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Caz72
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17 May 2021, 5:36 pm

pepe do you fancy me?


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17 May 2021, 10:37 pm

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pepe do you fancy me?


If you mean, am I making romantic gestures towards you because I want to have a relationship, no.
I just like to flirt, and I don't have relationships with married women.
Besides, I am only interested in platonic interactions.

Your avatar is very attractive. I am not assuming it is actually of you, but it is a good 'platform' to work with. ;)

Also, being a *True* aspie, it is in my nature to protect others from bullies. 8)


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18 May 2021, 7:29 am

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Point them out.
There should be zero tolerance for bullies on an autism website.
^ This.
It can't be stressed enough.

Please report anything that causes concern.
General information on contacting a moderator: viewtopic.php?t=391105


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19 May 2021, 5:06 am

Pepe wrote:
Caz72 wrote:
pepe do you fancy me?


If you mean, am I making romantic gestures towards you because I want to have a relationship, no.
I just like to flirt, and I don't have relationships with married women.
Besides, I am only interested in platonic interactions.

Your avatar is very attractive. I am not assuming it is actually of you, but it is a good 'platform' to work with. ;)

Also, being a *True* aspie, it is in my nature to protect others from bullies. 8)


it is me in my avatar
its ok im used to guys flirting


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19 May 2021, 8:42 am

On the glasses...I thought it was an interesting question! As I recall one aspect mentioned was whether Aspies would be more likely to stick with glasses rather than get contacts. I wear glasses and I cannot imagine switching to contacts. I even have trouble with eye drops. I had not thought about it before but this could be related to me being an Aspie!

(Glad you stayed.)


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19 May 2021, 6:21 pm

Caz72 wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Caz72 wrote:
pepe do you fancy me?


If you mean, am I making romantic gestures towards you because I want to have a relationship, no.
I just like to flirt, and I don't have relationships with married women.
Besides, I am only interested in platonic interactions.

Your avatar is very attractive. I am not assuming it is actually of you, but it is a good 'platform' to work with. ;)

Also, being a *True* aspie, it is in my nature to protect others from bullies. 8)


it is me in my avatar
its ok im used to guys flirting


I can see why.
You are gorgeous. [swoon] :heart: :mrgreen:


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Don't tell me white lies. Gaslight me at your peril. Don't give me your bad attitude. Hypnosis, psychosis. Tomarto, tomayto. There are *4* lights. Honey badger.
If I'm so bad, pass me by. ;)


And one more thing,


"A stranger is a friend gang-stalker you haven't met yet." Humour is not meant to be taken seriously, yet many on the left pervert its intent.
Truth may be inconvenient but it is never politically incorrect...The Oracle of Truth has spoken...8)


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19 May 2021, 8:28 pm

Pepe wrote:
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Pepe wrote:
Caz72 wrote:
pepe do you fancy me?


If you mean, am I making romantic gestures towards you because I want to have a relationship, no.
I just like to flirt, and I don't have relationships with married women.
Besides, I am only interested in platonic interactions.

Your avatar is very attractive. I am not assuming it is actually of you, but it is a good 'platform' to work with. ;)

Also, being a *True* aspie, it is in my nature to protect others from bullies. 8)


it is me in my avatar
its ok im used to guys flirting


I can see why.
You are gorgeous. [swoon] :heart: :mrgreen:


thank you

i actually look better than that ,the photos wont work on here unless therye elongated so my face isnt that long but yeah

if i can put up with my teenage sons friends swooning about me then i can put up with anything LoL


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19 May 2021, 9:40 pm

Caz72 wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Caz72 wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Caz72 wrote:
pepe do you fancy me?


If you mean, am I making romantic gestures towards you because I want to have a relationship, no.
I just like to flirt, and I don't have relationships with married women.
Besides, I am only interested in platonic interactions.

Your avatar is very attractive. I am not assuming it is actually of you, but it is a good 'platform' to work with. ;)

Also, being a *True* aspie, it is in my nature to protect others from bullies. 8)


it is me in my avatar
its ok im used to guys flirting


I can see why.
You are gorgeous. [swoon] :heart: :mrgreen:


thank you

i actually look better than that ,the photos wont work on here unless therye elongated so my face isnt that long but yeah

if i can put up with my teenage sons friends swooning about me then i can put up with anything LoL


And you have no inclination to be a 'Mrs Robinson' to one of your son's friends? :scratch:
What a waste. ;)


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Laughter is the best medicine. Age-appropriate behaviour is an arbitrary NT social construct.
Don't tell me white lies. Gaslight me at your peril. Don't give me your bad attitude. Hypnosis, psychosis. Tomarto, tomayto. There are *4* lights. Honey badger.
If I'm so bad, pass me by. ;)


And one more thing,


"A stranger is a friend gang-stalker you haven't met yet." Humour is not meant to be taken seriously, yet many on the left pervert its intent.
Truth may be inconvenient but it is never politically incorrect...The Oracle of Truth has spoken...8)


I luv Joe Biden! Democracy first!


