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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My brother STILL has issues with me getting married and... |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2024, 8:38 am
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| You're right she is vulnerable. I'm surprised by the same thing that you're surprised by. I just think that if she wants sex and she has found someone to do it with then she should just go for it. You read so many posts on this site from people who struggle to even find a person willing to have sex... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My brother STILL has issues with me getting married and... |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2024, 3:31 am
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babybird wrote: This woman just wants sex not a science lesson.
Just whack a Johnny on him sweetheart and get the job done.
And yeah, no need to worry about STD's with a Johnny. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My brother STILL has issues with me getting married and... |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2024, 2:01 am
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| I would get your pap smear for the sake of it and you don't need to go before sex anyway. I noticed HPV seems to be a big cause of cancer and seeing you're a virgin I wouldn't be overly worried about it, especially at your age. I don't really know why people are getting a bit naggy about it. You do... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My brother STILL has issues with me getting married and... |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2024, 12:18 pm
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| Of course I'm not pitting them against each other but how else do I determine and choose which one is compatible with me to date and marry? It is mainly my neighbor Lorry and Cathy and my therapist but I could probably start having sex without getting a Pap smear right away But like I said I will d... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My brother STILL has issues with me getting married and... |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2024, 12:01 pm
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| Of course I'm not pitting them against each other but how else do I determine and choose which one is compatible with me to date and marry? It is mainly my neighbor Lorry and Cathy and my therapist but I could probably start having sex without getting a Pap smear right away But like I said I will d... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My brother STILL has issues with me getting married and... |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2024, 11:50 am
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| I think you could date one or more guys, and even have intimate relations with them, if that's your choice, without moving out. However I'm genuinely worried about what happens when Jerry shows up. That is just so hard to do and would be MUCH easier if I either lived with one of them or stayed at o... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Why cant I take my life seriously and take action |
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Posted: 14 Mar 2024, 4:04 pm
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| Demand avoidance ? I don't think it would be that. I noticed people who suffer from that are ones who are highly dependant on family and are "low achievers" because they refuse to engage in anything that pushes them. Sounds more like a lack of motivation caused by how draining autism can ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My brother STILL has issues with me getting married and... |
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Posted: 14 Mar 2024, 3:00 am
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| Sorry if you thought the post was directed at you, it was sort of for everyone. Seeing you're in your 30s, I honestly wouldn't worry about getting married. Waiting until marriage is a bit of an old leftover religious relic from the past. While people certainly can wait until marriage and it's up to... |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: We will succeed or not in brining back the mammoth? |
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Posted: 13 Mar 2024, 3:39 pm
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| The mammoth was uniquely adapted to living at a time when most of the world was covered in ice. I doubt that they'd survive in todays hot climate, especially as the global warming problem get's worse. There's no point to bringing them back. The tech is around today to keep them alive in zoo's and I... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A dog vs having a girlfriend! |
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Posted: 13 Mar 2024, 12:03 pm
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| Its still fundamentally good advice. Especially for lonely introverts. Getting a pet of any sort that you like, can help with anxiety, depression, and loneliness - which makes you feel better about yourself...which can indeed make you more attractive to others. Honestly, getting a dog was some of t... |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: We will succeed or not in brining back the mammoth? |
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Posted: 13 Mar 2024, 11:58 am
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| I don't think it's possible. DNA) degrades too much over thousands of years (I assume) |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A dog vs having a girlfriend! |
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Posted: 13 Mar 2024, 11:51 am
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| Having a dog with me in public makes me more approachable by everyone - its like a people magnet. Its done a lot for me in the way of making friends with all kinds of other people who probably wouldn't have noticed me otherwise. I'm seeing it in the context of what jamesy said immediately before th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A dog vs having a girlfriend! |
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Posted: 13 Mar 2024, 11:45 am
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| except that its NOT. Its something tangible that can be done to help with depression, loneliness, and anxiety. As well as Meeting new people - hence the advice. They advised a dog as a replacement for a girlfriend, not an actual way to meet women. To me, it looks like his parents made more of an in... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A dog vs having a girlfriend! |
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Posted: 13 Mar 2024, 11:31 am
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| except that its NOT. Its something tangible that can be done to help with depression, loneliness, and anxiety. As well as Meeting new people - hence the advice. They advised a dog as a replacement for a girlfriend, not an actual way to meet women. To me, it looks like his parents made more of an in... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A dog vs having a girlfriend! |
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Posted: 13 Mar 2024, 10:45 am
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| Jamesy, it's so obvious that a dog can't be considered "a substitute for a real romantic relationship" I'm surprised you feel a need to ask. DanielW summarised the benefits of a dog's companionship very well, and that's what the advice from your parents was about. I thought he was really ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My brother STILL has issues with me getting married and... |
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Posted: 13 Mar 2024, 10:23 am
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| And yes I’ve been reading the posts, and yes I agree that advising a woman to ask a man to have a vasectomy before they first have sex is a damned ridiculous idea. There’s a lot of the blind leading the blind here. I think some posters can dwell start philosophising a bit too much over a relatively... |
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