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13 Feb 2019, 10:17 pm

I’m glad you got thru the ‘suicidal disease’ and that you have good interactions with people despite being bullied when younger. It took me a while to understand your style of writing but now I get it.

I hope that you and your wife continue to thrive. Thanks fr sharing what is possible.

I guess, as in the poem you linked by the girl, you sustain your enthusiasm by that type of talk n person


to beat down the life-robbing type of feedback n thoughts that were there before.

I guess u deprived those peoplw n thoughts of ur attention n energy

Then u directed it to these type of ppl n activities.
And that’s how the suicide type thoughts can wither away to nothing.

I guess that is the lesson I can take from this thread.


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13 Feb 2019, 11:28 pm

blooiejagwa wrote:
I’m glad you got thru the ‘suicidal disease’ and that you have good interactions with people despite being bullied when younger. It took me a while to understand your style of writing but now I get it.

I hope that you and your wife continue to thrive. Thanks fr sharing what is possible.

I guess, as in the poem you linked by the girl, you sustain your enthusiasm by that type of talk n person


to beat down the life-robbing type of feedback n thoughts that were there before.

I guess u deprived those peoplw n thoughts of ur attention n energy

Then u directed it to these type of ppl n activities.
And that’s how the suicide type thoughts can wither away to nothing.

I guess that is the lesson I can take from this thread.


Hi, booiejagwa. i am Happy my Words Provided You Some Encouragement. It Truly
is Interesting as the Suicide Disease i had is a Physical Disease impacting the Trigeminal
Nerve For Our Face; as my Emotions Returned; as i Gained Better Avenues in Positive Loving
Communication, my Physical Maladies Were remedied in Tandem with the Greater Positive Light
of Emotions. Blogging Really Helped me for at one Point i couldn't find anyone Positive to Talk to
online; so, i decided i would rather hear my own Positive thoughts in the Positive Memories i Did Have
to help me Rise up out of the Darkness that i had been Experiencing with all the Pain and Suffering;
As 'they' Say, Physician Heal thyself for it is also True that Science Shows that Children who Get
Plenty of Hugs and Attention eye to eye from their Parents Grow up with Less propensity to
addiction; and even require Less Morphine for Pain after Surgery. The Oxytocin Response
of Love that may Be Gained from Human or Pet or even from Within Like Hugging
a Teddy Bear for the Oxytocin We Learn To Manage in Release for ourselves
is Very Healing in Bringing comfort in life. Of course it is more complicated than
that but Truly a Hug of any kind in Life is the Road of Love to the Recovery of so
many Maladies in Life. I enjoy Beautiful People who Bring so Much Light into my Life;
i Cherish them with Gifts of Love in Every Manner i may Bring to them for i understand
that the Giving and Sharing Part of Life now is my own Life Saver for Well Being as Well.
The Reward is
Intrinsic
to Give and
Share. Sadly not all
Folks are Raised with Love
and Wired to Receive and Give
And Share as much Love; but the Best
News of all is for about 99 Percent of the
Population it appears that this Love Muscle
is one in Empathy, Sympathy, and Compassion
And Even Cognitive Empathy that We Now can and will
Improve all Across our Lifespan, if we find ways that Work
for us; the People and Pets; and Places like Nature that Enhance
Our Loving Happiness; and also if we come to Understand that Activities
Associated only with Reasoning in Solving Problems through 'Mechanical'
Cognition actually
Will Drain away
the Comfort
of Love in Life
if we do not find
a way to Exercise
our Love Muscles in Life
Like we would any Body Part for it
not to Atrophy in Life in Weakness.
Love is the Best Given and Shared.
Best Wishes to You For a Life that is Bright with Giving and Sharing
Love With Positive People and Pets and Nature Overall that comes Your way..:)


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13 Feb 2019, 11:40 pm

"there's a thin line between love and hate"



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14 Feb 2019, 3:04 am

aghogday wrote:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SaV-6qerkqI

Trust me or not when
i say no one Does that Better either; hehe..;)



Stop, stop, stop this unruly nonsense...
Stop it right now!
A leetle self control if you please...
You bring this disorder, this aberration to the very heart of our community...


https://youtu.be/NkaJFlr5Fhk

BTW, when you were just an egg, did someone drop you? :P :mrgreen:



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14 Feb 2019, 6:04 am

Pepe wrote:
Love does exists...
It is a quirk of the evolutionary process...
It facilitates procreation...


