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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do people engage in fornication before marriage? |
| AlexandertheSolitary |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2015, 8:40 am
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| I got volumes I could respond with but will truncate it down for now to the "virgin" aspect first: Originally, the word "virgin" in its original Hebrew-word context, simply meant a Young Girl (and yes this is a factual translation-discrepancy where the similar Greek-word that it... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do people engage in fornication before marriage? |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2015, 8:08 am
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| what do you think of escort services where there is a fairly straightforward exchange going on? maybe if you got it done out of your system it would take the pressure off? if you are still young I know there's gotta be some feeling of libidinal urgency. I know there was in my case. this aspie wants... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do people engage in fornication before marriage? |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2015, 7:39 am
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| And after all that "sex," what kind of impression will it have on your psyche when you settle down with another woman as your wife. How will having sex with all those "prostitutes,"affect the way you see her, hold her. Don't think your actions won't have some kind of lasting imp... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do people engage in fornication before marriage? |
| AlexandertheSolitary |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2015, 7:30 am
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| This thread/post now needs a "schools exist that teach/educate women on how to be professional-dates/hookers/prostitutes" video... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w4QqPBrVGzM&fmt=18 I'm not going to sugarcoat this. Most escorts are not just paid subservient actresses, but more like wo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do people engage in fornication before marriage? |
| AlexandertheSolitary |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2015, 7:13 am
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| I'm confused as to why people copulate if they aren't husband and wife. More importantly, why do people do that if they don't want children? I believe sex is disgusting and for procreation purposes only. I don't see the point in just having sex if you do not intend to reproduce. Why bother? I think... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do people engage in fornication before marriage? |
| AlexandertheSolitary |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2015, 6:57 am
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| And after all that "sex," what kind of impression will it have on your psyche when you settle down with another woman as your wife. How will having sex with all those "prostitutes,"affect the way you see her, hold her. Don't think your actions won't have some kind of lasting imp... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do people engage in fornication before marriage? |
| AlexandertheSolitary |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2015, 12:35 am
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| That sounds rather sad :cry: . I think a loving relationship outside of wedlock would be arguably preferable to marrying for the wrong reasons, and am puzzled by the appeal of sexual intercourse (as opposed to lovemaking) without regard for the other. Obviously there are times when I really would l... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do people engage in fornication before marriage? |
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Posted: 31 May 2015, 11:29 pm
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| Sex before marraige is like eating the dessert before a really good thanksgiving meal; it lessens the experience. I like dessert, but if I eat it before a meal then I can't really enjoy all the food. So before I could really appreciate the meal that took so long to prepare, I'd have to wait for som... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do people engage in fornication before marriage? |
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Posted: 31 May 2015, 11:22 pm
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| sex is nigh well impossible for some of us to obtain. Fair point. In my case, while I can manage a sort of charm in a friendly fashion, I genuinely do not know how to express romantic interest without either sounding too intense, or too flippant, neither of which would be helpful in commencing a co... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do people engage in fornication before marriage? |
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Posted: 31 May 2015, 11:12 pm
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| ^^^ YES, thank you! AlexandertheSolitary, I've hesitated several times to respond to your many elaborate comments because I didn't want to impel you to go on, but I want to tell you I agree with Agenaki. I'll also add that, based on the nature of your numerous postings here, it sounds as if you hav... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do people engage in fornication before marriage? |
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Posted: 31 May 2015, 2:35 am
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| I'm a fan of, long term relationship as the precursor to sex. Not a fan of what most people do nowadays (or what they would do if given a chance). Seems too cheap and shallow. People are more to me than physical pleasure machines. I also don't think people that sleep around will be good [long term]... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do people engage in fornication before marriage? |
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Posted: 31 May 2015, 2:28 am
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| It is bizarre to me. It disgusts me that people want to have sex and aren't married. How pervasive is this in today's society? Depending on the source of data, roughly 70% of all single people have had full, unprotected sexual intercourse by the age of 18. Sex is fun! Well said and to the point! An... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do people engage in fornication before marriage? |
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Posted: 31 May 2015, 2:01 am
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AngelRho wrote: ^^^In addition to this, we shouldn't forget that marriage=/=abundance of sex.
True! |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Hope and Healing in The Forum |
| AlexandertheSolitary |
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Posted: 31 May 2015, 12:03 am
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Replies: 223
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| Sometimes it seems that you are not 100 % a member of the WP family unless you share some of your own struggles and what you are doing to overcome it, i figured I would go ahead and make the first post where I really put it out there and share some of my issues - there are too many for one post. Fo... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Hope and Healing in The Forum |
| AlexandertheSolitary |
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Posted: 30 May 2015, 11:55 pm
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| I know this is supposed to be a "hopefull" thread but i have to get this off my chest.(is that how you say it?) In reaction to earlier posts in the thread, its completely logical that most threads are about pain and suffering because thats what living with asperger is all about. In my exp... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Some very basic dating tips |
| AlexandertheSolitary |
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Posted: 30 May 2015, 11:43 pm
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| You don't think females can play guys? Pretty sure they can and even do. They most certainly can. In fact, women do most of the "playing", but they don't "play" for sex. That's exactly what I'm referring to - survival of the fittest. I disagree. It's been my experience and obser... |
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