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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: The annoying L word... |
Hazelwudi |
Posted: 07 May 2007, 8:02 pm
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But “it” doesn’t exist…pining peacefully for the perfect partner; other threads…sure, but not this one. Who said anything about pining, peaceful or otherwise? I was referring to reciprocity or the lack thereof. :P Ah…the point was missed by you…which is exactly my point! Just because you see your e... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: The annoying L word... |
Hazelwudi |
Posted: 07 May 2007, 7:16 pm
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As I've stated before, I have been told to my face that I was used as a self assurance. Because I'm so oblivious to emotional foundations, I'm not in touch with them at all nor do I understand how to use them properly NOR do I feel a need to constantly say, "oh baby you are so gorgeous" when I'm ho... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: The annoying L word... |
Hazelwudi |
Posted: 06 May 2007, 11:25 am
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Do you mind pointing it out to me...I cannot seem to find something that doesn't exist in my mad mind. Everyone's crazy, it's all a matter of degree. Put me in a room with a wasp, and I'll go absolutely apesh*t trying to get out. lol It began when we started talking about how some of us react emoti... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: The annoying L word... |
Hazelwudi |
Posted: 05 May 2007, 3:52 pm
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I can read a map to where I put most guys to shame. Just like my mother, who interestingly enough has a number of AS traits as well. lol |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Operating Instructions |
Hazelwudi |
Posted: 05 May 2007, 3:28 pm
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SeriousGirl wrote: Walk a dog in a public park with interesting people. Your dog can make friends for you!
Especially if your dog is lil and cute! |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: State your age, all ye who enter here |
Hazelwudi |
Posted: 05 May 2007, 3:22 pm
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: AS and Egocentricity? |
Hazelwudi |
Posted: 05 May 2007, 3:17 pm
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The emotions aren't something to be battled , they're something to be channeled... both to help the person and to gather data for your own ends. Next time someone comes to you with "I think I have skin cancer.", try this. First, don't get all wound up over your health... you're not the one with the ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: The annoying L word... |
Hazelwudi |
Posted: 05 May 2007, 2:30 pm
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... who don't have the gross motor issues I do, and started with more social instinct. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: The annoying L word... |
Hazelwudi |
Posted: 05 May 2007, 12:23 pm
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Au contrare. While we have argued over the definition of love, many posters have indeed bemoaned difficulties with emotional reciprocation in romantic relationships, right here on this very thread. If I were NT, perhaps I would be obsessed with fashion and shoes as most female NTs seem to be, and ma... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: The annoying L word... |
Hazelwudi |
Posted: 05 May 2007, 11:35 am
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Danielismyname - I am none of those things, you're just playing silly buggers with me now. lol |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Accents |
Hazelwudi |
Posted: 05 May 2007, 11:29 am
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I was born and mostly raised in Michigan, and moved the summer before I turned 13 to Appalachia... Kentucky, to be specific. My accent will swiftly shift to reflect the accent of the person I am talking to, be it a northerner or a southerner. I can talk like the biggest hick ya'll will ever see (com... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: The annoying L word... |
Hazelwudi |
Posted: 05 May 2007, 11:15 am
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No, just wondering why you feel the need to contribute nothing of value. The thread was started as something that I seriously struggle with and you just came in and started putting everyone and every comment down. If you want your romantic partner to be sensitive to your feelings and needs, then yo... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: The annoying L word... |
Hazelwudi |
Posted: 05 May 2007, 9:29 am
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Sorry cat lady...not interested. I don't even own a cat. I did a short time ago, but it is dead... it died a short time ago, as a result of tainted cat food. Speaking of which, I need to call my lawyer back on Monday. I would prefer vengeance in the form of severed heads on pikes, but I shall take ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: The annoying L word... |
Hazelwudi |
Posted: 05 May 2007, 9:19 am
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Hazel...refer to my earlier comment.. "I'm open to adult discussion Hazel...not opportunities to put down people's thoughts at every chance I get." Once you start using words like "slag" then personally you can F$%& OFF, thanks for your understanding. If you don't think that "hit it and quit it... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: The annoying L word... |
Hazelwudi |
Posted: 05 May 2007, 9:11 am
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Eclair – A majority of the people on this thread are male, so my use of gender pronouns were geared more towards them. It really doesn't matter, though... assuming the guy you're dealing with wasn't some sex-obsessed slag who just wants to "hit it and quit it", the examples hold for women too. Just... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Looking for NT wives Married to AS Men |
Hazelwudi |
Posted: 03 May 2007, 5:35 pm
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Abbr: As you collect your data, be wary about overgeneralizing the outgroup. Consider this: You know a few NT females who are cheating on their husbands. Does this mean that all NT females just have an inherent tendency to be adulterous slags? No, of course not. This is easy to see, is it not? Self-... |
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