That's not love, it's lust or sexual attraction. It's not a quirk of the evolutionary process, because without procreation there is no evolutionary process.

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Because human babies are so helpless, having a breeding pair bonded together allows for greater survival prospects for their offspring...


That's a very reductive, material way of looking at love. There are also many couples who choose not to have children, but still love each other. There are many couples who have children and dislike each other, themselves, and their children. Not everything is Malthus or Darwin. The view shows a lack of life experience, more than knowledge. Have you ever been in love?

The real work of love--compromise, equality, understanding--is a gateway to the values people often claim to have, but rarely recognize in real life.



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14 Feb 2019, 7:35 am

HighLlama wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Love does exists...
It is a quirk of the evolutionary process...
It facilitates procreation...


That's not love, it's lust or sexual attraction. It's not a quirk of the evolutionary process, because without procreation there is no evolutionary process.

Quote:
Because human babies are so helpless, having a breeding pair bonded together allows for greater survival prospects for their offspring...


That's a very reductive, material way of looking at love. There are also many couples who choose not to have children, but still love each other. There are many couples who have children and dislike each other, themselves, and their children. Not everything is Malthus or Darwin. The view shows a lack of life experience, more than knowledge. Have you ever been in love?

The real work of love--compromise, equality, understanding--is a gateway to the values people often claim to have, but rarely recognize in real life.


That is simply your opinion...<shrug>
Let us agree to disagree... :wink:



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14 Feb 2019, 3:27 pm

Pepe wrote:
aghogday wrote:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SaV-6qerkqI

Trust me or not when
i say no one Does that Better either; hehe..;)



Stop, stop, stop this unruly nonsense...
Stop it right now!
A leetle self control if you please...
You bring this disorder, this aberration to the very heart of our community...


https://youtu.be/NkaJFlr5Fhk

BTW, when you were just an egg, did someone drop you? :P :mrgreen:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YrbgUtCfnC0

