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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT wives and AS Husbands |
| starygrrl |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2011, 12:43 pm
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Replies: 30
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| The list itself is not some hard rule. It is a list of questions to ask, not a list of hard rules. The reality is while for some like cubedemon that the normal functions of everyday life is something they can bare. But the reality is for many people on the spectrum there are certian elements which a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Misandry Bubble |
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Posted: 24 Mar 2011, 11:00 pm
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Replies: 145
Views: 15,030
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| That or nanobots. Personally I cannot wait to be a hyperintelligent electronic or cybernetic being. Again, more singularity stuff. Do you really want something wired that deep into your mind that someone else built and programmed though? Someone clever enough could have a LOT of zombies picking ban... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT wives and AS Husbands |
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Posted: 24 Mar 2011, 8:06 pm
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| Here are the questions: Have you identified their special interest? Are you taking an interest in it? Has a social veto been instituted for the person on the spectrum (basically they can opt out of ANY social event, including weddings, funerals, etc)? Has a form of non-conflict written communicatio... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT wives and AS Husbands |
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Posted: 24 Mar 2011, 4:09 pm
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| The question now should be where do we draw the line for all this? If an aspie is literal and they need clear instructions, obviously the NT is going to have the change the way they communicate so there is less misunderstandings. If an NT loves to joke around and is hardly ever serious, that is goi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT wives and AS Husbands |
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Posted: 24 Mar 2011, 3:33 pm
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| Taking I am a female on the spectrum in a relationship with a NT male, I have noticed alot of what they often do is well with their husbands on the spectrum is change and compromise on the things which frequently cannot be changed. The very fact is with what has been posted here to complain is many ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Misandry Bubble |
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Posted: 24 Mar 2011, 9:25 am
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Replies: 145
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| I will say the Gattica effect is taking place even without the genetic engineering. The pairing of "power couples", basically men and women with equal educations and intelligence pairing off and having kids is the new norm. Women on the bottom can't trade up to professional men anymore. Both men an... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Misandry Bubble |
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Posted: 24 Mar 2011, 12:05 am
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| I think everyone agrees that the liberation movement has been mostly one sided but, I think even in this guys first few paragraphs he loads way more on than what's there. I think you can help to explain a lot of broken homes, it can explain a lot of disenfranchised late 20's women wondering where a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: should weight be an issue? |
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Posted: 22 Mar 2011, 11:07 pm
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Replies: 91
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| An object in motion will remain in motion, basic physics. 240lb girl on top of you = pain (unless your name is Wolverine, Hulk, Juggernaut, etc.) 120lb girl on top of you = fun Engineering 101: put the heaviest object on the bottom... a top-heavy construct tends to topple easily. Engineering 102: w... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Misandry Bubble |
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Posted: 22 Mar 2011, 9:53 pm
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Replies: 145
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| It is very bizarre, when a woman becomes a misogynist. Perhaps it is because she is looking for a date and wants to appeal to men, so thinks that impressing them with anti-female writing may hopefully attract them, i dont know why someone female would write a blog called "Female Misogynist" to tell... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Misandry Bubble |
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Posted: 22 Mar 2011, 9:01 pm
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Replies: 145
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| The singularity is not a right wing or left wing concept, it has people on both sides of the political spectrum participating in it, it is beyond politics. I have heard Ray speak, he has said as much. He is pretty apolitical, and honestly above politics. While he is a capitalist, he seemed to sum up... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Is not wearing make-up such a big deal? |
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Posted: 22 Mar 2011, 6:32 pm
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| This really depends on where you are in life and the truth is various women have various opinions on this. I wear glasses and never really wear makeup. Thats the thing, I wear glasses and much of this is perception, and glasses equals quiet bookish type to most people especially if you are the quiet... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Misandry Bubble |
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Posted: 22 Mar 2011, 4:04 pm
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| This guy is such a misogynist and bigot it is not even remotely funny. Why such a misogynistic person would write under a singularity and futurist title is also disgusting, since NEITHER of those movements espouse such values. He gives himself a very bad name and decreases his own credibility by bei... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: TYPES of ASD individuals from a professional source |
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Posted: 21 Mar 2011, 10:15 pm
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| Pure WISC on my part. It is not even funny. I didn't think something can describe me so throughly. EDIT: Reading this more I realize I was probably borderline ESC/WISC, but now fall more into the WISC category. As I developed in adulthood, which was slow...the more WISC I became. These are very good... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I tell her I have AS? |
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Posted: 18 Mar 2011, 8:41 pm
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Replies: 18
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| I will be the sole person voting "yes". Honesty only feels wrong, it rarely ever actually is. I have to agree. It is worthwhile to tell her. She is a friend, real friends will not judge you, they will accept you for who you are. Not saying it will evolve romantically, it probably will not. If she c... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: A somewhat convoluted question about socialization... |
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Posted: 18 Mar 2011, 9:25 am
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Replies: 49
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| I don't think forced social interactions really work for people with autism. For me things improved in High School. Instead of forcing me to do activities that my parents wanted often with terrible results, I got to pick and choose. I think that ANY and ALL social activities have to be driven by the... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you put Aspergers on a job application? |
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Posted: 18 Mar 2011, 8:49 am
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Replies: 20
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| Unless you are applying for federal employment, in which I would advise you work through the agencies disability officer, I would advise against putting it on any application. Once you are hired it is up to you to work with HR to get reasonable accomidations. Even then I would tread carefully while ... |
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