games in Casio Programmable calculator (usin...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Male disposability in life & dating

Posted: 13 Oct 2017, 2:33 pm 

Replies: 392
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Telling me that I'm angry is quite frankly unproductive, and doesn't add anything to the conversation. Sorry, I practise naming emotions of me and others. Helps me with my alexithymia. Yet there are so many women capable of raising children (most of them) that this makes that role naturally less va...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Male disposability in life & dating

Posted: 13 Oct 2017, 11:59 am 

Replies: 392
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Meh...I don’t really have a problem with being “disposable.” This life has done me few favors other than my wife and kids, who are all I’m really living for, anyway, and I kinda get excited over the idea of Death paying me a visit. No, I’m not in a HURRY to die, but I’m not exactly running from it,...
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