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02 Sep 2011, 7:59 pm

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There is brain activity 48 days after conception

Please note that when Inuyasha says brain activity he means just that , 'activity' . nervous cells getting some electricity.

If it was for him, you would assume that brain activity means that it is a baby thinking about when he is going to finally get out of the womb so that he can drink milk and dream about becoming an astronaut. The reality is that activity and thought are hardly the same thing. More so, since there are no thalamic connections to the brain until the 26-th week, then it is rather ridiculous to assume it is anything close to human levels of brain structure. For starters it has no grasp of the environment.


No, by Brain Activity, I actually mean there is quite literally brain activity 48 days after conception. The Brain, Spinal Cord, and heart are among the first things to form. The "random electrical activity" as you call it is coming from the child's brain not nonexistent nerve endings like you are claiming.

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You want to know why I have a problem with feminists in general, is your attitude that flaunts the idea that you consider children to somehow be nothing more than property or a parasite.

I consider rape to be a horrible thing, that does not mean you then have the right to go and murder an innocent child. Furthermore as far as risking your life carrying the child, [b]NEWSFLASH you are risking your life walking on a sidewalk or crossing a street.[/b]


For the last time, deciding that you are not going to donate your body is not murder. If that were true I am a murderer right now for not donating my right kidney, lung, part of my liver, etc.

And your point about risking your life? You are seriously arguing that since people take controlled risks every day it is okay to force them into one? Well by that logic you have no right to refuse to risk complications to your own health by not donating a kidney right now. Selfish 'Yasha, someone's right to live is more important than your right not to have your oblique walls cut open. Go donate, yeah?


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Heart, lungs, kidney, etc. donations are a permanent thing.

A pregnency only lasts about 9 months.

Thus you are using a classic False equivalency and are attempting to appeal to emotion because you know you can't win the debate using facts and logic.


They're equivalent in that body autonomy is taking precedence over the absolute right to life. They're equivalent in that someone is not obliged to risk their health to save anyone's life.

Do you think someone should be compelled, if it were possibly, to temporarily donate an organ because there is someone who needs it, and have it reimplanted later? If not, why not...?


Still a false equivalency, in the case of someone temporarily needing an organ, there is something known as life support where a machine can substitute as an organ until a replacement can be found from an organ donor.

Unless you mean to tell me there are working artificial wombs where a child can be put in, that option is not available.

Furthermore, in the advent where I am killed from an accident or something, I actually happen to be an organ donor.



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02 Sep 2011, 8:02 pm

It's not that, it is just that the religious right refuses to provide free prenatal care for rape victims.



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02 Sep 2011, 8:11 pm

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It's not that, it is just that the religious right refuses to provide free prenatal care for rape victims.


Plizz, mister, to telling me:

What country - or is it what state - or what city - where this "religious right" is in control? Or if this religious right - which I am not finding in phone book - a charitable organization and not a government?



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02 Sep 2011, 8:25 pm

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A pregnency only lasts about 9 months.

Thus you are using a classic False equivalency and are attempting to appeal to emotion because you know you can't win the debate using facts and logic.


No, you are using a classic form of sticking your fingers in your ears and yelling NA NA NA NA I CAN'T HEAR YOU

Because pregnancy may last an average of 9 months, but the effects from it are LIFELONG.

Don't think I'm telling the truth? My perineum tore all the way from my vagina to my anus (and tore my anus as well) when I gave birth and they had to stitch it up. It still hurts when I take a crap. A year later.

And someone I work with pisses her pants every day if she walks too quickly and jarrs her body at all because her abdominal muscles were destroyed. And two 'corrective' surgeries have yet to 'fix' her because she is not fixable.

And someone else I know had to have a histerectomy or risk bleeding to death during delivery.

And my cousin with Type 1 diabetes has not recovered yet from her C-section that she had almost 3 years ago.

And then there are the women who DIE from complications during pregnancy and/or delivery. Those effects are quite certainly permanent.

How are these things illogical? These things are factual. You are being illogical by ignoring them. And of course it's easy to have a flippant attitude about pregnancy if you know you will never be pregnant, let alone be forced to continue one.

Having a romanticized view of pregnancy and delivery is not productive in these arguments. It just makes you sound like a jerk.


Ouch a stage 4! That was one of my biggest fears. I guess I got off easy with a stage 3, although the doctor stitched me up without any anesthesia. Slightly less painful than the actual delivery though.