Smiles Pepe; i am So pleased that not only Have You Compared me to Forrest Gump but
my 'Gush', 'Mumbles' From Happy Feet too for it is True Back in 2006 when we Went to See
that Movie that was one of the last ones i could Tolerate With the Eye and Ear Pain Soon to Come
i could not Touch my Feet to any Surface without Horrific Pain; yes, the Savagery of Sjogren's Syndrome
That Started with the Nerves in my Feet as they would Get Hot and Cold before Just about Everything else
Went Whacky With me After that when my Eyes Quit Making Tears from the Same Issue Like Swimming in Salt
Water With Eyes Wide Open to Dysautonomia Where my Blood Pressure and Heart Rate Were No Longer Properly
Synched with An Autonomic Nervous System that Went Rogue as Well; oh Lord, Accompanying 'Coat Hanger Pain'
All around my Shoulders associated With Dysautonomia too; Born with a Congenitally Fused Vertebra in my Spine
And Associated Severe Degenerative Arthritis then too; sure Fibromyalgia; that Type Two Trigeminal Neuralgia;
Anhedonia, Mood Lability, Alexithymia, Severe Depression, Severe Anxiety, PTSD, Panic Attacks; Severest
Insomnia Associated with the Rest of all of that Stuff that Back in the "Lent Period" of 2008 From About
March through April, as it Begins on March 6th This Year, including; yes, 35 Days with only 1 Hour of
Sleep each night provided by an Alpha Blocker in Very Shallow 'Card Board' Sleep as my Heart
Rate Raced to Face each and every time the Blood would Not Properly Get to my Brain; true
i went a Day with almost not being able to Catch my Breath and with all the Maladies
Above it gets very complicated determining what is doing what for it took 2 Years
to Even Get Diagnosed with most of that Stuff; Anyway, the Last 5 out of
40 Days, i got no Sleep at all after those 35 with Just 1 Hour of Sleep
and all trust me with No Emotions then all that was left was the
Urgency to Drive my Car into A Tree or Jump off a Bridge;
somehow i managed to get the energy to Grab the
Keys to my SUV and off i went to end it all
And with no Emotions; No Empathy of
what that would do to my Loved
ones then for i was beyond
the Breath of Love
Just wanting Die
and end all the
Pain and everything
Else once an for all; Hmm..
My Moral Code was Left in Tact
i couldn't make myself Drive Faster
than 55 to Crash into a Tree; got to the
Bridge too Weak to Jump off and miraculously
my Sister found me at the Bottom of that Bridge
in Her Car and i still wanted to get out and Jump
off a Board Walk into the Shallow end; for there is some
Pain the Dentist Drill in one's Right eye and Ear that no Drug
would touch that is so much Worse than Death any Hell imaginable
almost as Bad as Feeling no Feelings at all in Piece of Paper existence too
the Nothingness without Feelings and Senses that is Truly Truly Separation
from All of what Seems Like Reality for what we Feel and Sleep; yes Sleep Deprivation
is of the Worse Human Torture too; the Actual Record of No Sleep at all is 264 Hours
also known as 11 Days too. i got Disqualified for 'No one Does it any Better' For the
World Record for that with my Shallow 1 Hour of Sleep for the First 35 out of 40 Days
but oh Yes i did find out there is more Rings than 1 of Hell on Earth Within and that
is literally
for
Damned True
All Natural as such
Just Like a Kingdom of
Heaven within too the Opposite
Place of all that Pain and Numb True. My
Sister Drove 80 Miles an hour Telling me she
Couldn't Live without a Brother she has Asperger's
Syndrome too as it's Hard for Her to find Friends
too; even if she is so Damn Nice Like me; anyway
of course i said no; they found a way to put me
Down in the Hospital and i Just lived in Hell
Until i got to get out after 66 Months to do
66 Months Now of Heaven as of January 2019.
I wrote all of that in case you don't understand
why 'Mumbles' is Free now and Fearless with no Illusory
Fears and Does as He Pleases Dancing Everywhere he goes.
True; not an easy Sell it was Getting that Privilege to Entertain
the Public in most Every Public Store in the Area; Shock and Awe,
sort of how 'Trumpster' Does Stuff is how i Started just Going in Reverse
Everywhere i went; explaining to Store Management that is How i dealt With
Autism With 'Stimming' as such as Going in Reverse; Smiles, after the Shock and
Awe and all the Negotiations With Store Management when Security Teams threatened
to Kick me out, Finally Got Settled with a More "Spiraling Dance" And Now i have the Keys
to 'Mumble City' to Do as i F in Please, Every where i go; Smiles, never Dismiss the Potential
of the Clever Silent Fox too; hAha. Anyway, as 'they say' somewhere someone has it worse or
Better than whoever You may be; Trust me though When i say as a Person Diagnosed With Asperger's
Syndrome by 4 Professionals and Bi-Polar Disorder too; Seen the Ups and Downs; the Heavens and Hells;
and now i really
Feel and Sense
my Way around
the World as my
Personal Playground
And Dance Hall too; and
as far as anyone making me feel
like i do not Belong; actually, i hazed myself
in the Worst ways to remove any insecurities that
Might have Been Left from a Lifetime of Perfectionism
Trying to Do Everything to Fit in; Yep; a Good Little Robot
I become everyone's Perfect Example of Doing every thing Just Right.
Meanwhile, the Fuses Were Burning out in my iRobot Self without any Love
Left For Comfort and Bliss. i became a Machine; Yes a Good Machine but always
the Less from my Perspective of a Life of 'Fore in Warm And Cozy Love to know and
Feel which was
was the Best
Place of All
as i Tried
to Find my Way
Back as i kept Slipping
off the Precipice of the
'Dover Cliffs' (Just added that
in for my Irish Native X-Catholic Priest Grand-Dad;
a rather Famous Author noted in Wiki From
His Time Against the Catholic Church who
Just so Happened to Dine With Einstein in
the Socialist Circles of Last Century too;
in other Words A PHD; A Masters Degree
and some other Stuff he did too; the
Apple as they still remains somewhere
at least; hehe) oh yeah; and Before i forget,
as You Ask if i was Dropped as an Egg; i Was a Wanderer'
a Speedy one as a Toddler too; Escaped out of the Trailer i
was in when my Mother was Hanging out Clothes; Ran so fast
to the Highway my Mother Couldn't Catch up and a very Disgruntled
Male Driver Stopped with a Look that could Kill my Mother and Handed me
back over to her; yes, i Leaped out of a Buggy once right on top of My Head
too; but True, likely too Hard Headed to injure much then either; hehe. Anyway,
as i was saying about the Hazing i wasn't going back to Fear Land again; or ever
Worrying about what Folks thought of me again; So, didn't have many Friends on
Facebook; so, i started doing Underwear poses with my little pinky Finger Sticking up
too; true, remember folks mistook me as a Girl at McDonald's when i was 12; always
Felt like a Boy inside; couldn't help what i looked like on the Outside then; the Long
Eyelashes and Long Blonde Hair; probably didn't Help either; the Boys at the City Park
and in the Middle School Halls threatened to do away with me, if i dared to Smile; anyway,
got some Concrete and Plastic K-Mart Weights and the Rest of that is History as i continue
to Leg Press 1340 LBS just last night 20 Reps; Right after i do a Ballet Routine and add all
those 100 LB Iron Plates to the Machine; Yep, i started doing Nude Art too; the Last Frontier
as they might Say for "i ain't Scared". i have received over 100K Views for all Associated with
that too; as eventually i sort of Got Good; i was aiming for a Work of Art in Flesh and Blood
Somewhere between Cave Art Petroglyphs and Michelangelo's David in the Flesh and Blood
too; eventually i went on to Writing an 88,788 Word Erotic yes Very Erotic Fully Illustrated
Poetic Novel in 5 Volumes; but for the Last Couple of Months Since my Innocent Woman
Friend has come into the Picture; i Just Don't Have any Desire to Do it as now i
Remember what Love Felt Like in High School Before all the 'Porn' and
Stuff Came into the Big Movie Screens of Mind. Smiles, my Friend;
i'm sure there are many more Stories like this that could be
proven too; if someone took the time and Effort to
Document it as they went along in Terms of
Human Potential; For it's one thing to do it
all and quite another thing to Put
it all together like a Movie
And Publish it like
a Second Life
that is that is the
Recording of what's
Really going on at the same
Time to the last intricate detail of
Word Count of Free Verse Poetry
And Mileage of Dance too; When i First
Recovered back in July and August of 2013;
i documented on this Website then how i was up
to Leg Pressing 500 LBS and i would do next what
hasn't been Done Before; How did i know this; it was
all intuitive for without Fear so much more is possible in Life.
If i have one word
of Advice; nope, two
to anyone it would be
Do what You have to Do to
Kill
Fear.
And Do whatever
You Have to Do to
Make the Force of Love
A Living Force Within You
to Give and Share otherwise
as far as i am concerned for me
Life is nothing; Fearless or Not Nothing; just Nothing
at all; With Love and No Fear i will continue to Do all of that;
With Fear and No Love i am Just another iRobot Like i was before.
Anyway; as Katy Perry and Zedd illustrate Well in the Theme Song
for all of this; it doesn't Matter if You Give Love 365 Days a Year;
someone
who cannot
Receive Love
(The Feeling)
Will never get
any Benefit out of
Love at all. Sadly; some
Women think they can Change
that With some Men; and Sadly
Some Men think they can Change
that With Some Women; But True it is a
Big World now with more Avenues than ever
to Give and Share Love for those who are Willing and Can Receive Love True;
Oh My God, there are So Many Ways to do it; Just imagine how many Children
Elton John has Helped Father with His Love Songs; but only if you can my friend;
but only if you can...
i say that
coming
from a place
of understanding
the Human Condition
Well from Dark thru Light.

