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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: It's the little things that count in a relationship |
| IlovemyAspie |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2013, 12:55 am
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| Hmm...interesting...I tend to date people who don't care much for that kind of stuff (and neither do I), so it's not an issue. I think if my partner did want little niceties all the time I would find it draining to keep trying to remember to do those things. What about my want to be an uncaring b**... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: It's the little things that count in a relationship |
| IlovemyAspie |
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Posted: 31 Oct 2013, 7:30 pm
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| When I'm in a relationship with a woman I always get to know what she likes and appreciates.. If she likes me to open the car door for her than sometimes I will. I do things like leave a note on my girlfriends windshield or bring home flowers to "plant" myself in her mind while I'm not there. I've ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: a female co-worker |
| IlovemyAspie |
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Posted: 27 Oct 2013, 12:51 pm
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Replies: 21
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| You're just making that up to feel better about yourself for wanting to do it. If you want FWB, that's your call. Who is anyone to judge. Just be sure to make it clear at some point that you're not after a relationship but "other stuff" is on the cards (and no, don't do this over lunch). That's why... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: a female co-worker |
| IlovemyAspie |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2013, 6:30 pm
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billiscool wrote: JanuaryMan wrote: She likes you. Go for the kill and ask her out for lunch during work  I would I like to be a causal fwb with her(if possible) or a be ''special''type of friend with her.
Please get that established up front. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "Friends with benefits" is nonsense. |
| IlovemyAspie |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2013, 1:32 pm
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Replies: 302
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| It's different for everyone...everyone experiences the three headed red duck in a different way. He/she/they fills my duckiness void. I was just empty and unhappy before. And when we go to a restaurant, I pay for nothing... Everything goes on the bill :lol: Try having sex with it. That'll make thin... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "Friends with benefits" is nonsense. |
| IlovemyAspie |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2013, 1:29 pm
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octobertiger wrote: Three headed red duck wasn't offering you any coffee.
I wouldn't take it even if it were offered. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: a female co-worker |
| IlovemyAspie |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2013, 1:15 pm
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Stalk wrote: It does seem to be obvious that she is flirting. Heck have you asked her out yet?
^^^^this |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "Friends with benefits" is nonsense. |
| IlovemyAspie |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2013, 1:09 pm
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| I didn't like coffee the first time I tried it 18 years ago and guess what? I still don't like coffee and have no desire to try it again no matter how good some people say it taste. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "Friends with benefits" is nonsense. |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2013, 12:50 pm
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babybird wrote: I still think that FWBs can work out.
Some people have no problems with fwb. I personally tried it and it's not for me. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "Friends with benefits" is nonsense. |
| IlovemyAspie |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2013, 12:39 pm
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| Let's get asomething straight. I have a void in my life but that doesn't mean I'm not happy! I enjoy my life as it is and when I find someone to fill the void in my life then I will only be happier. If that never happens I will still find ways to be happy. I have so much to be happy about already. I... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "Friends with benefits" is nonsense. |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2013, 12:17 pm
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| Okay I would say everyone feels pain differently. Pain cannot really be measured accurately. It is unquantifiable. Each would have to be the other person to know how that person feels it. I would assume this is the same for emotion as well. People do not all feel sadness the same way as others. Som... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "Friends with benefits" is nonsense. |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2013, 12:05 pm
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| You aren't born with voids they develop. It's a need for something that is missing. Not everyone feels their life is missing something. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "Friends with benefits" is nonsense. |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2013, 11:02 am
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| I understand the void. @octobertiger you may not but that's okay. Yes it is a feeling and not a literal "piece" that is missing. Feelings can be true and real to the person feeling them. So be it. I feel that I need a loving relationship in order for sex to be fulfilling. Without it, there is a void... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "Friends with benefits" is nonsense. |
| IlovemyAspie |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2013, 9:15 am
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| Punkguy, I don't see a void in your post - but I see fog and confusion. It seems like you've everything tangled together, that doesn't necessarily have to be that way. Of course, that is your choice - but your worldview isn't exactly making you feel good, now is it. You cannot get any closer than s... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "Friends with benefits" is nonsense. |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2013, 3:16 am
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Quote: Each to their own .
This^^^ |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "Friends with benefits" is nonsense. |
| IlovemyAspie |
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Posted: 25 Oct 2013, 7:01 pm
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Replies: 302
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| I would rather have a meaningful relationship than have a lowlife "friend" with "benefits". I agree that friends with benefits is just like casual sex. It will leave you empty. Yeah drugs are a lot fun too but they mess you up and you become dependent on them. Sex you can also get addicted to. Sex ... |
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