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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What counts as 'losing your virginity'? |
| Joe90 |
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Posted: 05 Jul 2023, 9:50 am
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Replies: 69
Views: 563
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| If a lesbian has had sex for the first time with another lesbian then I think it counts as losing their virginity even though they haven't had a penis inside their vagina. |
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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: PTSD/CPTSD/TRAUMA SUPPORT THREAD |
| Joe90 |
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Posted: 05 Jul 2023, 9:42 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 660
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| even though I'm supposed to be as hard as f*****g nails. It's so embarrassing to become a child like that. Who says? Embarrassment is not the first feel I get when my mind reverts to being a child due to triggers, it's just pure fear, after the fact I just feel faulty. If an object makes you feel c... |
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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: PTSD/CPTSD/TRAUMA SUPPORT THREAD |
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Posted: 05 Jul 2023, 7:51 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 660
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| even though I'm supposed to be as hard as f*****g nails. It's so embarrassing to become a child like that. Who says? Embarrassment is not the first feel I get when my mind reverts to being a child due to triggers, it's just pure fear, after the fact I just feel faulty. If an object makes you feel c... |
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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: PTSD/CPTSD/TRAUMA SUPPORT THREAD |
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Posted: 05 Jul 2023, 6:58 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 660
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| Flashbacks all day yesterday. Screamed and shouted my way through my therapy session. Triggered to f*ck on WP. I luckily took a fluffy jacket with me to my therapy session yesterday so at least I had something to cuddle. I'll do that in future I think even though I'm supposed to be as hard as f****... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: How do you feel about body hair? |
| Joe90 |
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Posted: 05 Jul 2023, 6:31 am
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Replies: 36
Views: 4,893
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| I don't really go by the "do what you like, people will judge whatever you do" attitude. Although I do feel judged in public places just for being normal, I still feel it won't do me much justice for myself to encourage judgement. It's like deciding to never wash your hands again because y... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What counts as 'losing your virginity'? |
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Posted: 05 Jul 2023, 6:28 am
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Replies: 69
Views: 563
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| I don't think I've had the penis-right-in-vagina type of sex properly due to my abnormal pain sensitivity I seem to have, but I've still had sex in other ways, and if it wasn't for my pain sensitivity I would not physically be a virgin at all. But I still don't consider myself as a virgin. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Red Flags |
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Posted: 05 Jul 2023, 5:43 am
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Replies: 674
Views: 29,689
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| People are allowed to criticise large age gap relationships here, and I'm choosing to be offended because it seems to be the trend these days to be offended. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Growing up without a diagnosis |
| Joe90 |
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Posted: 05 Jul 2023, 5:41 am
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Replies: 51
Views: 601
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| A lot of younger people here weren't diagnosed in childhood either. Often I read "I'm 30 and just been diagnosed..." I wonder how things would have been had I'd gone unnoticed until at least late teens. I may have fell behind in school but I think my social life would have been much better... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Food Fights Are Among the Dumbest NT Behaviors |
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Posted: 05 Jul 2023, 5:25 am
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Replies: 37
Views: 1,002
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| I've never seen a food fight. Guess I haven't lived a privileged life. :D I've never thrown something at people either unless you count playing catch. What's the deal with throwing stuff? Don't people realize that they have to clean up after? I absolutely hate cleaning so I'm always careful not to ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Which of these qualities in a partner are deal-breakers? |
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Posted: 04 Jul 2023, 3:48 pm
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Replies: 51
Views: 1,332
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| Ah, gotcha. I selected "religious" (though that depends), "gets drunk at weekends" (that also depends), "does marijuana (or any drugs)", and "dislikes cats" (:lol: ). OK the last one may be less serious, but being a cat lover myself it would make it easier if ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Which of these qualities in a partner are deal-breakers? |
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Posted: 04 Jul 2023, 3:37 pm
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Replies: 51
Views: 1,332
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| Hmm, what do you mean by deal-breaker? Does that mean qualities in a partner that you don't like but still love your partner? |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Let me rant |
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Posted: 04 Jul 2023, 3:04 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 271
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| I just hate when they sweep their hardwood floors - which seem to be in every room. They usually start sweeping the room above the bathroom (which is also their bathroom) whenever I'm relaxing in the bath - with NC headphones on! The broom clangs against all the skirting-boards and it vibrates down ... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Bathroom |
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Posted: 04 Jul 2023, 2:54 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 381
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| I don't have any issues with going to the bathroom. I do get self-conscious if the stalls aren't very soundproof and everyone can hear what you're doing. When I'm pooping I need 100% privacy. Yes I know everyone poops and all that but I still don't like people knowing when I'm doing a poop. It's pri... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: unfortunately I hate when people ask to be friends with me |
| Joe90 |
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Posted: 04 Jul 2023, 10:08 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 654
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No-one has asked to be friends with me, as I didn't think it was a thing to ask to be friends. I thought it was just a connection that happens automatically.
I only recall people asking me to be their friend at school. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: what are your thoughts on the "high functioning", etc labels |
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Posted: 04 Jul 2023, 8:25 am
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Replies: 35
Views: 1,180
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| Well the way I see it autism isn't about two extremes, but most people on the autism spectrum can feel they lean more towards the high-functioning side or the low-functioning side, or just hover somewhere in the middle with both high and low-functioning tendencies but in different areas of their li... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Falsifying occupational credentials |
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Posted: 04 Jul 2023, 7:13 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 483
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| What are some examples of people that you have heard of that successfully falsified occupational credentials and gotten jobs? What are some examples of bad things that your coworkers allegedly got away with doing? Not sure if this answers your questions but at my work the boss (who isn't there any ... |
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