36 year old female teacher had sex with 14 year old student

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21 Oct 2013, 6:07 pm

LKL wrote:
So it's not statutory rape if the underage person enjoyed it?


The laws, at least in the USA, as far as I know, define statutory rape based purely on a person's age. Enjoyment is irrelevant to the legal definitions.

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Newsflash: sometimes 14 year-old girls initiate, and enjoy, sex with older men.


Well, they shouldn't do that. Naughty, naughty.

LKL wrote:
That doesn't mean that it's not statutory rape for them, either.


Correct. A dude has to be very careful these days.

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The reason for that is because a 14 year old cannot consent.


No. The reason is "because the law says so." A 14 year old may be perfectly capable of consenting, but his or her consent has no legal bearing.

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They do not have the maturity either emotionally or knowledge-wise to fully understand what they are getting in to.


Some might. Some might not.

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The adult party is entirely responsible for this, regardless of the genders involved.


To avoid running afoul of the law, minors had better just screw other minors, so that no-one is held responsible.



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21 Oct 2013, 6:30 pm

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Are people blind to the fact that a lot of teenage boys crave sex with older hot women?

In my home country, they'll do anything to sleep with prostitutes.

Also, Jono, I don't know exactly what happened. For all I know, she was the naive type who got easily seduced and charmed by a kid who already had the makings of a charming womanizer who was able to have to get it from her.

It's not impossible for teenagers to be shrewd and clever.


Oh, my God. I cannot believe the sh** I'm reading here. Do you not also realise that teenage girls can be just as horny and want sex with older men? So, would you excuse a 34 year old male teacher for having sex with 14 year girl because she had a silly little schoolgirl crush? If a 14 year old girl was horny and decided come on to a 34 year old man, expressing that she wants sex (and believe it or not, girls can in fact do this), then the correct response is to say no. It's the same thing if the genders are reversed and a 14 year old boy tries to "seduce" a 34 year old woman, again the correct response is to say no. Jeez, your whole argument seems to be based on the idea that only little boys can be "horny" and that only men can be predatory. Believe it or not, both males and females can be "horny" and both can be predatory. That "maybe she's the naive type who got easily seduced", seriously? If she can't tell the difference between a 14 year old boy and an adult man, she's got serious problems. Good lord, she's the adult here and therefore she has to take the responsibility to say no. I also call BS on the idea that "no one was harmed", I defy you to do a Google search for support groups for male survivors of sexual abuse and ask them if they agree with you.


Your post reeks of self-righteous ego. Who are you to decide that he didn't enjoy it when the evidence points otherwise. Yeah, why don't you continue living your life condemning others over trivial matters possessing the mindset of a witch hunter like many others still do in this modern world and not try to change and think more rationally and reasonably.

Look at it as a case by case thing rather than stereotyping and treating each member of a category as all the same.



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21 Oct 2013, 6:30 pm

I don't know everyone's gender here, but I suspect that it is largely the ladies who are arguing that teenaged boys need to be protected just as much as teenaged girls. There seems to be a certain amount of projecting--of female delicacy onto the male of the species.

Just because girls ought to be protected from men doesn't mean that boys shouldn't have any fun.

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21 Oct 2013, 6:33 pm

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Are people blind to the fact that a lot of teenage boys crave sex with older hot women?

In my home country, they'll do anything to sleep with prostitutes.

Also, Jono, I don't know exactly what happened. For all I know, she was the naive type who got easily seduced and charmed by a kid who already had the makings of a charming womanizer who was able to have to get it from her.

It's not impossible for teenagers to be shrewd and clever.

What do they do when they catch the clap from a ho?
I find it hard to conceive of a fourteen year old boy having that much charm and charisma.
Or even having an idea how to please a grown woman.


It can happen. Every human is an individual.



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21 Oct 2013, 6:46 pm

How many of the men that are pro sex with teach have sons?If he has sex with the teacher,how is he going to be expected to concentrate on his schoolwork?


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21 Oct 2013, 6:50 pm

It would certainly make us proud. :P

But only if she was hawt. :wink:

You have to expect that the minds of teenaged boys are going to be preoccupied with sex, anyway. If he is getting satisfied at school, then that is that much less time masturbating at home, and more time for homework.



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21 Oct 2013, 6:50 pm

Tequila wrote:
LKL wrote:
So it's not statutory rape if the underage person enjoyed it? Newsflash: sometimes 14 year-old girls initiate, and enjoy, sex with older men. That doesn't mean that it's not statutory rape for them,


Actually, in some countries - Germany, Austria, Spain and a whole host of other European countries - 14 year old girls having sex is perfectly legal.


Actually it is legal for 14 year old girls to have sex in many US states. As for 14 year old girls having sex with "older" men thats not limited to just Europe. To name some more countries where that would be totally legal.

Albania
Angola
Argentina
Austria
Bolivia
Brazil
Bulgaria
Burkina Faso
Burma
Chad
Chile
China
Colombia
Croatia
Ecuador
Estonia
Hungary
Italy
Japan
Liechtenstein
Lithuania
Mexico
Moldova
Montenegro
Niger
Nigeria
Paraguay
Peru
San Marino
Senegal
Serbia
Korea, South
Spain
Saint Kitts and Nevis
Togo
Holy See (Vatican City)



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21 Oct 2013, 6:52 pm

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How many of the men that are pro sex with teach have sons?If he has sex with the teacher,how is he going to be expected to concentrate on his schoolwork?


If you have sex with anyone, there is a good probability of having kids.

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If he has sex with the teacher,how is he going to be expected to concentrate on his schoolwork?


Yeah, because I'm sure constant surfing of Internet pornography itself isn't enough to do that. <sarcasm>



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21 Oct 2013, 7:02 pm

MCalavera wrote:
If you have sex with anyone, there is a good probability of having kids


Not necessarily.



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21 Oct 2013, 7:11 pm

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It would certainly make us proud. :P

But only if she was hawt. :wink:

You have to expect that the minds of teenaged boys are going to be preoccupied with sex, anyway. If he is getting satisfied at school, then that is that much less time masturbating at home, and more time for homework.


But what if she is the English teacher and he winds up with atrocious grammar?He is not going to be thinking about verbs,but vagina.
Shouldn't you be hitting on the hot teacher,and not your kid?
He should not be looking at internet porn,it should be the traditional way,a playboy on the school bus.


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21 Oct 2013, 7:40 pm

An English teacher would give him an opportunity to practice his sonnets. :wink:

Suppose, though, that if the sexual appetites of all of the boys were being sated by the female teachers, and by various MILFs who volunteered their time from the local community:

then, the girls would never be disturbed at all, and would be free to focus on their studies.

Win-win, all the way around. :cheers:



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21 Oct 2013, 7:58 pm

Somehow I don't see Sonnet 18 spouting from a 14 year old boy,more like a dirty limerick.
I think the girls would get jealous and pout.


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21 Oct 2013, 8:04 pm

Was it the 14 year old kid who complained?

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21 Oct 2013, 8:40 pm

Max000 wrote:
MCalavera wrote:
If you have sex with anyone, there is a good probability of having kids


Not necessarily.


Taken literally, you are correct.



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21 Oct 2013, 8:40 pm

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Was it the 14 year old kid who complained?

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No side is complaining. According to the OP, the kid is pleased and bragging about it, and everyone is happy for them.



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21 Oct 2013, 8:41 pm

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Was it the 14 year old kid who complained?

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I highly doubt it. He probably bragged, though.