The most lasting effects came from my c-section over 6 years ago. I have painful scar tissue and it hurts when I bend. My back is all screwed up and my stomach muscles split in half and never fully healed. Not to mention all the cosmetic issues.

Pregnancy affects a woman for a full lifetime. Even decades after giving birth. My mom had osteoporosis (baby's suck the calcium out of a woman's bones) and incontinence (nice way of saying she peed her pants). These are very common postnatal conditions. She also has breast cancer which may have occurred because she did not breastfeed (I'm not sure how strong the science is on that one - it's just what her doctor told her). That's something to consider as a woman who chooses adoption would most likely not be breastfeeding.



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02 Sep 2011, 8:39 pm

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Ouch a stage 4! That was one of my biggest fears. I guess I got off easy with a stage 3, although the doctor stitched me up without any anesthesia. Slightly less painful than the actual delivery though.

The most lasting effects came from my c-section over 6 years ago. I have painful scar tissue and it hurts when I bend. My back is all screwed up and my stomach muscles split in half and never fully healed. Not to mention all the cosmetic issues.

Pregnancy affects a woman for a full lifetime. Even decades after giving birth. My mom had osteoporosis (baby's suck the calcium out of a woman's bones) and incontinence (nice way of saying she peed her pants). These are very common postnatal conditions. She also has breast cancer which may have occurred because she did not breastfeed (I'm not sure how strong the science is on that one - it's just what her doctor told her). That's something to consider as a woman who chooses adoption would most likely not be breastfeeding.


Yeah... it was not pleasant. But the scarier thing was when the doctor who delivered my baby got this panicked look on her face and told the intern to call the surgeon NOW... because I was bleeding really heavily. Luckily, it stopped. Or I would be minus my uterus. So the stage 4 tear was like getting off "easy"... I guess?? Mind you, my labor lasted 6 LONG DAYS. By the end of it, I was so exhausted I didn't care about anything except sleeping.

I was actually more afraid of having a c-section than a tear. C-sections are such major surgical procedures, and yet people seem to think it's like having your wisdom teeth pulled out or something. You'll be up and about in no time. Minor discomfort, that's all. Riiiight. I have a lot of respect for women who have c-sections and still manage to take care of a newborn. Super moms, indeed.



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02 Sep 2011, 8:52 pm

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Ouch a stage 4! That was one of my biggest fears. I guess I got off easy with a stage 3, although the doctor stitched me up without any anesthesia. Slightly less painful than the actual delivery though.

The most lasting effects came from my c-section over 6 years ago. I have painful scar tissue and it hurts when I bend. My back is all screwed up and my stomach muscles split in half and never fully healed. Not to mention all the cosmetic issues.

Pregnancy affects a woman for a full lifetime. Even decades after giving birth. My mom had osteoporosis (baby's suck the calcium out of a woman's bones) and incontinence (nice way of saying she peed her pants). These are very common postnatal conditions. She also has breast cancer which may have occurred because she did not breastfeed (I'm not sure how strong the science is on that one - it's just what her doctor told her). That's something to consider as a woman who chooses adoption would most likely not be breastfeeding.


Yeah... it was not pleasant. But the scarier thing was when the doctor who delivered my baby got this panicked look on her face and told the intern to call the surgeon NOW... because I was bleeding really heavily. Luckily, it stopped. Or I would be minus my uterus. So the stage 4 tear was like getting off "easy"... I guess?? Mind you, my labor lasted 6 LONG DAYS. By the end of it, I was so exhausted I didn't care about anything except sleeping.

I was actually more afraid of having a c-section than a tear. C-sections are such major surgical procedures, and yet people seem to think it's like having your wisdom teeth pulled out or something. You'll be up and about in no time. Minor discomfort, that's all. Riiiight. I have a lot of respect for women who have c-sections and still manage to take care of a newborn. Super moms, indeed.


I tend to think moms in general are a tough breed. :wink:



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02 Sep 2011, 10:14 pm

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Heart, lungs, kidney, etc. donations are a permanent thing.

Dear, it is not like we haven't mentioned a couple of millions of times that pregnancy has permanent side effects and the potential to have serious permanent side effects.

More so, I did mention the blood donation example a month ago in this thread. No, I have decided that you are no longer able to make arguments disappear by coming a month later and pretending they weren't made. So, let me repeat it:

How would you feel if the government forced you to donate a liter of blood once a week for the following 9 months? It is just 9 months, and it is not permanent donation.

