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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I Would Prefer to Date an Autistic Guy, but... |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2022, 3:34 pm
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I don’t think you’ll find too many Autistics who are interested in conventions, a good many of us don’t like large crowds and loud noise, or don’t hate those things but can only handle them for short periods of time. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Can anti-age gap people afford to be so picky in dating? |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2022, 11:02 am
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I’m against large age gap relationships because their existence generally makes dating harder for men in their 20s if a significant chunk of the women in that same age group are dating men old enough to be their fathers. |
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Forum: Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation Topic: Controversy over Pathological Demand Avoidance |
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Posted: 29 Aug 2022, 10:55 am
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I’ve also heard an alternative name for PDA, “Pervasive Demand for Autonomy.” Sounds a lot less medical and scary than “Pathological Demand Aboidance.” |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Your favorite bands / artists? |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2022, 12:40 pm
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Coldplay Bon Jovi Journey REO Speedwagon Daughtry Goo Goo Dolls Toto Linkin Park Owl City My Chemical Romance Green Day Eddie Money Styx Bryan Adams Simon & Garfunkel John Mayer Tom Petty Fleetwood Mac Genesis Phil Collins Matchbox Twenty U2 Bruce Springsteen Crosby, Stills & Nash Neil Young |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Qualities Do You Look For In A Partner? |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2022, 12:40 am
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Replies: 62 Views: 2,676
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Similar interests to me Kind Adventurous Intelligent Communicates directly rather than through dropping hints, and is ok with being communicated with in this way Healthy weight Is ok being with a guy who works in a profession that isn’t known for paying a high salary Good cook Non-crazy parents Not ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating Coach? |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2022, 12:23 am
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I imagine it could be difficult to find a dating coach with knowledge and experience in working with us Autistic folk. |
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Forum: Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation Topic: Anyone else *not* have a strong opinion on Autism Speaks? |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2022, 12:15 am
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Replies: 28 Views: 1,424
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An Autistic person not having a strong opinion about Autism Speaks is like a Jewish person not having a strong opinion about the German Nazi Party or a Black person not having a strong opinion about the KKK. |
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: MODERATOR ATTENTION: How to get help when you need it |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2022, 3:12 am
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This should be moved to the Art/Writing/Music forum as it’s out of place wherr it currently is. Also, doesn’t WP have some sort of rules/guidelines relating to self-promo? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Sexless long-term relationships |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2022, 3:03 am
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Replies: 27 Views: 1,481
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Sex does not have to be the be-all-end-all of a relationship. |
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Forum: Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation Topic: Openly aspie politicians? |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2022, 2:49 am
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On another note relating to Autistic politicians, Lydis X. Z. Brown is currently running for a state delegate seat in Maryland: https://brownformaryland.com/
(no, I wasn’t paid to post this) |
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Forum: Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation Topic: Calif. Teen with Autism Died After Being Restrained for More |
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Posted: 25 Jul 2022, 5:46 pm
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https://www.msn.com/en-ca/news/crime/calif-teen-with-autism-died-after-being-restrained-for-more-than-an-hour-3-school-employees-indicted/ar-AAZXjjV?ocid=msedgntp&cvid=645c4a6d08ab4dccbceaed5a6eda3003 Last week, a grand jury indicted a defunct California school for students with special needs, a... |
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Forum: Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation Topic: Upcoming Netflix drama ‘Extraordinary Attorney Woo’ |
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Posted: 30 May 2022, 1:32 am
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This sounds like the Lawyer version of The Good Doctor. Do we know if any Autistic people had any input in developing the show / main character, of if the actor playing the Autistic lawyer is themself Autistic? |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: 4-year-old daughter exhausted after school |
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Posted: 24 May 2022, 10:47 pm
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Lunella wrote: if there are none then home schooling with private tutors would be a last resort. The problem is the school, the mainstream system doesn't cater for children with autism.
If you actually read OP’s post then you would know that homeschooling is illegal in Spain where they live. |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Why does my son avoid the baby? |
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Posted: 22 May 2022, 2:33 pm
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I think there could definitely be a sensory aspect to this as well as possible jealousy. Perhaps something to do with the sound of eating mushy foods, or the baby's crying? |
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Forum: Español, Nederlands, Deutsch, Français Topic: A-Z of words in any language but English |
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Posted: 11 May 2022, 10:56 pm
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外國人 / 外国人 (wàiguórén)
“Foreigner” in Chinese |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Aspergers and singing? |
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Posted: 11 May 2022, 10:47 pm
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Replies: 58 Views: 11,298
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I love to sing, and took a few singing lessons when I was in high school, though I never had a great technique. Couple that with me having a baritone voice and a love for 80s rock bands like Bon Jovi and Journey and you get permanent vocal damage…my perfect pitch gone to waste. |
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