11 Aug 2014, 10:10 pm
11 Aug 2014, 10:17 pm
starvingartist wrote:
Misslizard wrote:
Maybe younger women are too outspoken about chest or body hair,I would never tell a man to shave body hair or facial even tho I'm not into beards.It's not my face,so I don't have a right to say anything about it.
Depends on where the man wears the mini skirt and red hair,doubt anyone would notice or comment in cities like San Francisco or New York.
This isn't directed just at men,no where does the article say "Hey men,shut up",I've heard women make really mean comments about how other women are dressed,their weight and hair.Girls in middle school were more likely to say something evil about another girl,boys just flipped a booger or a spit wad.Neither is pleasant,but the effect of the words lasts longer and hurts more emotionally than a spit wad.
For example an older woman I know has beautiful long hair,the other women in her age group told her she should cut it becuse it was too "young" a look for a woman of her age.On the other hand men would admire her hair and tell her not to cut it,it was so lovely.
Depends on where the man wears the mini skirt and red hair,doubt anyone would notice or comment in cities like San Francisco or New York.
This isn't directed just at men,no where does the article say "Hey men,shut up",I've heard women make really mean comments about how other women are dressed,their weight and hair.Girls in middle school were more likely to say something evil about another girl,boys just flipped a booger or a spit wad.Neither is pleasant,but the effect of the words lasts longer and hurts more emotionally than a spit wad.
For example an older woman I know has beautiful long hair,the other women in her age group told her she should cut it becuse it was too "young" a look for a woman of her age.On the other hand men would admire her hair and tell her not to cut it,it was so lovely.
i wouldn't tell a guy to shave, either. in fact, the last guy i dated shaved his chest and i kept telling him i hoped he wasn't doing it for me because i actually like chest hair, but he seemed to prefer it that way (hairless)--yet he would complain all the time about it itching. let's just say there is lots of pressure on everybody, men and women, to dress/look/act a certain way, and it's not fair for any of us. i think everyone should work on embracing imperfection and variety instead of concentrating on perfection and conformity, because perfection and conformity as goals are neither healthy nor realistic.
starvingartist, I find it's absolutely brilliant being my age, because nobody gives a damn what I look like. Not that they probably cared all that much before. But Jesus Christ, what wrecks people turn into as they cross from 40 to 50 -- not just from age and poor diet/exercise but from being in harness that long while raising kids. So long as I show up in human form with my teeth and hair brushed, and in clean clothes, I'm pretty much good to go. Also, having felt the ass of a 50something professor who spends a lot of time sitting in libraries, I know I've got nothing to apologise for.
11 Aug 2014, 10:45 pm
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12 Aug 2014, 12:16 pm
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12 Aug 2014, 12:41 pm
LoveNotHate wrote:
The role of women living for men's expectations reminds me of an exchange between a television show moderator, and comedian Phyllis Diller:
Moderator: "Phyliss, what would the world be like with no men?".
Phyllis Diller: "You'd have a lot fat, happy women".
Moderator: "Phyliss, what would the world be like with no men?".
Phyllis Diller: "You'd have a lot fat, happy women".
I don't know that males aren't the only ones who might judge woman on physical appearance, and females can be pretty nasty to each other if they want to.
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12 Aug 2014, 12:46 pm
12 Aug 2014, 12:53 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
http://tubecrush.net/
Thanks. There's tons of men that look like them though...ordinary. *Shrug* A couple of them were cute though.
I think it's a bit wrong to just take photos of people without their knowledge though. I remember some ordinary looking man in a suit was trying to take photos of me with his phone.
That's the only time I've ever noticed it anyway.
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12 Aug 2014, 3:50 pm
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The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
http://tubecrush.net/
Thanks. There's tons of men that look like them though...ordinary. *Shrug* A couple of them were cute though.
I think it's a bit wrong to just take photos of people without their knowledge though. I remember some ordinary looking man in a suit was trying to take photos of me with his phone.
That's the only time I've ever noticed it anyway.And I am entirely sure this website would be entirely shut down if the targets were women, the captions are even more objectifying than the non-consented pictures, like seriously how can this website can be even legal?
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12 Aug 2014, 3:57 pm
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On the slip horn version of the penis.My ex was a home birth and never had his foreskin removed,didn't bother me one bit,something else to play with 
He also had a goatee and a mustache,I never told him to remove them.Not going into it,but he didn't show me the same respect.I did not have my son "clipped" because that should be his choice.It's not that unusual in rural areas where there are home births for the male infants to be left natural.
He also had a goatee and a mustache,I never told him to remove them.Not going into it,but he didn't show me the same respect.I did not have my son "clipped" because that should be his choice.It's not that unusual in rural areas where there are home births for the male infants to be left natural.That detail is irrelevant, almost half of the world standardize male circ en masse and it isn't as nearly demonized in the media, not even close, as the female circ like it should be.
Female circ is called mutilation by the media while male circ is a "medical procedure"; it is totaly legal to be done to male newborns in many countries.
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12 Aug 2014, 4:01 pm
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12 Aug 2014, 4:16 pm
12 Aug 2014, 4:18 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Misslizard wrote:
On the slip horn version of the penis.My ex was a home birth and never had his foreskin removed,didn't bother me one bit,something else to play with He also had a goatee and a mustache,I never told him to remove them.Not going into it,but he didn't show me the same respect.I did not have my son "clipped" because that should be his choice.It's not that unusual in rural areas where there are home births for the male infants to be left natural.
He also had a goatee and a mustache,I never told him to remove them.Not going into it,but he didn't show me the same respect.I did not have my son "clipped" because that should be his choice.It's not that unusual in rural areas where there are home births for the male infants to be left natural.That detail is irrelevant, almost half of the world standardize male circ en masse and it isn't as nearly demonized in the media, not even close, as the female circ like it should be.
I read in some african countries they are making men circ themselves with rubber bands so as to reduce the risk of catching hiv.
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12 Aug 2014, 4:36 pm
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The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Misslizard wrote:
On the slip horn version of the penis.My ex was a home birth and never had his foreskin removed,didn't bother me one bit,something else to play with He also had a goatee and a mustache,I never told him to remove them.Not going into it,but he didn't show me the same respect.I did not have my son "clipped" because that should be his choice.It's not that unusual in rural areas where there are home births for the male infants to be left natural.
He also had a goatee and a mustache,I never told him to remove them.Not going into it,but he didn't show me the same respect.I did not have my son "clipped" because that should be his choice.It's not that unusual in rural areas where there are home births for the male infants to be left natural.That detail is irrelevant, almost half of the world standardize male circ en masse and it isn't as nearly demonized in the media, not even close, as the female circ like it should be.
I read in some african countries they are making men circ themselves with rubber bands so as to reduce the risk of catching hiv.
Ouch.
Well, the removal of breasts reduces the risk of breast cancer too.
12 Aug 2014, 5:18 pm
AspieOtaku wrote:
Check up on the term false equivalence.
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