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19 May 2021, 10:05 pm

Better? 8O

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Don't tell me white lies. Gaslight me at your peril. Don't give me your bad attitude. Hypnosis, psychosis. Tomarto, tomayto. There are *4* lights. Honey badger.
If I'm so bad, pass me by. ;)


And one more thing,


"A stranger is a friend gang-stalker you haven't met yet." Humour is not meant to be taken seriously, yet many on the left pervert its intent.
Truth may be inconvenient but it is never politically incorrect...The Oracle of Truth has spoken...8)


I luv Joe Biden! Democracy first!


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26 May 2021, 12:52 am

Pepe wrote:
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ok iv come back but i am not going t put up with any targeting accusations or people picking on me just cos my iq is lower than most peoples here


Point them out.
There should be zero tolerance for bullies on an autism website.


Sadly, what should be the case, and what is in fact the case don't always coincide...


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26 May 2021, 4:10 am

We have lost so many people because of the bullying on this website.
It looks like Caz72 may have left, also. :skull:


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Don't tell me white lies. Gaslight me at your peril. Don't give me your bad attitude. Hypnosis, psychosis. Tomarto, tomayto. There are *4* lights. Honey badger.
If I'm so bad, pass me by. ;)


And one more thing,


"A stranger is a friend gang-stalker you haven't met yet." Humour is not meant to be taken seriously, yet many on the left pervert its intent.
Truth may be inconvenient but it is never politically incorrect...The Oracle of Truth has spoken...8)


I luv Joe Biden! Democracy first!


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26 May 2021, 8:55 am

Pepe wrote:
We have lost so many people because of the bullying on this website.

Unfortunately, this is true...What is worse is that all those I am aware of who have been bullied off the site seem to share certain viewpoints which differ from those of the "vocal majority" in certain regions of the site.

Pepe wrote:
It looks like Caz72 may have left, also. :skull:

I hope not...I've never interacted with her, but she appears (at least based on this thread) to be a nice person.

I'd hate to think the mob (I don't know what the post she was referring to was, nor who was causing trouble for her, but considering what she has stated here a few names certainly spring to mind) had forced away another member merely for thinking differently to them, or expressing something in a way they disliked.

Sadly, all too many here are happy to pounce on the posts of those who don't share the majority opinions (even, on occasion, following into the "Haven" to continue the harrassment), and I can certainly imagine how difficult it must be for a person with dyslexia (or other communication difficulties) where there is much greater pressure when preparing a post, and so much greater possibilty that what they type may not end up reflecting the message\information\idea that they were intending to convey - I know that my posts sometimes take several hours to type, and even then I'm not always happy with them, deleting quite a few rather than post them, despite the time I had taken to put them together.


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26 May 2021, 9:07 am

I don't feel Caz left the Site. She's always been a rather sporadic poster.



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26 May 2021, 9:09 am

Guys, instead of idly speculating and gossiping about reasons this and reasons that - know that perceptions of bullying aren't always what they appear and that sometimes, alleged racist posts are actually racist (often without the intention of being so).

People stop posting or leave for many reasons; speculation that this was due to bullying or not fitting in with the "vocal majority" in "certain regions of the site" are just that: speculation, and it's unhealthy.

If you see things you think are problematic please report them.


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27 May 2021, 4:52 pm

I didnt leave i just havent been here but when i tried signing in a few days ago it said i was blocked so i thought i had done something wrong to get banned or something but it logged me in today


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27 May 2021, 5:38 pm

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I didnt leave i just havent been here but when i tried signing in a few days ago it said i was blocked so i thought i had done something wrong to get banned or something but it logged me in today


Gorgeous!
Never scare us like that again! 8O

If anyone bullies you again, they will have a very angry skunk to contend with. :evil:


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Laughter is the best medicine. Age-appropriate behaviour is an arbitrary NT social construct.
Don't tell me white lies. Gaslight me at your peril. Don't give me your bad attitude. Hypnosis, psychosis. Tomarto, tomayto. There are *4* lights. Honey badger.
If I'm so bad, pass me by. ;)


And one more thing,


"A stranger is a friend gang-stalker you haven't met yet." Humour is not meant to be taken seriously, yet many on the left pervert its intent.
Truth may be inconvenient but it is never politically incorrect...The Oracle of Truth has spoken...8)


I luv Joe Biden! Democracy first!