Well
Enough;
For me at least.

i don't take anything
too Serious anymore;
i have Fun 'Cause i Can and Will and Just Do it;
to Borrow a Phrase from the Shoe Company that
has also helped me Dance in Public for Close to 11K Miles in 65 months.
Now; No Body
'Messes' with
'Mumbles' any
more For Mumbles
Weighs 240 LBS
Now and Leg
Presses
1340
LBS
And Can Strike
Any Object as fast
as you likely Will imagine
in the Reach of his Feet now;
As there is no Science to my Poetry,
my Martial Arts, or Dance; in other Words
no one would even See the Kick coming,
hAha; if they Forced me to Actually get
Close enough to Defend myself.
Dude (Pepe); i live in Trump
Town USA; down Here you practically
have to Become Batman/Superman incarnate
(Jesus alone will not work) to even Try to Love as a Dude and not
get beat up; yes 'that part' is a Bit of an Exaggeration; but it should get the Points aCross.
i Really Do Enjoy
Your Sense of
Humor, Pepe; i Thank
You For that; Smiles With
Happy Valentine's Day for You;
All Your Family, and Friends; wherever
You Live; and Enjoy Yourself; for My Mission is to Bring Smiles too; my Friend..;)


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14 Feb 2019, 4:14 pm

aghogday wrote:
i Really Do Enjoy
Your Sense of
Humor, Pepe; i Thank
You For that; Smiles With
Happy Valentine's Day for You;
All Your Family, and Friends; wherever
You Live; and Enjoy Yourself; for My Mission is to Bring Smiles too; my Friend..;)


You get me...
Some people may not appreciate my ironic humour...

