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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: is it wrong to say the word vagina? |
| Einfari |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2016, 9:04 pm
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Replies: 23
Views: 430
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| I don't know why people are so weirded out by words for sexual organs because they are organs just like you heart or liver. The real, medically correct words are way better than the euphemisms people come up with. Then again, I work in healthcare, so such words haven't made me feel uncomfortable in ... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Ethics of Neutering |
| Einfari |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2016, 12:08 pm
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Replies: 110
Views: 4,708
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| I've always had my pets spayed and neutered because there are already too many in shelters or strays without homes. I think for most animals with the exception of humans, dolphins, and bonobos, reproduction is is more of a necessity rather than a choice. Pets are actually less stressed when they are... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Ever been in love? |
| Einfari |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2016, 2:37 am
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Replies: 50
Views: 3,462
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| I've been in love once, right now actually. I thought I was in love before that to realize I actually wasn't. Being in love for me is having someone who understands me and is there emotionally. It also involves always having someone to go out and do things with. Not to mention a lot of snuggles and ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: I'm a 18 year old Virgin |
| Einfari |
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Posted: 04 Nov 2016, 9:21 pm
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Replies: 52
Views: 761
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| 18 isn't that old to still being a virgin. A lot of my friends didn't lose their virginity until their early 20s and I was 20 when I lost mine. The first time kind of sucked because the guy was a player, but my boyfriend now(who was 21 and a virgin when we started dating) is amazing. If you find the... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Dealing with down time/no friends in college |
| Einfari |
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Posted: 04 Nov 2016, 9:00 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,341
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| Perhaps join a club for something your interested in. That's how I met many of my friends at college. Or perhaps volunteer for something, or if your college has any events that would interest you, you may try them. This 100%. This made my entire college experience, allowed me to have multiple frien... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Got dizzy and overwhelmed with a patient |
| Einfari |
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Posted: 02 Nov 2016, 12:21 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 596
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| As someone who wants to work in healthcare, I don't usually get dizzy, but have occasional dizziness with bad smells or if I am just dehydrated. Maybe find the exact trigger of it and maybe wear a mask? I'm sure the dizziness will improve as you are exposed to more clinical situations as well. Also,... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Is this an unrealistic expectation of a job? |
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Posted: 11 Oct 2016, 5:31 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,089
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| I disagree with the fact that jobs automatically lead to depression. I would say not working would be more likely to cause me to have depression because I would no longer have anything to work for or survive with. I don't know how old you are, but expecting to live with your parents your entire life... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
| Einfari |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2016, 2:48 pm
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Replies: 9,242
Views: 638,632
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| I always think it is so strange that the things about most NTs that I can't stand such as their inconsistency, vagueness, reliance on assumptions, and preferences for fewer details is also what a lot of NTs hate about other NTs. If they hate it as much as I do, why do so many of them still operate o... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Who doesn't want babies? |
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Posted: 20 Jul 2016, 8:47 pm
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Replies: 51
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| I like being around kids, as I volunteered with them for a long time, but it would be a bad idea for me to have them. I'm still considering adoption, but the difficult part is that I know my boyfriend does want kids someday. I just know that I shouldn't have them because of crap genetics. Most moms ... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Aspie women: how is your workforce experience? |
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Posted: 20 Jul 2016, 8:15 pm
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Replies: 50
Views: 6,227
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| I currently work as a medical scribe(someone who does charting for doctors) in an emergency department. I love the job because I get to learn a lot about being a doctor, but trying to adapt to doctor's work style has definitely been a challenge. Some are very clear and easy to work with, while other... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: NT communication/success thoughts |
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Posted: 29 May 2016, 6:59 pm
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Replies: 0
Views: 284
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| The two most common forms of NT communication are pronouns and assumptions, both of which are extremely vague. They tend to address people as "you," "he," or "she," much more often than using their actual names. They also assume that others they address have the same as... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Is prom even worth going to? |
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Posted: 26 May 2016, 11:44 pm
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Replies: 31
Views: 2,258
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| I never got a date to any of my high school proms, but I went with a group of friends. We at least had fun dress shopping and going out to eat before even though the dance was relatively meh. It would have been fun to be asked in a fun way though. Back then I couldn't get a date for the life of me u... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Crushes |
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Posted: 22 May 2016, 12:04 am
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Replies: 51
Views: 4,785
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| I've had crushes since I was in Kindergarten and I'm 21 now. My last real innocent "crush" was probably in high school, but I have had other men I've been interesting in since, including my now boyfriend. |
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Forum: Stats Topic: What age first kiss? |
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Posted: 13 May 2016, 3:33 am
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Replies: 34
Views: 14,671
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Forum: Stats Topic: What age were you when you got your first boy/girlfriend? |
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Posted: 13 May 2016, 3:30 am
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Replies: 33
Views: 3,437
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| I started going on dates at 17, but had my first real relationship at 19. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Waking in the middle of the night for sex |
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Posted: 09 May 2016, 9:50 pm
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Replies: 37
Views: 332
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| Would you find it annoying to be woken up in the middle of the night for sex? There are some times I've woken up randomly horny and then woken up my bf for sex but I worry its will start to annoy him Where do you come from and are there more like you? :lol: England and there are lots of hypersexual... |
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