This poll is so ridiculous I am not going to bother answering it.
The thing that kills me is when people blather on about the sacredness of a fetus, yet do nothing to care about the human that results from it and the quality of their life afterwards. i.e. my ex-friend. He totally blathered on for his ex to not abort, then when he realized the kid was special needs, totally dropped out of that kid's life and became a deadbeat (obviously this was the deciding factor for ending our friendship). And this is better, how? I also think she's a sub-par mom on the fritz considering she never wanted this kid to begin with. You can't MAKE someone want a kid. And now a kid has to further suffer because of it.
The way I view it, this is a very personal decision (yes, decision) for the WOMAN. There is no easy option no matter how someone slices it. Raise a kid, that's a lot to do, and even just financially. If you're like me and place a child for adoption, I cannot begin to tell you how incredibly difficult that is. Not everyone can do that because of attachment issues (even if they're NOT bitten by the mothering bug there is still that there-- and no, when she was born, I didn't magically develop my desire to mother either, don't get me wrong, I still love her, but it's not in the cards considering it's a good day if I can handle my world around me). And don't you dare sanctify me telling me that every woman can do this instead of abortion-- there aren't endless adoptive parents in this world either. And keep in mind, that, genetically you still run the risk of making a kid who is not NT-- and that quite narrows down the selection of prospective adoptive parents too. My birthdaughter is fullblown nonverbal autie. I lucked out on finding a good family, but not very many people do and there are tons of horror stories out there (if something like that happened to my birthdaughter, I could NEVER forgive myself). I think some people are utmost unrealistic about these things. It must be easy for people to talk about something when it doesn't directly involve them. If for some reason I end up pregnant again, I'll more than likely take notice earlier from knowing the symptoms, let's just say I don't think I can do the whole adoption thing all over again. It was hard enough the first time. And that was with good circumstances. I don't think I would be so lucky next time.
p.s. I can see someone replying to me with a "well, if I..."... Well, that's YOU. If you're so against abortion then don't get one. Kinda like how I tell those ignorant people who are against gay marriage to not to get with a gay person if it bothers them so incredibly bad. Duh. Common. Sense. Separation of church and state. Obviously some people failed government class if they're from the US. Some people in the country are not of your religion (when strangely this constitution touts "freedom of religion!"), and would not like to be bound to your religion ball and chain (when I already had enough of that stuff growing up). Now go on your merry way.
p.p.s before someone calls me a slut for my viewpoint, I've been intimate with a grand total of one guy in my life, who I've been in a relationship with for the last 11 years. Now go sit down.