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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Reasons women do not date us! |
cyberdad |
Posted: 03 Apr 2024, 11:00 pm
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Just because something worked for you doesn’t mean that it would work for Jamesy. Your advice could be downright harmful to Jamesy. Thinking about his particular struggles and listening to women here might be prudent. Working his personal development and making new friends has been the advice he ha... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Was it acceptable to commit war crimes in days gone by? |
cyberdad |
Posted: 03 Apr 2024, 10:52 pm
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This is why so many people around the world think 30,000+ dead Palestinians is a fair trade for 2,000 dead Israelis.[/s] How about 4.5 million dead Arabs and Afghans being a fair trade for 2996 dead Americans? https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/2023/05/15/war-on-terror-911-deaths-afghanistan-iraq/ |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Reasons women do not date us! |
cyberdad |
Posted: 03 Apr 2024, 10:36 pm
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IsabellaLinton wrote: cyberdad wrote: "and" a lot of men a plain lucky. A different subset. Oh, OK. I guess by that token some women are lucky too. Others aren't.
Yep |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Reasons women do not date us! |
cyberdad |
Posted: 03 Apr 2024, 10:36 pm
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TwilightPrincess wrote: Fnord seeing as how he’s been happily married for many years.
By strange coincidence so have i.
I am not saying one set of advice > another, But you need to triangulate different experiences and come up with your own strategy. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Reasons women do not date us! |
cyberdad |
Posted: 03 Apr 2024, 10:34 pm
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you rely on yourself to get things started and keep a relationship going . A lot of men are plain lucky. They happen to be in the right place at the right time and things just fall into their lap . You're contradicting yourself. Even if a relationship falls into someone's lap, luck won't keep it go... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Reasons women do not date us! |
cyberdad |
Posted: 03 Apr 2024, 10:33 pm
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Fnord wrote: "Luck" (e.g., random chance) might be involved in meeting someone.
Thats what I meant |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Reasons women do not date us! |
cyberdad |
Posted: 03 Apr 2024, 10:19 pm
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If someone wanted to be really adventurous, they'd acknowledge their faults, and improve as a human being, rather than blaming everyone else and making endless excuses. Yes we've been through that with Jamesy over several years now. Jamesy is by far not the only member who does or has struggled wit... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Reasons women do not date us! |
cyberdad |
Posted: 03 Apr 2024, 10:16 pm
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The first people I went to for dating advice were the female members of my own family. The male members were more concerned with getting 'lucky' than with attracting women to establish long-term relationships with them; even the married males were of this mindset. Nobody is there to hold our hands... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Reasons women do not date us! |
cyberdad |
Posted: 03 Apr 2024, 9:30 pm
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^^^ Our penis's certainly can have a mind of their own |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Reasons women do not date us! |
cyberdad |
Posted: 03 Apr 2024, 9:18 pm
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If someone wanted to be really adventurous, they'd acknowledge their faults, and improve as a human being, rather than blaming everyone else and making endless excuses. Yes we've been through that with Jamesy over several years now. Jamesy is by far not the only member who does or has struggled wit... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Reasons women do not date us! |
cyberdad |
Posted: 03 Apr 2024, 9:14 pm
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uncommondenominator wrote: If someone wanted to be really adventurous, they'd acknowledge their faults, and improve as a human being, rather than blaming everyone else and making endless excuses.
Yes we've been through that with Jamesy over several years now. |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Fermi Paradox explained by Prof Brian Cox |
cyberdad |
Posted: 03 Apr 2024, 6:46 pm
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Maybe Liu Cixin has the right answer with his dark forest theory. It's more for good space drama. Seems silly advanced civilisations have no idea we exist. The reality is if an advanced predatory civilisation exists they probably knew about us long long ago. Its still possible we are being cultivat... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Reasons women do not date us! |
cyberdad |
Posted: 03 Apr 2024, 6:37 pm
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IsabellaLinton wrote: You could practice writing about games, and see how the conversations go. That could make it easier to talk about gaming in person.
Never met a woman interested in gaming? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Reasons women do not date us! |
cyberdad |
Posted: 03 Apr 2024, 6:01 pm
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Actually last September when on a night out this woman started talking to me and one of my older female associates said “I think she likes you”. We had a conversation (she asked what I did for a job) but she didn’t give me her number and at the end of the night she said “You should grow your hair l... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Reasons women do not date us! |
cyberdad |
Posted: 03 Apr 2024, 4:59 pm
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Even then, randomly greeting strangers is friendly and polite and all, but still does nothing to foster a deeper relationship - unless you expect it to lead to one, even potentially or eventually, in which case you're not just saying hi to say hi, cos there's an expectation attached to it, no matte... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Reasons women do not date us! |
cyberdad |
Posted: 03 Apr 2024, 3:11 am
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Oh for goodness sake, you can do both people, its not rocket science. Yes, you can have friendship groups, church groups, sports clubs, book clubs whatever, but you can also be friendly chirpy and say hello to you fellow human beings in the street or shopping mall. I mean really, its not that intrus... |
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