I am a "Mumbles" too and embrace individuality with a passion...
Nothing I post is an attack on you...
I am simply standing my philosophical ground which, with you specifically in mind, is a sign of respect...

Argumentative people on the other hand, I have little time for and will simply agree to disagree and move on until my threshold-of-abuse-tolerance-level is breached, and then I will take no prisoners... :twisted:

Cheers my friend...
While we will never agree philosophically, I do appreciate your individuality...
To each their own...<shrug>

Live long and prosper...<vulcan 'V' hand gesture>



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14 Feb 2019, 4:22 pm

Pepe wrote:
aghogday wrote:
i Really Do Enjoy
Your Sense of
Humor, Pepe; i Thank
You For that; Smiles With
Happy Valentine's Day for You;
All Your Family, and Friends; wherever
You Live; and Enjoy Yourself; for My Mission is to Bring Smiles too; my Friend..;)


You get me...
Some people may not appreciate my ironic humour...

I am a "Mumbles" too and embrace individuality with a passion...
Nothing I post is an attack on you...
I am simply standing my philosophical ground which, with you specifically in mind, is a sign of respect...

Argumentative people on the other hand, I have little time for and will simply agree to disagree and move on until/if my threshold-of-abuse-tolerance-level is breached, and then I will take no prisoners... :twisted:

Cheers my friend...
While we will never agree philosophically, I do appreciate your individuality...
To each their own...<shrug>

Live long and prosper...<vulcan 'V' hand gesture>


Cheers to You Pepe;
Same Here my Friend;
JusT ALonG For the
Ride
Hugging
The Wave iN Balance..:)


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techstepgenr8tion wrote:


Capturing An Atmosphere of Romance
With Chemical Reactions That Come
And Go Up And Down And Back
Around Again A Dance A
Song So New Alive
Then
Finally
Gone Wait
Wait Come Back Again
Return Again A Ride to Be..
Smiles there are Days When No
Music is Necessary With Smiles Yes..
"Single Petal of A Rose" Thanks For the Song..:)


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15 Feb 2019, 9:55 am

Where is the
Edge of Love
Do Hearts Know

i had some Flowers left over
i care to share from the Holiday.. i Hope on Valentine’s Day that
Many Loves.. Friends
And Family Lavished
You with Loving
Wishes.. i Hope
You were Treated
To A Wonderful
Dinner and
Did all your
Favorite things..
Perhaps Watching
The Sunset With
Special Others and
i Hope the Rest
Of your
Weekend
And The Rest
Of Your Life
Brings even
More Joy
For
The Heart
Will Never
Find the
Edge of Love Cheers
To those we think
Of and miss far away
But always Living
Beating
In
Out
Hearts...:)

PS.. Hope
You Got
Lots of
Chocolates
And Roses And
Particularly Hot
Chocolate if You
Were
Cold....

Best Friends
Muse
Most Love..:)


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15 Feb 2019, 10:52 am

aghogday wrote:
Considering it is Valentine's Week, it seemed Appropriate
to Drop by the 'Wrong Planet' in the Politics, Philosophy, and
Religion Section to Pose this Question: 'What is Your Philosophy of Love?"

I don't look for love, but when I do fall in love, I enjoy the unrequited kind. Also, flirting is fun.



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15 Feb 2019, 11:07 am

Well...

we all know that "Love means never having to say your sorry".
We all learned that from the movie "Love Story".

So what else do ya need to know? :D



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AspE wrote:
aghogday wrote:
Considering it is Valentine's Week, it seemed Appropriate
to Drop by the 'Wrong Planet' in the Politics, Philosophy, and
Religion Section to Pose this Question: 'What is Your Philosophy of Love?"

I don't look for love, but when I do fall in love, I enjoy the unrequited kind. Also, flirting is fun.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zhRzORqNa0E

Note: i'm Flowing off of 'Your Words' here;
This isn't directed at 'You' as an 'Individual'.
A 'Perfect' Unrequited Love An Artist's
A Poet's 'Perfect Dream' for Muse
In other Words When 'Two People'
Want 'Each Other' But Will
Never Have
'Each Other'
Now;
That's
Just
Another Mountain
to Climb in Life in my
Opinion With No Risk
No Risk in Falling there
is No Height in Climbing..
There are
Days many
Days Where
i Love Both the
'Thorns and Flowers'
to Surprise me for What
Is A Rose of Life 'Missing Either'...

