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 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: When life doesn't come out like you hoped...

Posted: 11 Apr 2013, 7:54 am 

Replies: 50
Views: 24,472

My biggest failure is that I haven't achieved peace, or contentment within myself. There have been external successes, my education, I'm financially ok, I've achieved one remarkable thing in terms of leading a political social reform, but my relationship with myself remains a painful failure. Person...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Why don't we all just kill ourselves?

Posted: 11 Apr 2013, 7:19 am 

Replies: 62
Views: 8,501

Because of love. As long as just one person or even one creature loves me, whom I love back, I'll stick it out. I have a son and grandchildren and a cat who really do love me. And there are others that geninely care, which is another form of love. But if that vanished from my life too, I think I'd b...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: What autistic people never do.....

Posted: 11 Apr 2013, 7:03 am 

Replies: 55
Views: 4,221

They don't throw great parties. They don't get elected entertainer of the year. They don't fight back nearly enough when someone takes advantage of them. They never forget when someone takes advantage of them. They don't live on this planet.

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Would you want to be cured if you could?

 Post subject: would I want to be cured
Posted: 11 Apr 2013, 6:55 am 

Replies: 76
Views: 6,396

I voted yes. The only qualification would be "as long as I could keep my writing skills". I don't see my aspie-ism as part of my identity but more as a prison in which my identity exists. For me a cure would make the difference between living my life rather than just existing, with continual anxiety...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Are people with autism just doomed to be lonely?

 Post subject: doomed to be lonely?
Posted: 11 Apr 2013, 6:46 am 

Replies: 23
Views: 3,031

Yes, I do feel that. I mostly enjoy my solitude, (as long as at least one lovely cat keeps me company at home) though it wasn't the way I would have preferred to live for nearly all of the four decades of my adult life. I accept that I will always be alone from now on. Outside of my family and my NA...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Do Aspies tend to be scatterbrained?

 Post subject: scatteredbrained
Posted: 11 Apr 2013, 6:25 am 

Replies: 25
Views: 6,592

It's particularly bad when I am rushed, distracted or anxious. Tonight I was all three on the way to a meeting and lost a valuable ring on the way :(. It;s not everyday. Somedays I forget to eat and only remember when I begin to feel woozy from low blood sugar. I am easily distracted - for example i...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Songs that resonate with you AS-wise

 Post subject: songs
Posted: 19 Feb 2013, 4:18 am 

Replies: 193
Views: 76,934

I'm affected very much by the tones in the voices of the song singers, recently have 'tuned in' to the Lioness CD of Amy Winehouse. Sadness, wistful regret, I connect with that. Most favourite though for me is Ray Charles: Particularly "You Don't Know Me" and "Still Crazy After All These Years". The...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: ways of coping with your depression and building self esteem

 Post subject: self-esteem depression
Posted: 20 Jan 2013, 5:22 am 

Replies: 355
Views: 226,555

Currently living with both kinds of pain, physical and emotional. It gets to me, especially just now. Having an operation soon hope the pain will be better by the middle of the year. Be good to be able to go for a walk again when I recover. The isolation has become painful lately. Both hips need rep...

 Forum: Art, Writing, and Music   Topic: Do You Prefer Major Key or Minor Key? Why?

 Post subject: minor keys
Posted: 20 Jan 2013, 5:03 am 

Replies: 43
Views: 21,696

yes, minor keys resonate with me emotionally too, although I am unsure what or which emotions they resonate with - this may sound silly but I really don't know. It goes to a level of me deeper than thought, it's an instinctive set of responses. I've been in a very long relationship with a jazz music...

 Forum: Random Discussion   Topic: Thrift stores

 Post subject: thrift stores
Posted: 17 Jan 2013, 3:18 am 

Replies: 173
Views: 16,440

There are a lot of reasons I like them: No pushy sales assistants bugging me to buy Can browse as long as I like, no one minds I collect vintage lingerie and occasionally make a major find No nauseating muzak Sometimes I find objects to 'rescue' - neglected things that with repair and tlc are restor...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Anyone 50+?

 Post subject: over 50
Posted: 16 Jan 2013, 4:45 am 

Replies: 96
Views: 47,638

I'm 65. In one way it's a good age for me because my son is in his early 40s, and he is the one adult in my life with whom I can express myself openly, and that works both ways, he still needs a mother but not to be mothered, and I need help sometimes when my health goes through a bad phase - I had ...

 Forum: Art, Writing, and Music   Topic: Do You Prefer Major Key or Minor Key? Why?

Posted: 15 Jan 2013, 7:04 pm 

Replies: 43
Views: 21,696

Or favourite minor keys? Mine are D and E and they profoundly resonated with me from the age of 8 when I didn't even know what they were. They really touch base with me emotionally, especially in music written by Mozart and Chopin. Have you had any similar experience?

 Forum: Art, Writing, and Music   Topic: Favorite Music Genres

 Post subject: music I like
Posted: 15 Jan 2013, 5:41 pm 

Replies: 38
Views: 19,406

Piano (Mozart most) jazz (Piano players like Errol Garner and Oscar Peterson) mostly piano in any form and singers with great pitch accuracy of any persuasion like Pavarotti, Johnny Mathis. Showing my age again..

 Forum: Art, Writing, and Music   Topic: Musicians who have (or may have?) Asperger's Syndrome.

 Post subject: music
Posted: 15 Jan 2013, 5:54 am 

Replies: 463
Views: 312,093

I would appreciate hearing from anyone who may have had the experience of performing music without any conscious awareness of doing so. This happened to me during a music exam a long time ago. I took my seat at the piano and suddenly couldn't seem to make any sense of the keyboard, as if I had never...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Say something positive about yourself.

 Post subject: Say something positive
Posted: 15 Jan 2013, 5:42 am 

Replies: 2,644
Views: 279,584

I am very kind to animals
I fight injustice
I am a good writer
I am academically clever
I am a good friend
I am generous
I like my green eyes
I love music and was a gifted piano player once
I have an extraordinary memory
I deserve love

 Forum: Stats   Topic: Why are you on WrongPlanet?

 Post subject: why I'm here
Posted: 15 Jan 2013, 12:27 am 

Replies: 70
Views: 28,512

Lonely isolated and only place I will ever be understood by my own kind
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