Speaking of arguments you like to pretend are not made: thalamic brain connections not present until 26-th week, the 'developed' brain (not really) you talk about is not even wired to sensory input until the 26-th week.


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03 Sep 2011, 12:30 am

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Heart, lungs, kidney, etc. donations are a permanent thing.

Dear, it is not like we haven't mentioned a couple of millions of times that pregnancy has permanent side effects and the potential to have serious permanent side effects.

More so, I did mention the blood donation example a month ago in this thread. No, I have decided that you are no longer able to make arguments disappear by coming a month later and pretending they weren't made. So, let me repeat it:

How would you feel if the government forced you to donate a liter of blood once a week for the following 9 months? It is just 9 months, and it is not permanent donation.

Speaking of arguments you like to pretend are not made: thalamic brain connections not present until 26-th week, the 'developed' brain (not really) you talk about is not even wired to sensory input until the 26-th week.


How are blood donations related, your body can generate more blood cells and you have to be over a certain weight to safely give blood.

Additionally, I've said it before and I'll say it again, I don't care about the fact the brain activity is not complex, I care about the fact there is brain activity at all.



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03 Sep 2011, 12:43 am

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I'm curious what some of the pro-life people here (and everybody else, too) think about plan B (prevents pregnancy) or RU-486 (medical abortion, as opposed to surgical abortion) very early after a rape. Do you think that pharmacies and/or pharmacists should have a right to refuse to dispense plan B, even for a woman with a prescription? Do you think that plan B should be available off the shelf? Do you think that efforts should be made to make these drugs available to women without access to drug stores and/or health clinics (not, that's not a rare or unusual situation)?


What exactly is "Plan B" - you will understand I do not follow this stuff - differing how from the standard hormonal adjusting pills [not without problems] or the other systems [neither infallible nor without problems] being pushed in the 60s?

I immediately think of "Special K" and "Windows XP" which they tried to convince us did NOT stand for experimental - but that is just how my mental associations work.

As for what you are labelling "medical abortion" - updating the Wise Woman's herbal concoction - any objection to abortion is an objection to abortion, surely.

Like if I shoot my neighbour it does not count as a different thing from poisoning him.

Plan B basically makes the interior of the uterus inhospitable to a fertilized egg, but does not interfere with an egg that has already implanted.
'Medical' vs.'surgical' are technical terms - short form, medical is intervention by drugs and surgical is intervention by physical manipulation. A not entirely dissimilar dichotomy is used to categorize patients in the ED: medical vs. trauma, with trauma being physical injury and medical being basically everything else. If your neighbor has been poisoned, he will be described as a medical patient; if shot, as a trauma. There are, of course, often overlaps.

Medical and surgical abortions are both different from spontaneous abortion, which is aka 'miscarriage.'



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03 Sep 2011, 12:50 am

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Still a false equivalency, in the case of someone temporarily needing an organ, there is something known as life support where a machine can substitute as an organ until a replacement can be found from an organ donor.

Jesus Christ on a frying pan, your ignorance just keeps on getting worse. For once please educate yourself before you spout off as if you actually knew something.
Here are some ideas to start with: embryonic anatomy; heart/lung machines, how they work, and what their time limitations are; kidney dialysis; liver failure; artificial vs. human heart transplantation.
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Furthermore, in the advent where I am killed from an accident or something, I actually happen to be an organ donor.

whoop-de-do, good for you. So am I and probably most of the rest of us. Has absolutely zilch bearing on the discussion.



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03 Sep 2011, 12:55 am

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How are blood donations related, your body can generate more blood cells and you have to be over a certain weight to safely give blood.

It has to do with being forced to donate from your body for the good of another organism, person or otherwise. For you it would only be 9 months, and you could potentially save a life with every donation! As for weight, that's only because they want to take a full unit under current rules; with the proposed legislation, they could simply adjust the amount of blood take so that you'd just be miserable for 9 months rather than dead.



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03 Sep 2011, 5:38 am

Inuyasha wrote:
mechanicalgirl39 wrote:
Inuyasha wrote:
mechanicalgirl39 wrote:
Inuyasha wrote:
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Inuyasha wrote:
There is brain activity 48 days after conception

Please note that when Inuyasha says brain activity he means just that , 'activity' . nervous cells getting some electricity.

