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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspies are mostly right about things |
| Ecomatt91 |
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Posted: 22 Aug 2018, 4:22 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,269
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| My psychologist and research networks spoken to me recently about how NTs see in relationships, dating and sex are a 'game' while Aspies are straightforward with their decisions. NTs are mostly profound and cult in social privileges. Aspies are honest, blunt and caring whether what status or goal of... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How common are female aspies who haven't dated yet? |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2018, 5:20 pm
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Replies: 106
Views: 4,706
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| Yes theres a lot of inherent problems for ND women in relationships and I think that there should be some serious education for asd females about relationships provided early on in the school system. Specifically about all the things they probably wont realise, and all the pitfalls that come with b... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How common are female aspies who haven't dated yet? |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2018, 5:19 pm
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Replies: 106
Views: 4,706
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| This conversation starting to get interesting. I think there something about personality and vibes with NTs these days. Social privileges and pressure making things happen only for them even if they stand around they still get asked out. Of course. It's pretty subtle things that are involved with N... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How common are female aspies who haven't dated yet? |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2018, 5:14 am
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Replies: 106
Views: 4,706
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| This conversation starting to get interesting. I think there something about personality and vibes with NTs these days. Social privileges and pressure making things happen only for them even if they stand around they still get asked out. I met couple of people in my life who used to be shy, introver... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How common are female aspies who haven't dated yet? |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2018, 5:27 pm
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Replies: 106
Views: 4,706
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| 99.9% of autistic women in their 20's in my city are mostly lesbians and taken. LMAO - what is your source for this statistic? Right. You don't have one. Now Bea... It’s totally possible that he asked all the women in their 20’s in his city about their sexuality and partners and then crunched the n... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How common are female aspies who haven't dated yet? |
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Posted: 14 Aug 2018, 4:51 am
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Replies: 106
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| NT women in their 20's who are more single it because they understand their decisions that may impact their wellbeing So ecomat. Are you really proposing that people should form relationships regardless of how adversely it may affect their wellbeing? I know that you are not. I phrased this as a que... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How common are female aspies who haven't dated yet? |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2018, 5:11 pm
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Replies: 106
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| 99.9% of autistic women in their 20's in my city are mostly lesbians and taken. While less than 25% of autistic males are in same situation. Compared to female NTs in same age group there are more singles than aspie women. I am not sure how this is a case, even if it similar in other parts of the co... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How common are female aspies who haven't dated yet? |
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Posted: 11 Aug 2018, 4:46 pm
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Replies: 106
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| Women generally speaking have it easier finding a dating partner and especially a sexual partner. This is true regardless of whether you are autistic or not. Agreed here. It is true there are more females in their 20's no matter if they are AS or not they get dates easily. I understand the gender r... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Finding love |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2018, 10:08 pm
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Replies: 33
Views: 1,220
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| Lot of older generations find getting along with Aspies pretty well compared to current generation. Many are married, got a family, jobs and that etc. There are fewer late bloomers, virgins, dateless and unemployed ones in older generations. I am not sure how this relates to the increasing diagnosis... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Finding love |
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Posted: 05 Aug 2018, 5:14 pm
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Replies: 33
Views: 1,220
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| Interesting responses here, and also questions. I am going to take time to answer them. Bare with me. I am not a party pooper. I grew up living in party house, a family who invites uneducated friends who love drinking (Aussie culture), and stayed on campus college where people drink at every single ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Finding love |
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Posted: 05 Aug 2018, 5:31 am
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Replies: 33
Views: 1,220
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| Even if women in 30's crying out for available men, that is their problem because they didn't commit earlier. And if men in 30's crying out for available women, that is their problem because they didn't commit earlier. Maybe because they are extroverted, narcissists, party animals, zero passions an... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Finding love |
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Posted: 05 Aug 2018, 12:31 am
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Replies: 33
Views: 1,220
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| This [url]article: https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/generation-giving-up-love/989885[/url] totally answer majority of our questions. Likewise my other thread in the Haven section of the forums about why young people are very disposal in many things. Even if women in 30's crying out for available me... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Finding love |
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Posted: 04 Aug 2018, 5:55 pm
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Replies: 33
Views: 1,220
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| I am an Aspie male never been in a relationship at 27 years old, finding love is incredibly difficult. My life has changed a lot in past year that resulted me being a keynote speaker at conferences, public speaker, advocate with government and communities, running a business helping people with disa... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating a workaholic |
| Ecomatt91 |
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Posted: 04 Aug 2018, 5:34 pm
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Replies: 48
Views: 1,788
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| I am with kraftiekortie on this. I am not blaming OP but there a lot to learn about understanding priorities. Some days priorities change but work/job always come first individually. The relationship between two people is equal. OP I highly recommend you to speak to him about managing priorities. Yo... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Why life is so disposal? |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2018, 4:25 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 336
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| Everything I see people what they do and consume. Also everything I experienced in my life is making me to suffer disposal without my fault nor control. Why people focus on very short time commitment? Like freebies at market days and expos? So much waste and plastic crap to be dumped. Disposable pa... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Why life is so disposal? |
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Posted: 02 Aug 2018, 5:18 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 336
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| I am trying to make my point about disposal. War on waste is an example. The point is why people go for super short term gain while long term have pains? Think like: - rebound relationships effecting mental state of the person who is not being themselves - littering on roads and public places where ... |
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