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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Women changing men. |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2014, 10:12 pm
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Replies: 87
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| I used to be extremely harsh and unemotional with him, but I learned that he needed some softening in my words and thoughtful gestures in his love language (referring to The Five Love Languages). So I grew for him as well. I was wondering if someone was going to mention The Five Love Languages here... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Which WP members would you wish to meet? |
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Posted: 26 Dec 2013, 11:25 pm
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Replies: 1,912
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There are a lot of members I'd like to meet here, almost the whole forum, in fact  Hmmm...redrobin62, definitely! Also, Shatbat, equestriatola, Ferraluce, Kjas, metaldanielle! I also wouldn't mind seeing again the members I've met already, like Kinme, scubasteve, and MathGirl!! ! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Guys: Would you rather date.... |
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Posted: 24 Dec 2013, 1:29 pm
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Replies: 15
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| I don't think I've ever heard the latter before this point. What does it mean/What's the difference? :s Ladettes are tom boyish where as ladies are well, lady like I guess. I am neither being an eclectic mix of all sorts. In that case, if I had to choose, my tastes would probably sway more towards ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Guys: Would you rather date.... |
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Posted: 24 Dec 2013, 11:54 am
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Replies: 15
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| I don't think I've ever heard the latter before this point. What does it mean/What's the difference? :s |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Fadeaway, Or When People Reject You W/O Rejecting You |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2013, 10:15 pm
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Replies: 46
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| I dislike being on the receiving end of this, so I try not to dish it out myself. The only time I will is if I've communicated directly to the person and they still don't get it after many different methods (which is fairly rare, in my experiences). |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: TYPICAL LOVE AND DATING THREAD |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2013, 11:49 am
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Replies: 60
Views: 3,350
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| *comment that addresses the OP, but gets overlooked unless deemed stupid or controversial* |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Men, would you date a hot girl with a crap personality? |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2013, 10:37 am
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Replies: 62
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| Personally, I don't like using the word "hot" to describe someone I'm attracted to. That aside, attractiveness entails personality for me, so I wouldn't be able to date someone solely on looks. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Acting outside your age |
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Posted: 16 Dec 2013, 10:24 pm
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Replies: 25
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| Physically, people mistake me for much older than I am. Behaviour-wise, some say I act much younger (and this is true for some aspects). I suppose somewhere between those two perceptions of me lie my actual age |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Aspies do have empathy. |
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Posted: 16 Dec 2013, 6:35 pm
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Replies: 21
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| I don't generally lack empathy. I generally know what people will feel and so can judge what to say and what not to say. I don't like being blunt, and if I do want to be blunt in a situation, I will be aware that this may upset them. We can all be blunt sometimes, but usually I know better not to b... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Feeling noise as physical pain |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2013, 10:33 pm
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Replies: 45
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| Oh gosh, YES! Anything that happens suddenly or unexpectedly and it happens! I try to explain this to my (mostly NT) friends, but they don't seem to get it! |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: The 5 Weirdest Ways Music Can Mess With the Human Brain |
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Posted: 10 Dec 2013, 11:37 am
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Replies: 5
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| The Aspies here who are musicians, what do you say? Do you think you have higher functioning in those areas as a result of studying music? I know I have trouble focusing in on one conversation when there are a bunch going on around me. Did you notice an improvement after several years of playing an... |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: Does using walkthroughs help you? |
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Posted: 09 Dec 2013, 6:11 pm
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Replies: 27
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staremaster wrote: I will use a walkthrough after completing the game once, or after a certain level of frustration is reached.
Otherwise it ruins all the suspense.
^ This. Sometimes I'll watch a YouTube clip of the game on top of that, but I try not to spoil it for myself. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: article on dating while aspie |
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Posted: 07 Dec 2013, 11:38 pm
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| As far as dating goes, it's no different than friendships. There are people in the world who will appreciate directness and those who prefer to play NT games. You can drive yourself crazy trying to fit in with the game players, but you'll be happier in the long run if you avoid them, and stick with... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: New kind of autism organization |
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Posted: 06 Dec 2013, 10:07 pm
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Replies: 48
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Hmmm...after having read through this thread and the original that spawned this one, I must say all this is quite interesting! I am not sure what exactly I could contribute, but I'll do my best where possible  |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being over animated |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2013, 5:58 pm
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Replies: 10
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| People treat my default state as over-animated, often with a series comments similar to "Turn down the volume on your laugh". Eventually, it got so tiresome to try to accommodate their criticisms, so I said "screw it" and figure if they can't handle my default state, that's their problem. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What do Aspergers and Global Warming have in common? |
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Posted: 04 Dec 2013, 10:31 pm
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Replies: 1
Views: 519
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Jayo wrote: 7. AL GORE has been a long-speculated closet Aspie - now there's an inconvenient truth for you 
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