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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: always behind... |
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Posted: 07 Feb 2015, 4:25 am
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| I have felt that way, and now I'm older and I think that sometimes the 'peers' are just as*holes. People make out that there is something wrong with you because you are not so quick to get intimate with others or you don't have a relationship as soon as they do. They bounce from one mistake to anoth... |
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: Post a movie and replace one word with Ghost |
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Posted: 03 Feb 2015, 4:52 am
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Replies: 4,814
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All the Pretty Ghosts
Ghost at Hanging Rock
Sex and the Ghost
Ghosts, Lies and Videotapes. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Unattractive male/woman but good in bed? |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2015, 6:23 am
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Replies: 18
Views: 246
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| I do not think there is any straightforward relationship. You could argue a good-looking person gets more practice so should be better. Or that they could be more narcissistic and expect more to be done for them so they don't put in as much effort. Or that unattractive people are more grateful and w... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Ashamed of Ejaculating is this a bad thing? |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2015, 9:22 pm
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Replies: 21
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| I am confused. Are you saying that masturbation hurts you? And are you saying that anyone who dos it must not respect themselves? |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: How Do I Get My Aspie Partner to Communicate? |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2015, 10:03 am
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Replies: 14
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| I was just explaining the same thing to an NT today. People seem to read stuff into what I say when I didn't mean anything but what I said. I SAY what I mean, and it seems to be interpreted into other stuff which I did not mean. I think this is because NT's lie and play games a lot and they assume e... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Female Aspie traits vs. female NT traits |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2015, 6:51 am
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Replies: 11
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| It seems like a lot of "female aspie traits" are also common in NT females. That's kind of been bothering me because I have a lot of "female aspie traits", but a lot of the autism treatments don't work on me. I also don't feel like I get along with most aspies I meet in real lif... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Ashamed of Ejaculating is this a bad thing? |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2015, 3:25 am
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| If not for the billion gajillion ejaculations that took place from all of you predecessors, you would not be here, and neither would any of us. Why on earth would you feel ashamed? It is natural to have them and healthy people have orgasms and healthy men have ejaculations. Just as long as you don't... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Need some insight.... |
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Posted: 29 Jan 2015, 6:23 pm
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| My husband does not physically assault me but he is abusive and damaged. I know I would be better off without him, that he is always going to hurt me and that I will never be happy to stay with him, he will never change. I am also afraid to leave him because I think he might kill me and our kids if ... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: "Girl Things" |
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Posted: 28 Jan 2015, 7:09 am
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Replies: 6
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| I do not know whether it is appropriate to do so in a public forum, but I should absolutely think that it could cost someone a victory if they were particularly affected, and at that level of sport. On the other hand, I wonder whether someone who was prone to problems could even get to that level of... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: How Do I Get My Aspie Partner to Communicate? |
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Posted: 28 Jan 2015, 5:08 am
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Replies: 14
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| I sometimes go through exactly what Fnord described. Lately, I argue a lot with my 2 teenagers and I get so frustrated because it seems that I am criticised for everything I say and how I say it. I really am trying to do the best I can, but I am what I am and it seems to be just not good enough. Ver... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Girls - oralsex? |
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Posted: 25 Jan 2015, 11:03 am
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Replies: 21
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| Well, now that the thread is relocated, I will say I do like receiving, but I have had to ask him to remember that there is no gold in there so please don't dig so hard. I think it is an art and the gentle touch has it's place. It is something I would never do myself (to a female) so I would never e... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What does alcohol taste like? |
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Posted: 20 Jan 2015, 5:32 am
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Replies: 37
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| Yeah I have drunk alcohol and been drunk more than once. Always because of social pressure, when I was younger. It tastes horrible. My russian heritage means vodka is always present at every party, but thankfully my family just seems to have lost interest, and we have light wines and beer instead, a... |
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: Post a movie and replace one word with Ghost |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2015, 6:49 am
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Replies: 4,814
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Ghost Whisperer
A Few Good Ghosts
Ghosts in the Mist
Superghost
Batghost
Catghost |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Need someone else's POV |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2015, 2:52 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 190
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| I guess what I need to do is take a leap of faith. I don't care about my life but I am a good Mum and I know they need me so for them I have done my best. My daughter said to me recently that it hurts her to see me be so unhappy and for me to not take care of myself, so I am trying to change things.... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Need someone else's POV |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2015, 1:46 am
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Replies: 12
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| Thanks Bill. I always respected his privacy until this and I don't like what I am becoming and one thing I have decided is that I need to reclaim the person I want to be and not allow myself to be warped by his choices. I have no idea what love is. I am not with him because of love, I am with him be... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Need someone else's POV |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2015, 12:29 am
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Replies: 12
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| He has many many many MANY faults but trying to steal has never been one of them. I have seen him repay people for things he perceived they did for him without their knowledge, just so he did not feel like a thief. He even left me and a crying child waiting in a car while he went back to the superma... |
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