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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: New moderators update |
| BenderRodriguez |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2020, 4:37 pm
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| I would like to be a mod because I spend a lot of time here, but I think I will be too sensitive for the job. If members have a go at me or insult me, I will get upset, because I don't have the mental capability to ignore insults. If I'm insulted, it hurts my ego and ruins my whole day. Good news, ... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: WP Addicts Anonymous |
| BenderRodriguez |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2020, 1:17 pm
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Replies: 65,567
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AuroraBorealisGazer wrote: Challenge accepted  BTI - Tiny Romanticizing Possums 
Great work  |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Apology and wanting my suffering to stop |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2020, 12:21 pm
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Replies: 126
Views: 4,872
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Marknis wrote: I had my final treatment today. I still hope for something to change within my mind.
Fingers crossed, I really hope things get better for you, I can understand the kind of hell you've been living in for so long from personal experience. |
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: Making it Better: The future of WP |
| BenderRodriguez |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2020, 11:52 am
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Replies: 2,586
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| IsabellaLinton : I've had similar experiences and would be very interested in hearing an answer. League_Girl : I can relate to what you say too, which is why so many people complained both about the rules being very vague in places, but mostly about the moderation process being completely opaque th... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Gray Hairs |
| BenderRodriguez |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2020, 6:08 am
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Replies: 66
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| I would too but I'm too lazy |
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: Making it Better: The future of WP |
| BenderRodriguez |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2020, 6:02 am
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Replies: 2,586
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| Regarding the "dangers" of enforcing the rules: I certainly wasn't suggesting a dogmatic approach. What I meant is that we (or the mods) should be careful with cherry-picking who we make allowances for and who gets treated more harshly or taking a personal or ideological dislike to someone... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Is this normal as you get older? |
| BenderRodriguez |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2020, 5:42 am
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Replies: 16
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| this old fart is not even " unconventionally attractive " anymore so i get even less unconditional positive regard by people in general. lookism is a very powerful thing in western culture. It really sucks, but where you live can make a huge difference, both in regards to how you look or ... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: WP Addicts Anonymous |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2020, 5:21 am
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Replies: 65,567
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IsabellaLinton wrote: I'm just glad my initials aren't PYM.
I doubt anybody will end up with something pleasant no matter what their initials are  |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: WP Addicts Anonymous |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2020, 5:19 am
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AuroraBorealisGazer wrote: ^^ Ah jesus h. christ no thank you, no thank you, no thank you!
At least I don't have a middle name  |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Gray Hairs |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2020, 4:48 am
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Replies: 66
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auntblabby wrote: ^^^ tricolor is cool 
I'm not complaining but if it was in the colours you posted, it would definitely be cool enough to stop shaving |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Which was the Best Cable Series...and Why |
| BenderRodriguez |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2020, 6:13 pm
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Replies: 12
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| "Deadwood" was shockingly good. I mean, I cannot stand Westerns, but it was just so....majestic at times. That poor priest losing his mind, the epic street fight...there were so many "10/10" episodes! I can't stand Westerns either: Deadwood, aside from the fantastic acting and w... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: scale of -10 to +10, how do you feel right now? |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2020, 4:03 pm
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Replies: 35,496
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Uh, about a 0
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Complimenting a lady, where do I go from there? |
| BenderRodriguez |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2020, 3:42 pm
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Replies: 127
Views: 2,811
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The_Face_of_Boo wrote: Outsider85 wrote: Before this pandemic began, I hadn’t seen her there since the New Year began. She wasn't interested since day 1. Please read this and get enlightened. viewtopic.php?t=387442
Not to be harsh, but you're spot on. |
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: Making it Better: The future of WP |
| BenderRodriguez |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2020, 3:37 pm
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Replies: 2,586
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vermontsavant wrote:
But you Fnord, don't treat people well,and if that's not against the rules,it should be!
I still see this as a moderation problem - the user problem developed from it, as a natural consequence.
I thought some new people were supposed to join the mod team?  |
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: Making it Better: The future of WP |
| BenderRodriguez |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2020, 3:35 pm
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| It has always been a peeve of mine that either the same rules should apply to everyone, everywhere, and all of the time, or they should never apply to anyone at all. It's exactly as simple as this. And if it was enforced, this whole thread wouldn't have been necessary. It only took 50+ pages to n... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is it possible to not be cut out for dating? |
| BenderRodriguez |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2020, 3:25 pm
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Replies: 62
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My experience: if you pay attention to the personal style, preferences and body type/size of the person the gift is for, they really appreciate both the gift and the gesture. Some of my wife's favourite lingerie and clothes were picked by me.
Rule of thumb with any gift: prioritise what they like. |
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