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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Abuse of Disabled (ASD) within romantic relationships |
| Champagne supernova |
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Posted: 15 May 2021, 7:21 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 2,009
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| I know what you mean, people choose to believe what they want to believe. Even when they don't hear both sides of the story. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being controlled |
| Champagne supernova |
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Posted: 13 May 2021, 3:29 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 770
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| Yeah that's what I thought. I think she was playing games trying to make me jealous, but when other girls talked to me she was the one who got jealous. I hate all these silly games. I asked her if she'd wanna go to other places but oh no she'll only meet me when she's drunk in a pub or bar, very wei... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being controlled |
| Champagne supernova |
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Posted: 13 May 2021, 2:34 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 770
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| She wasn't a proper girlfriend, and she was still talking to other guys. I didn't go out of my way to talk to other girls, they were the ones chatting to me. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Trouble climaxing |
| Champagne supernova |
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Posted: 12 May 2021, 12:44 am
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Replies: 69
Views: 674
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| I have big trouble climaxing. I need to be deeply connected to the woman before I can come in sex or anything else. I had a few one nighters and was having sex for an hour but nothing happened. Some days it's worse than others but I really need to be in the mood for it. Its made relationships tricki... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Life advice for possible Aspergers male |
| Champagne supernova |
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Posted: 12 May 2021, 12:33 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 741
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| Thanks for the advice. Yeah I get that, I would just agree to do anything when I was younger, but now I pick and choose what to do. I prefer going for a run on my own to meeting groups of people. This helps me to get my head sorted out. Some people think this is weird but I'm glad I've found a commu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is he (ASD male) in love with me or obsessed? |
| Champagne supernova |
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Posted: 12 May 2021, 12:27 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 2,227
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| Hi I would say he's towards the obsessed side of things. If he was maybe overwhelmed by things then I would feel sorry for him. But he's been pursuing you, and he's got a girlfriend so he obviously got some confidence. So I would be up front with him. It's not like he's going to be lonely. I wouldn'... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Girl 28 in a relationship for 6 months with someone else |
| Champagne supernova |
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Posted: 12 May 2021, 12:08 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 726
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| You can't fall in love with someone that's already in a relationship, it's just going to end in heartbreak. I would break contact with her, be a bit distant and if she asks what's been going on just say I'm giving you time/space to be with your boyfriend. Then she will realise she will have to break... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Abuse of Disabled (ASD) within romantic relationships |
| Champagne supernova |
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Posted: 11 May 2021, 12:10 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 2,009
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| Yes, I totally agree. This is something that we all need to keep an eye on. When we are in love and happy of course we want to please our partners but be careful of giving them too much. Too much of your time, too much effort and too much of your money. I have almost been in relationships with peopl... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What do crushes feel like to you? |
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Posted: 11 May 2021, 10:14 am
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Replies: 20
Views: 1,224
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| I would say fancying someone is like a dull feeling in my stomach. I look at them and I don't see their face I see sunshine, endless summers, water fountains etc. My heart races when I see them and I miss them when they are gone. When they leave I think oh I should have said this or that. I'll say t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is this girl at work interested in me ? |
| Champagne supernova |
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Posted: 11 May 2021, 10:08 am
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Replies: 52
Views: 6,235
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| No you're fine, I've checked with HR! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: She's In Love, But I'm Not |
| Champagne supernova |
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Posted: 11 May 2021, 10:01 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 531
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| Yes you need to be totally honest, if it was a one off and a joke it would be OK. But it looks like she's got the wrong idea. Be firm with her say no I'm here to help you, I've already got a girlfriend. Even if you haven't got one. And if she doesn't get it you're gonna have to stop going there to h... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is this girl at work interested in me ? |
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Posted: 11 May 2021, 9:57 am
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Replies: 52
Views: 6,235
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| Next time you're close to her give her a hug and if she smiles give her a kiss and see how she reacts. Don't bother with all this asking her out nonsense. If she enjoys the kiss she might even invite you back to hers soon. After that you can decide how to meet up etc etc |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you miss someone right now? |
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Posted: 11 May 2021, 9:38 am
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Replies: 2,709
Views: 457,491
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| Yes I miss a loved one. We were close at college, and promised to meet up after university. But we met at New year's eve when we both came home for Xmas holidays and had a night together. We saw each other briefly a few times over the next year and had a few other brief nights together. But I felt l... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Before I Knew What Autism Was... |
| Champagne supernova |
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Posted: 09 May 2021, 4:14 pm
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Replies: 43
Views: 1,697
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| Yes I totally agree with you and I think a lot of this comes back to the masking. I wish I could live in a world where I didn't need to mask, but I have two children, I need to go to work and seem normal. I've always put others first sometimes even to my detriment. People can see this and I've been ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Autism test? |
| Champagne supernova |
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Posted: 07 May 2021, 6:09 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 1,102
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| I got a score of 169 on RAADS-R test and 40/50on the AQ test. I always thought I could be borderline, some days I feel more autistic than others. I certainly don't fit in with society enough to feel welcomed by normal people. But I can flit in and out of a conversation with one person if I concentra... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being controlled |
| Champagne supernova |
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Posted: 07 May 2021, 5:55 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 770
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| Hello. Does anyone else feel like they are being controlled by friends etc? I didn't feel like it at the time, but now looking back to when I was younger it does seem like friends and romantic interests were trying to control me. I would be at a party and these girls who were my friends wouldn't let... |
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