If it was for him, you would assume that brain activity means that it is a baby thinking about when he is going to finally get out of the womb so that he can drink milk and dream about becoming an astronaut. The reality is that activity and thought are hardly the same thing. More so, since there are no thalamic connections to the brain until the 26-th week, then it is rather ridiculous to assume it is anything close to human levels of brain structure. For starters it has no grasp of the environment.


No, by Brain Activity, I actually mean there is quite literally brain activity 48 days after conception. The Brain, Spinal Cord, and heart are among the first things to form. The "random electrical activity" as you call it is coming from the child's brain not nonexistent nerve endings like you are claiming.

@ LKL

You want to know why I have a problem with feminists in general, is your attitude that flaunts the idea that you consider children to somehow be nothing more than property or a parasite.

I consider rape to be a horrible thing, that does not mean you then have the right to go and murder an innocent child. Furthermore as far as risking your life carrying the child, [b]NEWSFLASH you are risking your life walking on a sidewalk or crossing a street.[/b]


For the last time, deciding that you are not going to donate your body is not murder. If that were true I am a murderer right now for not donating my right kidney, lung, part of my liver, etc.

And your point about risking your life? You are seriously arguing that since people take controlled risks every day it is okay to force them into one? Well by that logic you have no right to refuse to risk complications to your own health by not donating a kidney right now. Selfish 'Yasha, someone's right to live is more important than your right not to have your oblique walls cut open. Go donate, yeah?


:roll:

Heart, lungs, kidney, etc. donations are a permanent thing.

A pregnency only lasts about 9 months.

Thus you are using a classic False equivalency and are attempting to appeal to emotion because you know you can't win the debate using facts and logic.


They're equivalent in that body autonomy is taking precedence over the absolute right to life. They're equivalent in that someone is not obliged to risk their health to save anyone's life.

Do you think someone should be compelled, if it were possibly, to temporarily donate an organ because there is someone who needs it, and have it reimplanted later? If not, why not...?


Still a false equivalency, in the case of someone temporarily needing an organ, there is something known as life support where a machine can substitute as an organ until a replacement can be found from an organ donor.

Unless you mean to tell me there are working artificial wombs where a child can be put in, that option is not available.

Furthermore, in the advent where I am killed from an accident or something, I actually happen to be an organ donor.


It's a hypothetical question. If there were no such thing as life support, do you think someone should be forced to do this? Can't you just answer the question on principle rather than split hairs to avoid it?

In addition, where did you go when cave canem gave her account of damaging pregnancies? Maybe it's because you are for forcing women through lasting and severe bodily damage against their will?


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03 Sep 2011, 12:41 pm

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How are blood donations related, your body can generate more blood cells and you have to be over a certain weight to safely give blood.

It has to do with being forced to donate from your body for the good of another organism, person or otherwise. For you it would only be 9 months, and you could potentially save a life with every donation! As for weight, that's only because they want to take a full unit under current rules; with the proposed legislation, they could simply adjust the amount of blood take so that you'd just be miserable for 9 months rather than dead.


What you are saying is we should legalize murder because you don't want to deal with a child being in your womb for 9 months. What you are saying is that the child is somehow not human, because you know that Roe v. Wade might get tossed out if the child is recognized as being another human being.

This isn't about forcing anything, this is about the fact the child is stuck inside the womb for X number of months, what you are proposing is essentially murder for conveinence. Forcing people to donate organs (having organs physically removed from them) is a life threatening situation.

When you say there are health risks with pregnency, yeah I think we've seen the health risks used to justify infanticide, such as a simple headache being the justification for a late-term abortion.

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It's a hypothetical question. If there were no such thing as life support, do you think someone should be forced to do this? Can't you just answer the question on principle rather than split hairs to avoid it?


It's also a stupid question. You are suggesting someone be forced to give up an organ, and comparing that to a child being in the womb for 9 months. Unless you have developed an artificial womb, your example is rather idiotic for the simple fact the child is present in the womb already, and what you are advocating is the murder of a child because you don't want the burden of said child being inside you for 9 months. I don't view women as incubators and I consider rape to be wrong, however it isn't just the woman's rights we need to consider because the child has rights too.

We are left with a situation where there are two bad situations: one where the woman is essentially carrying a child she doesn't want for 9 months and the other is the murder of the child depriving the child of his/her right to exist.

The lesser of the two evils here is the woman having to carry the child to term.

A fact feminists fail to consider and the fact pro-abortion people don't want the public to consider is that the child has rights too.

