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 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: I defeat myself

 Post subject: Re: I defeat myself
Posted: 06 Dec 2015, 10:40 am 

Replies: 14
Views: 983


Looking at jobs, i found one and said to myself "wow, I've done all this stuff before and I'm good at it and I'm going to apply" then... I saw a detail and said "potential problem with a small portion of job duty, maybe I shouldn't apply" I'll apply and address potential issue i...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: dealing with grief as an aspie

Posted: 06 Dec 2015, 10:06 am 

Replies: 15
Views: 1,103


Sorry to hear of your loss. There is a hole in your life. It takes time to heal.

Is there anything specific that is troubling you?

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: ways of coping with your depression and building self esteem

Posted: 06 Dec 2015, 6:02 am 

Replies: 355
Views: 228,443


This topic is relevant to me. I am a target for an elderly aunt's rage. Thanksgiving was a nightmare. She could barely control her hate and contempt. I did my best to deflect it. But, it hurt, to my very core. Every minor faux pas, attempt to be amusing or even charming was smacked down. She was spi...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Trouble focusing on one thing when you have to switch focus

Posted: 06 Dec 2015, 5:44 am 

Replies: 7
Views: 575


Yes, I have trained myself to stay focused on a single task. Being interrupted causes me great consternation. This was especially troublesome in a busy work environment.

I have large time buffers around my activities to address the problem you are discussing.

 Forum: Computers, Math, Science, and Technology   Topic: Favourite areas in mathematics

Posted: 06 Dec 2015, 5:34 am 

Replies: 35
Views: 1,965


Differential Equations looks like it'll help bridge the gap between a real-world situation and a mathematical equation. Probability is like a giant blind-spot for me, I haven't even taken statistics. The sequences and series part of calc ||| was disorienting. I understand. For me, probability theor...

 Forum: Computers, Math, Science, and Technology   Topic: Favourite areas in mathematics

Posted: 05 Dec 2015, 5:01 pm 

Replies: 35
Views: 1,965


Combinatorics, probability theory and computer algorithms from Donald Knuth

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Tollerance towards autism as a disguise for contempt?

Posted: 05 Dec 2015, 4:47 pm 

Replies: 30
Views: 876


I just had another thought on this topic...in my humble opinion i also think that because it is often a hidden disability, it is not seen as a disability as much as a character flaw. People who don't understand autism or don't pick up on it right away see us as weak, annoying, or irritating--and th...

 Forum: Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation   Topic: Why so many identified with Spock before hearing of asperger

Posted: 05 Dec 2015, 4:40 pm 

Replies: 18
Views: 914


Kuraudo777 wrote:
^It gave you hope? For what? *curious*


LOL, yes, hope for a world where differences could be solved with humor and good spirit.

 Forum: Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation   Topic: Why so many identified with Spock before hearing of asperger

Posted: 05 Dec 2015, 4:35 pm 

Replies: 18
Views: 914


My favorite part about Spock was the confusion/tension with McCoy and Kirk. It cracked me up and gave me hope.

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Tollerance towards autism as a disguise for contempt?

Posted: 04 Dec 2015, 7:46 am 

Replies: 30
Views: 876


Wanting better for your family and children is noble. Protecting them and providing for them is difficult. There are people I see as everyday heroes. They face down and battle their demons everyday. People don't see it. All they see is a person, a bit odd, who is struggling. Most just walk away, to...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Tollerance towards autism as a disguise for contempt?

Posted: 04 Dec 2015, 6:18 am 

Replies: 30
Views: 876


Thank you, this topic is full of honest and intelligent replies. It makes me think about who I am in this world. My life is easy. My parents did their best. They had their own demons to fight. I was well educated and given a head start. My pain from living in this world was not addressed. Which is o...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Tollerance towards autism as a disguise for contempt?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015, 3:36 pm 

Replies: 30
Views: 876


You are correct. The world is a tough place. Trying to distinguish between kindness, compassion, contempt and pity is brutal. I am guilty of contempt and pity. I also take pleasure in kindness and compassion. I try to be a good person, not always successful at it. Yes, it is my fault. Yes, I must tr...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Tollerance towards autism as a disguise for contempt?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015, 8:50 am 

Replies: 30
Views: 876


Yes, many people cover up their guilt and fear through good actions. There are few saints out there. Most, just try to survive. I see contempt and hate. It is rampant in this world. Looking for the good makes it easier for me to tolerate the bad.

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Living With Pain

 Post subject: Re: Living With Pain
Posted: 03 Dec 2015, 8:26 am 

Replies: 30
Views: 967


Pain is a presence in my life. It can sap my will, strength and leave me in a very dark place. I understand. Take it one day at a time. Pain meds can help, but be very careful. Mindfulness and exercise helps me get through it. Good luck, be strong and brave. EDIT: Read about your diagnosis. My heart...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: sociopath vrs aspies

 Post subject: Re: sociopath vrs aspies
Posted: 03 Dec 2015, 8:19 am 

Replies: 77
Views: 3,860


One trait of highly successful people is psychopathic tendencies. Being able to make difficult decisions is tough. Handling the guilt, remorse and consequences of your actions takes effort. That effort is beyond some people. I am not defending psycho/sociopaths. God knows, there are many nasty peopl...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Dogs jumping up on you

 Post subject: Re: Dogs jumping up on you
Posted: 02 Dec 2015, 8:38 am 

Replies: 20
Views: 740


Usually, I don't mind. It is kind of fun to make eye contact with a happy dog. Their expressive faces make me smile.
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