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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What does it mean? When a woman says... |
| IlovemyAspie |
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Posted: 06 Oct 2013, 5:59 pm
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Stalk wrote: Thanks everyone, I guess this is something only a guy could answer for me. 
I don't think it has to do with being a guy. I agree with JM but i was confused like others as to the dynamic of the situation. The third party thing threw me off!! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What does it mean? When a woman says... |
| IlovemyAspie |
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Posted: 06 Oct 2013, 12:53 pm
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| Then next time ask "Ready for what?"? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I be *realistic* and accept I'm always gonna be alone |
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Posted: 06 Oct 2013, 12:29 pm
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| Everytime i hear the word 'perfect' warning bells go off in my head. She's not perfect, and when you start letting off signals that imply you believe she is, well, that's not in keeping with her reality. Also, considering this Egypt guy, she's probably just seducing guys from a distance to shore up... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What does it mean? When a woman says... |
| IlovemyAspie |
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Posted: 06 Oct 2013, 12:13 pm
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Uprising wrote: "You're not ready" => "You need to become more attractive first" Obviously. 
I don't think it has anything to do with attractiveness. I dont think that would be the response he'd receive. I could see her just saying "Nah". It's easy to blow off someone you don't find attractive. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What does it mean? When a woman says... |
| IlovemyAspie |
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Posted: 06 Oct 2013, 11:57 am
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| "You're not ready"... If she has dated in the past, then it means that she thinks that you are too immature to date. If she has not dated in the past, then it means that she thinks she is too immature to date. Either way, it means that she isn't going to date you. I agree with this. You're not read... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Views on f**k buddys? |
| IlovemyAspie |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2013, 6:55 pm
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| I've had a few, and it's rare when someone doesn't get hurt. One or both parties usually end up far too attached. This. Having a f**k buddy is fine as long as you're the type that doesn't get attached to people too easily. I can't see myself doing it, personally. It wouldn't take long before I end ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Open Marriage |
| IlovemyAspie |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2013, 1:48 pm
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thewhitrbbit wrote: MyFutureSelfnMe wrote: I'm told that 75% of married men and 52% of married women cheat at some point. That doesn't make it right.
And that doesn't mean I'd be okay with it if my spouse cheated. Or that it gives an excuse to cheat.
Depressing statistics.... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is self-defeat a common trait among Aspie relationships? |
| IlovemyAspie |
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Posted: 03 Oct 2013, 4:32 pm
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| Everyone must be asleep. I'd want to know the truth. I'd look like to try to handle the facts. So what do you do? When the burnout ends will the Aspie resurface or must you draw them out? If it's something superficial, I'd like to be drawn out. I've learned not to give too much information, so now ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "she doesn't love you for your head" |
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Posted: 03 Oct 2013, 1:29 pm
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| It means it doesn't matter if you are the smartest person in the world or not, she loves you for the inner person-the inner qualities. It could mean that or it could mean " I love you for your looks, money, or social status" It could mean either of those things. I don't think it means that.... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "she doesn't love you for your head" |
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Posted: 03 Oct 2013, 12:20 pm
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| It means it doesn't matter if you are the smartest person in the world or not, she loves you for the inner person-the inner qualities. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie burnout-what does this mean to you? |
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Posted: 03 Oct 2013, 10:44 am
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| I thought people look to get away from their everyday normal life when they get burned out and go on a vacation or something to help restore themselves to what they call and feel to be normal. This is common for everyone. The reason I am not on vacation is because I won't be getting paid if I choos... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie burnout-what does this mean to you? |
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Posted: 03 Oct 2013, 9:12 am
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| "Aspie burnout" (Aka simply...burnout) is another thing that happen to all humans but the cult of Asperger on WP adopted it as something Aspie-exclusive, there's no scientific basis that it's an aspie thing or it's more frequent in aspies. But when most NT's get burned out they look to their friend... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie burnout-what does this mean to you? |
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Posted: 03 Oct 2013, 1:39 am
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| "Aspie burnout" (Aka simply...burnout) is another thing that happen to all humans but the cult of Asperger on WP adopted it as something Aspie-exclusive, there's no scientific basis that it's an aspie thing or it's more frequent in aspies. But when most NT's get burned out they look to their friend... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Would you be upset if... |
| IlovemyAspie |
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Posted: 03 Oct 2013, 1:34 am
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| Bullying is never deserved... that's what makes it bullying. As for me, I really don't know. I'm not sure I'd be able to stay simply because I would have lost respect for the forum. What if you walked up to a group of black people and said a racial slur? Would bullying be warranted then? You'd dese... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is self-defeat a common trait among Aspie relationships? |
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Posted: 03 Oct 2013, 1:30 am
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Replies: 49
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| @ Aspiemike yes I remember that situation! @ LeLetch I just had this exact conversation with a friend of mine. He didn't want me giving him anything else because he probably would never reciprocate. I told him that's not why I give. I give because I want to-no strings attached. p.s. woo hoo I made ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is self-defeat a common trait among Aspie relationships? |
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Posted: 03 Oct 2013, 12:36 am
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| @ Aspiemike yes I remember that situation! @ LeLetch I just had this exact conversation with a friend of mine. He didn't want me giving him anything else because he probably would never reciprocate. I told him that's not why I give. I give because I want to-no strings attached. p.s. woo hoo I made 1... |
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