I'm an older aspie who's spent most of his life unassisted learning whatever I could to overcome my social challenges. Spirit has led me on a roundabout journey ... but seemed to always be there when I needed guidance.
I'm here to suggest, among other things, that the behavior and experience we now pathologize as Asperger's corresponds closely to behavior and experience typically associated with the shamanic role.
The first step is to accept that being exceptional and being socially isolated go hand in hand. And there's a very good reason for the situation in which we find ourselves.
In traditional tribal cultures, the role of the shaman is to mediate novelty. Traditional societies don't cope very well with new developments.
But that's our natural terrain. And it sets us apart.
If anyone's interested I can expand on this theme.