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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: People letting themselves go once in a relationship. |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2014, 2:07 pm
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| IMO large gains of weight are similar to alcoholism or gambleing and should be treated similarly, ie not enabled and someone certainly should not be guilted about not wanting to be involved in that situation. (that fact must be somewhat appreciated by wider soc as overeaters anon follow the AA proto... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Which man has a prettier face? |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2014, 2:04 pm
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Replies: 3
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| the top one looks more confident and the bottom one looks more tense/anxious but both are equally pretty/handsome. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: When is the right time to say "I love you."? |
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Posted: 16 Aug 2014, 4:18 pm
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| As a woman, if I don't hear it by the end of the 2nd month of dating or after the 3rd time we've had sex, then I figure he's either Not That Into Me or emotionally unavailable. Either way, time to move on. how did you come up with this? what if the guy said it to you on the 2nd date? I "came up wit... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: People letting themselves go once in a relationship. |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 16 Aug 2014, 3:44 pm
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| I do intermittent fasting and I really hope it catches on as it was such a solution for me and Im sure it would be for others, its saves me loads and loads of money!! And fasting makes me feel tranquil and removes my social anxiety so makes me feel great too. I heard about it through this horizon sc... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: People letting themselves go once in a relationship. |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2014, 5:24 pm
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| Ive always put on weight when I dated as men tend not to want to eat diet food and also tend to tease if I ate separately. As well they keep you up all night so your tired and dont want to sit around waiting while I exercise. Secondly having babies can make it hard not to gain weight as its hard to ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Long term AS/AS just found out about other women |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2014, 3:34 pm
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Replies: 29
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| every person is different, just cos we have aspergers does not mean we would make the same choices. I think you need to introspect into what your needs are, what your limits are and what you can and cant bear. Then you need a discussion with him about what he is doing and thinking, and then you need... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Who is really in charge of a woman's body |
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Posted: 12 Aug 2014, 4:18 pm
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Replies: 52
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| On the slip horn version of the penis.My ex was a home birth and never had his foreskin removed,didn't bother me one bit,something else to play with :twisted:He also had a goatee and a mustache,I never told him to remove them.Not going into it,but he didn't show me the same respect.I did not have m... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Anyone here asexual? |
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Posted: 12 Aug 2014, 3:37 pm
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Replies: 14
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: I want a divorce! |
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Posted: 11 Aug 2014, 4:44 pm
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Replies: 8
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| people probably suggest counselling as they can not read your mind to know how very unhappy you are and your rows/fights probably are not witnessed by them so they are advising with out knowing the full extent of the problem. You are allowed to end a relationship for any reason or for no reason so y... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Who is really in charge of a woman's body |
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Posted: 11 Aug 2014, 4:27 pm
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Replies: 52
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| I think women are in charge of their bodies and they choose to do 'unequal' things to them. They wear high heels (which hurt and give bunions) or do epilating/waxing which hurts or even just wearing revealing clothes rather than t shirts and jeans as they just 'have' to be seen as sexy and attractiv... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Total abstinence |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2014, 5:29 pm
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Replies: 22
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| Well, reasons for marriage is not necessarily about having children. Maybe you just want the marriage for the lifelong emotional companionship and maybe you still do intend to have a sexual relationship with your wife. Having sex with your wife doesn't necessarily have to mean that you want childre... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: London meet-up Sunday 31st August |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2014, 4:59 pm
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Replies: 30
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| thats great! You should do some videos of you making up the japanese foods and trying different ones, at the moment my daughter Dani is really into ramune drink which you make fizz pressing the lid, she loves the happy kitchen kits! We should do a meet up at the japanese supermarket centre in piccad... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: No strings attached fun |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2014, 4:47 pm
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Replies: 13
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: No strings attached fun |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2014, 4:35 pm
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| hold out a bit longer to find someone special, try aspie meet ups, there are bound to be ones run locally to you, try google and meetup.com is very good for meeting people my ex has just joined a book club and a singles club and a film club on there and says the people are mostly aspieish who attend... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: London meet-up Sunday 31st August |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2014, 4:24 pm
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Replies: 30
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smudge wrote: kraftiekortie wrote: I'm in the US  So, obviously, I can't meet up with you folks. Hi Smudge. Enjoyed your video. I think you're pretty cute!  Thanks!
what video is that? I would love to see it! |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Has anyone had DBT therapy? Was it respectful of your ASD? |
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Posted: 05 Aug 2014, 3:17 pm
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Replies: 7
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| my mum runs dbt groups and Ive read the course materials and I cant imagine an aspie getting anything out of it as the suggestions are all very borderline PD orientated such as comforting and talking things, which may not be soothing to a 'colder' aspie. For example the worksheets said to phone a fr... |
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