The_Walrus wrote:
Autistic people suck at relationships. We're not even good at relationships with each other. Even an all-Aspie society where most communication is based around emails would probably fail.
I don't think the problem is communication. It's going to more likely be politics. In order to settle conflicts, there is an intense need to create power-groups that can override the opposition in a manner that seems legitimate. This requires a lot in terms of theory of mind, and clever communication techniques. Aspies and high functioning autistics are not going to be masters at this process.
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The geneticist Steve Jones of UCL wrote about an all-autistic society in his book Darwin's Island. He concluded we'd fail drastically because we wouldn't we able to communicate. I reckon we'd work around the communication barrier and do some things better (as said above, the Aspie politicians would be better thought of, and we'd also probably give science more consideration than the general population), but we would struggle to an extent. I don't think we'd be any better.
Yeah, Steve Jones's idea sounds too black and white and questionable.
I don't think better follows from the evidence we have though, even if some flaws are avoided.
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We are communicating with each other now arent we? What else is needed for a functioning society.
A lot. It is one thing to communicate, and it's another thing to achieve social goals. Societies need to coordinate towards common goals. This involves politics, and submission to authorities in many cases.
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If anything I think we beat ourselves up too much because we feel compelled to follow NT social conventions and inevitably fail at them. Theres no right or wrong way in that particular sense, just difference. On the whole though i think autistics make better specialists.
Well, there are reasons to think that some of our variances are a lack of recognition of NT social conventions and not anything wrong. The problem is that there are also a lot of.... issues that are harder to understand.
So, if I said to someone "Hey, you're getting heavy", there's a few different things I could be doing:
1) Informing them of their weight issue.
2) Trying to hurt their feelings.
3) Trying to put them down in front of their social peers.
4) Other. (A catch-all for things I didn't think of)
Now, NT's are very aware of reasons 2 and 3, and they recognize 2 and 3. Now, maybe society needs to be less sensitive, so 2 shouldn't matter. However, 3 is always going to matter. If there is a game-theoretic gain from using words that "seem" innocuous, but that really aren't, then there will be beings that will try to exploit this so long as they have the intelligence to do so. And there are game-theoretic gains from undermining the status of others, as in many political games, status is zero-sum.
So, part of the problems that Aspies and NTs have is that Aspies really do tend towards deficiency in many theory of mind issue causing poor communications on their part, while the more politically aware NTs can see the text and subtext in a lot of dialogue very quickly.