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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: I defeat myself |
goatfish57 |
Posted: 06 Dec 2015, 10:40 am
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Looking at jobs, i found one and said to myself "wow, I've done all this stuff before and I'm good at it and I'm going to apply" then... I saw a detail and said "potential problem with a small portion of job duty, maybe I shouldn't apply" I'll apply and address potential issue i... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: dealing with grief as an aspie |
goatfish57 |
Posted: 06 Dec 2015, 10:06 am
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Replies: 15 Views: 1,103
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Sorry to hear of your loss. There is a hole in your life. It takes time to heal.
Is there anything specific that is troubling you? |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: ways of coping with your depression and building self esteem |
goatfish57 |
Posted: 06 Dec 2015, 6:02 am
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Replies: 355 Views: 228,443
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This topic is relevant to me. I am a target for an elderly aunt's rage. Thanksgiving was a nightmare. She could barely control her hate and contempt. I did my best to deflect it. But, it hurt, to my very core. Every minor faux pas, attempt to be amusing or even charming was smacked down. She was spi... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Trouble focusing on one thing when you have to switch focus |
goatfish57 |
Posted: 06 Dec 2015, 5:44 am
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Replies: 7 Views: 575
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Yes, I have trained myself to stay focused on a single task. Being interrupted causes me great consternation. This was especially troublesome in a busy work environment.
I have large time buffers around my activities to address the problem you are discussing. |
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Forum: Computers, Math, Science, and Technology Topic: Favourite areas in mathematics |
goatfish57 |
Posted: 06 Dec 2015, 5:34 am
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Replies: 35 Views: 1,965
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Differential Equations looks like it'll help bridge the gap between a real-world situation and a mathematical equation. Probability is like a giant blind-spot for me, I haven't even taken statistics. The sequences and series part of calc ||| was disorienting. I understand. For me, probability theor... |
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Forum: Computers, Math, Science, and Technology Topic: Favourite areas in mathematics |
goatfish57 |
Posted: 05 Dec 2015, 5:01 pm
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Replies: 35 Views: 1,965
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Combinatorics, probability theory and computer algorithms from Donald Knuth |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Tollerance towards autism as a disguise for contempt? |
goatfish57 |
Posted: 05 Dec 2015, 4:47 pm
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Replies: 30 Views: 876
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I just had another thought on this topic...in my humble opinion i also think that because it is often a hidden disability, it is not seen as a disability as much as a character flaw. People who don't understand autism or don't pick up on it right away see us as weak, annoying, or irritating--and th... |
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Forum: Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation Topic: Why so many identified with Spock before hearing of asperger |
goatfish57 |
Posted: 05 Dec 2015, 4:40 pm
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Replies: 18 Views: 914
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Kuraudo777 wrote: ^It gave you hope? For what? *curious*
LOL, yes, hope for a world where differences could be solved with humor and good spirit. |
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Forum: Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation Topic: Why so many identified with Spock before hearing of asperger |
goatfish57 |
Posted: 05 Dec 2015, 4:35 pm
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Replies: 18 Views: 914
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My favorite part about Spock was the confusion/tension with McCoy and Kirk. It cracked me up and gave me hope. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Tollerance towards autism as a disguise for contempt? |
goatfish57 |
Posted: 04 Dec 2015, 7:46 am
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Replies: 30 Views: 876
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Wanting better for your family and children is noble. Protecting them and providing for them is difficult. There are people I see as everyday heroes. They face down and battle their demons everyday. People don't see it. All they see is a person, a bit odd, who is struggling. Most just walk away, to... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Tollerance towards autism as a disguise for contempt? |
goatfish57 |
Posted: 04 Dec 2015, 6:18 am
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Replies: 30 Views: 876
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Thank you, this topic is full of honest and intelligent replies. It makes me think about who I am in this world. My life is easy. My parents did their best. They had their own demons to fight. I was well educated and given a head start. My pain from living in this world was not addressed. Which is o... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Tollerance towards autism as a disguise for contempt? |
goatfish57 |
Posted: 03 Dec 2015, 3:36 pm
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Replies: 30 Views: 876
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You are correct. The world is a tough place. Trying to distinguish between kindness, compassion, contempt and pity is brutal. I am guilty of contempt and pity. I also take pleasure in kindness and compassion. I try to be a good person, not always successful at it. Yes, it is my fault. Yes, I must tr... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Tollerance towards autism as a disguise for contempt? |
goatfish57 |
Posted: 03 Dec 2015, 8:50 am
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Replies: 30 Views: 876
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Yes, many people cover up their guilt and fear through good actions. There are few saints out there. Most, just try to survive. I see contempt and hate. It is rampant in this world. Looking for the good makes it easier for me to tolerate the bad. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Living With Pain |
goatfish57 |
Posted: 03 Dec 2015, 8:26 am
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Replies: 30 Views: 967
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Pain is a presence in my life. It can sap my will, strength and leave me in a very dark place. I understand. Take it one day at a time. Pain meds can help, but be very careful. Mindfulness and exercise helps me get through it. Good luck, be strong and brave. EDIT: Read about your diagnosis. My heart... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: sociopath vrs aspies |
goatfish57 |
Posted: 03 Dec 2015, 8:19 am
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Replies: 77 Views: 3,860
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One trait of highly successful people is psychopathic tendencies. Being able to make difficult decisions is tough. Handling the guilt, remorse and consequences of your actions takes effort. That effort is beyond some people. I am not defending psycho/sociopaths. God knows, there are many nasty peopl... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Dogs jumping up on you |
goatfish57 |
Posted: 02 Dec 2015, 8:38 am
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Replies: 20 Views: 740
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Usually, I don't mind. It is kind of fun to make eye contact with a happy dog. Their expressive faces make me smile. |
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