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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do the majority of guys with A.S. never get a girlfriend? |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 07 Sep 2014, 4:18 pm
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| Jono and Tarantella, http://divorcesupport.about.com/b/2012/06/24/why-most-divorces-are-initiated-by-women.htm The most common reason the women gave for divorce was verbal abuse and emotional neglect . At the time of divorce many of their husbands had no idea what hit them. Or, so they say. Accordi... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: OJani goes to London!! :) :) |
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Posted: 07 Sep 2014, 4:09 pm
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| Just a short update. I'm in Brighton in the Brighton Museum right now, after visiting the Royal Pavilion, which is surprisingly magnificent. Yesterday I visited Arundel, the castle, the temple and the cathedral. The castle is fabulously rich and magnificent, beyond expectations, even comparable to ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tell that i have aspergers on my dating profile? |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 06 Sep 2014, 4:41 pm
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| If you say you're a lotus blossom, you'll get lots of responses! as a woman I can say anything and get a lot of responses, okcupid men dont give a rats arse what Im like, they just look at the picture and think 'can I make myself bang that' and if the answer is 'yes' then I get a message. I use to ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tell that i have aspergers on my dating profile? |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 05 Sep 2014, 5:13 pm
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kraftiekortie wrote: I don't actually feel that way.
I gave up "banging" a long time ago......
I think the men who message me have not had a bang in a long time either  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: lying to women on dating sites? |
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Posted: 05 Sep 2014, 5:06 pm
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| By instinct I mean "men want the healthiest-looking women to give birth to their children, and women want the men who seems most able to provide for them and their children." Humans aren't instinctively monogamous. Until a few thousand years ago, most people who slept with each other never saw each... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tell that i have aspergers on my dating profile? |
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Posted: 05 Sep 2014, 4:49 pm
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kraftiekortie wrote: If you say you're a lotus blossom, you'll get lots of responses!
as a woman I can say anything and get a lot of responses, okcupid men dont give a rats arse what Im like, they just look at the picture and think 'can I make myself bang that' and if the answer is 'yes' then I get a message. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tell that i have aspergers on my dating profile? |
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Posted: 05 Sep 2014, 4:36 pm
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| insensitive to peoples feelings That seems like a negative way to put it. Maybe you can't guess or deeply understand how other people feel, but to me "insensitive" makes it sound like you don't give a damn about what other people feel. whatever I put, the reality of me is going to be worse, they ne... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Social Anxiety- Overcoming it? |
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Posted: 04 Sep 2014, 5:52 pm
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| Ive had bad social anxiety since I was a child and no therapies or medications have helped. However Ive recently got into fasting (not eating) and that REALLY helps! If I had a horrible social appointment or visit if I dont eat for the day before and that day and I feel really calm and serene and do... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Involuntary celibacy: real thing or fringe theory? |
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Posted: 04 Sep 2014, 5:45 pm
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| I think the INCEL forums are really bad for men to read, I think they encourage negative thinking and negative thinking about yourself and women. I know people want to vent and have camaraderie but I think those forums are just so bad for people. they are like worse versions of the L & D forum h... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: OliveOilMom |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 04 Sep 2014, 5:36 pm
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Replies: 35
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| why not get this thread moved to a public forum so she could see it if she is checking the forum without logging in, the haven might be a good one as she might check her threads, esp if she is having problems. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do the majority of guys with A.S. never get a girlfriend? |
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Posted: 04 Sep 2014, 5:25 pm
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| I dont think getting a relationship is so much the problem so much as whether an aspie man would actually like it. I think most aspie men would be better off setting themselves up in a nice little flat, done out how they like, with all their hobbies around them. I think most aspie men would get more... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tell that i have aspergers on my dating profile? |
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Posted: 04 Sep 2014, 5:10 pm
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| On my dating profile I put something like, I have aspergers syndrome which means I tend to monologue and be insensitive to peoples feelings. I decided to put that as if people do not like the 'idea ' of aspergers, they are certainly not going to like the 'reality ' of it which is much worse!! ! Also... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Women, is i ok to beat your boyfriend? |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2014, 4:54 pm
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| That's what I was wondering - if it was the old "love, honor, and obey" thing. Parents and bosses are to be obeyed. A marriage should be a mutual taking-each-other's-wishes-into-consideration partnership. But again, why do you prefer a man taller than you? :P Height does not equal authority. Think ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Seeing your crush years later? |
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Posted: 02 Sep 2014, 5:28 pm
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| I think she meant they would look old and unattractive and you would not like them anymore. Being old does not mean unattractive my mum said she did not want to meet the man she dated in university as he would be old and ugly and so would she and it would make her sad. Maybe its a NT mum thing- sha... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Seeing your crush years later? |
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Posted: 02 Sep 2014, 5:23 pm
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| I think she meant they would look old and unattractive and you would not like them anymore. |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: False teeth |
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Posted: 02 Sep 2014, 5:15 pm
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| when I was a teenager I dated a guy who had lost all his teeth from a medical condition and he slept with them in a glass by the bed and it did not bother me at all. I did not mind seeing him without his teeth in. I think if someone likes you they will find it endearing rather than gross as love is ... |
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