Is it reasonable for a 31 year old to be banned fromcaffeine

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Ultimately I feel like you and your parents communicate in entirely different languages, so to speak. I guess I can't believe a father would actually say things in the way you hear them. These threads end up making me wish I was sitting in between you two and trying to translate. If that would actually help, who knows. Instead of reacting to each other's statements, it might help if you both learn to step back and ask each other to rephrase, and ask questions designed to find out what the real point is. You dad seems to repeat a lot of sayings, and those are super difficult for those on the spectrum. For example, in saying he will outlive you, I'm thinking what he really might be saying is that by engaging in some of these food and drink choices you might be shortening your own life. Ie he's trying to show concern for your health. My personal response to that would be another saying: "all things in moderation". Or, taking a completely opposite approach, what my dad used to say: "who wants a long life if you don't get to enjoy it?" (my dad did not get to enjoy a long life and I really miss him, but he did live the life he wanted).

He Also lit a cigar and held it within a inch or less from my skin multiple times on my birthday last week he knocked me to the ground and gave me a carpet burn for trying to get a regular coffee in the morning he also has threatened to leave me on the shoulder of the highway or median or whatever times one time he was about to leave out on the side of the highway in the hot Texas summer over an hour from civilation and he also almost has almost abandoned me on the side of the highway multiple times he has also said that most west Texas fathers would of murdered me by now and he yells at me and cusses me out and threatens to kick me out all the time I don’t feel like he is a good example of Christian love in a dad they also have said that he would kick me me out and let me die he has said that I am lucky I did not get cut off and kicked on the street when I was eighteen i want to work but I am unemployable because of Asperger’s and the state job people refuse to help me any parents don’t believe I should stand up for civil rights as a disabled man I am trying to start my intentional church of Christ community and church if all else fails and he takes the oil company away even though he said I own the whole company because it was. Meant. To give me a living after they are gone

I called my church for emergency housing but they refused to help me in any way financially I am constantly living in fear at pretty all times of my dad I have been homeless ten times since august he won’t even let me use a computer and he yells at me for wanting to use internet on his computer when I Don’t have a computer and they won’t help me do everything I need to do on devices he won’t let me call anyone for financial or housing attendance I really am tempted to run away I am so despondent all the time the because of my mom and dads constant bullying and they call me lazy but nobody will give me a chance he has hit me multiple times they won’t let me get welfare so my option is to be a beggar on the street because of my dad I am afraid that my dads gun will go off someday because my grandfather shot his gun point blank at me accidentally I talked to a domestic advocacy center and they told me that dad was possibly guilty of sexual crimes against like possibly even felonies against me but I don’t want to send my own dad to the pen and ruin his life he wants to constantly kiss me and I don’t like it

I wish you lived here not only so I could get a better sense of what is really going on, but also because we have a lot of support services for autistic adults. Sigh. I don't know how to fix this.

Since homelessness in TX is not working out, I am tempted to Google for you: Best states for homelessness. I'd wish you a good residential unit to get back on your feet. My family is currently low income and on Medicaid (whose services are hit and miss, but even so); I did find a reliable resource for mental health support. We have food pantries here (CO) but not great shelters - we do have some good residential units (that actually empower their residents - what a novel concept). Getting away from abuse is hard. It wasn't my choice to leave my family home, but it was for the best. Recently it took me two years to leave my toxic (discriminatory) workplace. I still have difficulties asserting myself in general and specifically with my bullying (abusive) family members. Tough stuff.

My dad started a argument with me on the road after I tried to get him to leave me alone and yell at me he even spit in my face when I was sitting next to him I wanted to talk the police in the nearest town but then he said I would be in a institution and he would be done with me all for the rest of my life all of because of possible caffeine he gaslit me about spitting on me he said he didn’t or didn’t mean to but it sounded like he was spitting a loogie in my face and he burps and farts on me all the time my dad can be so mean

Dad was trying to beat up and I don’t feel safe at home this-was because I was asking for help from him and he won’t let me on the computer I had to run away and be homeless again because he was trying to chase me out of the house he trolls me all the time and is the biggest bully I have ever had in my life and he makes me so depressed and he gaslit me This is my eleventh time to be on the streets since my august my mom is even crueler

Dad hasn’t let use a computer of his in four months and I’m too broke to buy one myself dad is destroying my mental health

I am so sorry. Your situation is really horrible. I wish you were somewhere with better resources.