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In addition, where did you go when cave canem gave her account of damaging pregnancies? Maybe it's because you are for forcing women through lasting and severe bodily damage against their will?


My mom actually had to have a C-Section to get me out because I managed to get my head stuck in my mom's rib cage. C-Sections aren't as dangerous as they once were, if you have a doctor that knows what they are doing, if they view the actual giving birth to be too dangerous, they can opt for a C-Section and get the child out that way.



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03 Sep 2011, 2:23 pm

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Plan B basically makes the interior of the uterus inhospitable to a fertilized egg, but does not interfere with an egg that has already implanted.
'Medical' vs.'surgical' are technical terms - short form, medical is intervention by drugs and surgical is intervention by physical manipulation. A not entirely dissimilar dichotomy is used to categorize patients in the ED: medical vs. trauma, with trauma being physical injury and medical being basically everything else. If your neighbor has been poisoned, he will be described as a medical patient; if shot, as a trauma. There are, of course, often overlaps.

Medical and surgical abortions are both different from spontaneous abortion, which is aka 'miscarriage.'


On the poison / shooting, I was of course talking about the legal / ethical / moral question, not the medical - obvious from the point of view of the medical profession the two are quite different, as are physical versus chemical abortions.

I did look up the Plan B thing a little - noting that it varies with the chemistry. Some apparently can operate either to block conception or implantation or as an abortifacient. It also looks as if the various systems are not exactly infallible.

It should be obvious that I do not have a clear-cut abortion stance [beyond a strong wish people would stop front burnering it an issue and an earnest design for people to talk straight].

Contraception is superficially simpler, but I have to say I have thought about it less, and am rather further from having a position.

Clearly, some of the "plan B" chemicals or cocktails would be esentially contraception and come under THAT set of principles.



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03 Sep 2011, 2:35 pm

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Speaking of arguments you like to pretend are not made: thalamic brain connections not present until 26-th week, the 'developed' brain (not really) you talk about is not even wired to sensory input until the 26-th week.


Personally I would have chopped this whole rabbit chicken many rounds ago, but:

I say [probably again] I do NOT see that the state of brain connections in the human at any given point of development is an ARGUMENT at all relevant to the pros and cons of life termination. I see it as problematic even with brain degeneration at the other end of life.

The presence or absence of a particular physical or mental trait does not change what termination of human life is. So Inuyasha says it can wiggle its ears on the 37th day, ERGO you must not kill it. Why. I ask? Vexcalibur says it cannot wiggle its ears till the 65th day, so killing it is no big deal. Why I ask?

What is the big divine or legal or natural principle that makes ear wiggling the watershed?



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03 Sep 2011, 2:38 pm

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Plan B basically makes the interior of the uterus inhospitable to a fertilized egg, but does not interfere with an egg that has already implanted.
'Medical' vs.'surgical' are technical terms - short form, medical is intervention by drugs and surgical is intervention by physical manipulation. A not entirely dissimilar dichotomy is used to categorize patients in the ED: medical vs. trauma, with trauma being physical injury and medical being basically everything else. If your neighbor has been poisoned, he will be described as a medical patient; if shot, as a trauma. There are, of course, often overlaps.

Medical and surgical abortions are both different from spontaneous abortion, which is aka 'miscarriage.'


On the poison / shooting, I was of course talking about the legal / ethical / moral question, not the medical - obvious from the point of view of the medical profession the two are quite different, as are physical versus chemical abortions.

I did look up the Plan B thing a little - noting that it varies with the chemistry. Some apparently can operate either to block conception or implantation or as an abortifacient. It also looks as if the various systems are not exactly infallible.

It should be obvious that I do not have a clear-cut abortion stance [beyond a strong wish people would stop front burnering it an issue and an earnest design for people to talk straight].

Contraception is superficially simpler, but I have to say I have thought about it less, and am rather further from having a position.

Clearly, some of the "plan B" chemicals or cocktails would be esentially contraception and come under THAT set of principles.

when I said that RU-486 caused a 'medical' as opposed to a 'surgical' abortion, I was making a distinction about the impact on the mother, not a moral distinction. Medical treatments are usually better for the patient than surgical ones.

wrt. brain function: it makes a difference because most pro-choice people are concerned about the state of the zef *now,* when the abortion takes place, as opposed to in the hypothetical future.

@Inuyasha: you might not like it, but reality bites.