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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Detecting Sincerity - How do you know? |
| Greatsharkbite |
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Posted: 25 Jun 2009, 12:34 pm
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Replies: 22
Views: 3,881
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| Sigh, I also have this problem particularly with people at work since my mom owns the restaurant I work at. I would have to say, there are some ways to tell, but these are still hard to obtain. If they offer you their phone number then chances are they don't mind getting to know you. If they come ov... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I just want to live |
| Greatsharkbite |
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Posted: 25 Jun 2009, 3:03 am
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Replies: 2
Views: 1,122
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| I'd say getting a job, will socially put you out there, especially depending on what type of job you get. Depending on what type of socializing you are capable of, if you prefer small groups then try to get a job that would allow that. I was able to get a job simply because my mom decided to buy a r... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Realizing i have no life :( |
| Greatsharkbite |
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Posted: 23 Jun 2009, 3:31 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,833
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| I don't know, have I gotten over that yet? hrm. I am so absorbed in my interests its not like I ever get bored totally. As far as having a life, if you're still in highschool force yourself into any extracurriculars, if you socialize, talk about stuff that interests you, even your aspie interests. F... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Pedantry: WHY is it a turn-off to women? |
| Greatsharkbite |
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Posted: 23 Jun 2009, 2:49 am
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Replies: 66
Views: 8,834
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| I think this person just was not your type, plus its the internet where things are misinterpreted in the blink of an eye. I talked to this one person randomly, they thought I was a stalker and blocked me, I then imed them again trying to be a pest and they damn near proposition me, saying how awesom... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Don't know what to do |
| Greatsharkbite |
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Posted: 20 Jun 2009, 1:51 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 2,567
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| Um let it go. I feel incredibly bad for your situation, its hard to find someone who you're compatible with like that and not act on it. But you said something already right? How would you feel if you were with this girl and some guy kept trying to push up on her or worse yet kissed her? She acknowl... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: My fear of lightning and my family. A dark occurrence. |
| Greatsharkbite |
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Posted: 15 Jun 2009, 3:41 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 1,573
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| I don't get why you feel you behaved badly. Everyone is afraid of something, you might not ever be able to get over your fear of lightning but you might be able to adjust the way that you deal with that fear. Your dad might have sounded a bit harsh also, but I think he wasn't suggesting you weren't ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: aspergers relationship |
| Greatsharkbite |
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Posted: 15 Jun 2009, 3:25 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 3,700
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| Sorry this happened to you Rachel. I definitely think you need to break up with this guy. If he was really in the relationship for your sake, he would've kept you in the loop. Make his ex happy? She's an ex. That's not how relationships work, he should only be worried about his kids, not her. Also h... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Ladies First |
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Posted: 14 Jun 2009, 12:29 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 2,788
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| -women should have more courtesy than men in society -minorities have the right to say racist things -if you are white, its a bad thing to be proud of your race -if you are black and have a meltdown, you are an angry black man -If you are a guy and you are fair, you are an as*hole, but if you treat... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: confused and stressed. all my own fault |
| Greatsharkbite |
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Posted: 11 Jun 2009, 4:24 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 1,384
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| Well, it seems to me that your ex might just be lonely and reaching out to anyone he can. If you try and be too indecisive here, you may wind up losing both your ex and your current bf. I'm not trying to hurl insults here.. But it seems to me you really should talk to your current bf about not being... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Made for a Different Society? |
| Greatsharkbite |
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Posted: 09 Jun 2009, 2:49 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 3,550
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| I think I agree with you entirely as far as the whole bit about social skills being valued over productivity or overall ability to do a job. On the other hand, that last sentence of yours sounds very cynical. I wouldn't say that we are born in the wrong time period, particularly me because I couldn'... |
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