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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Something's not right. I just don't know what it is. |
| Butterfiend |
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Posted: 27 Jul 2015, 3:19 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 652
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| I don't know what's wrong with me. I've been seeing this girl for about 2 months and she's basically everything I ever wanted. It's just that the thought of being in a real relationship with her stresses me out to no end and I feel anxious all the time because of it. I see myself still texting her e... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Emotionally drained after a date? |
| Butterfiend |
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Posted: 27 Jul 2015, 2:36 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,363
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| A lot of it may be due to lack of sleep. I work a night shift and saw her at noon. I was also stressed because I was a nervous wreck. I even hit another car while driving. (I suck at driving.) Do you think that might be it? I'm also afraid of dating her just to be in a relationship. Maybe I'm just ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Emotionally drained after a date? |
| Butterfiend |
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Posted: 26 Jul 2015, 11:53 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,363
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| A lot of it may be due to lack of sleep. I work a night shift and saw her at noon. I was also stressed because I was a nervous wreck. I even hit another car while driving. (I suck at driving.) |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Emotionally drained after a date? |
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Posted: 26 Jul 2015, 11:21 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,363
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| I've been dating a girl for about 2 months now and Last time I saw her I found myself emotionally drained and stressed when I came home. Ever since that encounter I've been wondering if that's a sign she's not right for me. Could it also be possible that it was just a bad day for me or something? I ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Stuck in my "own little world" |
| Butterfiend |
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Posted: 26 Jul 2015, 4:01 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,891
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| I feel like I'm stuck in my own brain and I can't get out. My thoughts and feelings are all bottled up inside and I can't explain them to people because they don't understand. I feel like I can't make plans, pay attention, or form meaningful relationships with people because I'm always thinking abou... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I know if I like a girl or if I'm just lonely? |
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Posted: 14 Jul 2015, 12:08 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 19,425
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| Why bother telling someone you don't wish any further contact when you can just charge him with harassment? Because that's so much easier? I'm afraid I don't know about legislation in OP's country, but if they have been meeting, sending a few messages seems OK to me, provided that the content is no... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I know if I like a girl or if I'm just lonely? |
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Posted: 14 Jul 2015, 12:06 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 19,425
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| Just live life and keep hanging out with her. If you enjoy spending time around her, then you like her and enjoy being with her, even if it's just as a friend. Maybe this is just your problem? You don't know if you only see her as a friend or want a relationship with her. You feel lonely and unsure... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I know if I like a girl or if I'm just lonely? |
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Posted: 12 Jul 2015, 5:41 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 19,425
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| Just live life and keep hanging out with her. If you enjoy spending time around her, then you like her and enjoy being with her, even if it's just as a friend. Maybe this is just your problem? You don't know if you only see her as a friend or want a relationship with her. You feel lonely and unsure... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I know if I like a girl or if I'm just lonely? |
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Posted: 12 Jul 2015, 12:35 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 19,425
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Kurgan wrote: The good old practice girl scenario. 
Why would I want to put anyone through being a "Practice girl"? Why string them along? T |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I know if I like a girl or if I'm just lonely? |
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Posted: 12 Jul 2015, 5:28 am
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Replies: 26
Views: 19,425
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Ok. Good to know.
Another question: Do I have to feel like I want to be around her all the time? It's ok to want some time by myself sometimes, right? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I know if I like a girl or if I'm just lonely? |
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Posted: 12 Jul 2015, 4:43 am
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Replies: 26
Views: 19,425
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| Like, I just don't know if i like her. I don't have the warm fuzzy crush feeling anymore. Is that supposed to happen? I just feel more stressed out more than anything. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I know if I like a girl or if I'm just lonely? |
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Posted: 12 Jul 2015, 3:11 am
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Replies: 26
Views: 19,425
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| If you're already seeing her, and you're comfortable around her, keep seeing her. Just think about it: when else are you going to have another chance at a real sexual relationship? Relationships with girls I'm not attracted to were the only relationships I knew, so your situations is not unique. Af... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I know if I like a girl or if I'm just lonely? |
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Posted: 12 Jul 2015, 1:18 am
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Replies: 26
Views: 19,425
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| I've been seeing this girl for a little while and I'm not sure if I like her or if I just want to be with her because I'm lonely. (And I am VERY lonely). We have a lot in common and it makes logical sense for us to be a couple and whatnot, but I'm also afraid to just date her just for the sake of ha... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How do I keep focus? |
| Butterfiend |
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Posted: 28 May 2015, 3:41 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 598
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| My whole life I've never been able to pay complete attention. It takes me hours to do a task that should take 20 minutes. I end up just doing something else or sometimes just walk around in circles. It frustrates me because I'm never going to accomplish anything in life because I can't just sit down... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are the warm fuzzy feelings supposed to go away? |
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Posted: 27 May 2015, 5:34 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,315
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| Yeah, just go on more dates, go out and have some fun for now and when you're both ready to make things serious and a deeper level than discuss it... There's a difference between being desperate and going for the first girl who gives you attention and going for a nice person who you like and who li... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are the warm fuzzy feelings supposed to go away? |
| Butterfiend |
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Posted: 26 May 2015, 1:45 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,315
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| Maybe I can't properly love someone else if I don't love myself? That's a myth NTs like to propagate. I don't know why they keep propagating that myth. Maybe they truly believe it because they have easy, happy lives, with easy-to-find friends and sex partners. So no wonder they can't help but love ... |
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