A Translation for the Folks Here who may
Not have moved over to the 'Metaphor' Sides
of Life; We Are Evolved For Intermittent Gratification.
So in other Words, Without 'Thorns Flowers' Will Eventually
Potentially Make Us eXtinct in so many ways of Loving Life.

But on the
Other Hand,
too much Stress
Will F In Literally Kill 'Us'.

Life Is Both Science And Art.

Miss one 'Miss the Other' Do Live Do Both.

Most Simply Put
one Word; no
Let's Make it Four.

LiFE ARt Science Balance

Just my opinion..:)

For Reference, the 'Behavioral Sink
Experiment' by John B Calhoun Lends
Potential Helpful Hints From our Common
Ancestor the Rodent From 75 Million Years ago too.

'Life' isn't always
Evolved to Be Beautiful
or Night or Day or Light or Dark.. etc....
There is No Escaping Nature Classical Evolution is too slow....
but there
are many
Life Hacks to make Life Great so Much Greater Now
in Coming to Understand A Practice of Life for just
the "Right" Mix of 'Thorns and Flowers' Where
Some Others may also See "Right" as "Wrong"
It's not easy...
i Got 'The Happy' Very
Happy after 53 Years
but so many Thorns First
That i Understand Are Still Required to Protect 'A Rose' of Life.

i Read A Study Recently that stated People are Happiest at 16 Years-Old and 70 Years-Old.

To me that Reads the Joy of Falling In Love and the Joy of Appreciating the Gift of Life that Remains.

How Beautiful
Life will be
if we come
to find ways to
Make all of Life
A Genuine Rose With
'Thorns and Flowers';
Or Perhaps
Better
Put
A Passion Flower..
A Passion Flower to Give
And Share Always Realizing
That Love Is A Rose Now With
'Both Thorns And Flowers'..:)

i See That Rose as (GoD) It's
Just A Metaphor but It Is A
Point of Life Where One has
Experienced So Many Thorns
And Flowers One Finally Loves
the Entire Rose (GoD)
In This Feel and
Sense God is
Love is Verb 'We' Do As Love.
That's Almost Impossible to Put
Into Words in 'Fact' it is until one
Experiences the Art of the Feeling
And Sense of Transcending Love in
the Eternal Now
of
course
Always
Subject to
Change the
Work the Practice
Never Ending Always Starting Now..:)

By A Way Dance Is An Oldest Way of 'Flirting' In All Ways Humans Move Humans..:)

The Moral of This Story (Parable/Whatever) is the 'Marriage' of 'Thorns and The Flowers'
To Make A 'Rose' 'GoD' IS A 'Perfect Union' of Love Now that Most People
Continue
to See
As A
Never
Ending 'Perfect'
Unrequited Love
That they Will Never See Until a Dirt Nap.

i LooK iN A Mirror And i Love 'It' ALL....
No Matter What Anyone Else Says.. heHe.. HeY..
At Least ONE FRiEnD is Better Than None God TenDS
to TeacH 'Us' that/this
LeSSoN iN Devil
School iN Hell...
If 'We' Hope to Ever Get out....
'Thanks Sherri'.. i Am LooKinG For A Way
To Say All of this This Morning Thanks For The Help..;)

*Pats ‘Self’ On Back
How ‘God’ ‘Says’
Good Job...

‘Jesus’ iS An F iN
FLaMiNG *LiBeRaL

It Is Crystal Clear
For ‘Those’ With
HeARTS

For ‘Those’ With No Love Borders...

‘They’ Will ‘Crucify’
You If You Love Too
Much...

Saddest Lesson
Learned From A
’Jesus Story’...

Best Friends
Muse
Most Love..:)

i had some Flowers left over
i care to share from the Holiday..
i Hope on Valentine’s Day that
Many Loves.. Friends
And Family Lavished
You with Loving
Wishes.. i Hope
You were Treated
To A Wonderful
Dinner and
Did all your
Favorite things..
Perhaps Watching
The Sunset With
Special Others and
i Hope the Rest
Of your
Weekend
And The Rest
Of Your Life
Brings even
More Joy
For
The Heart
Will Never
Find the
Edge of Love Cheers
To those we think
Of and miss far away
But always Living
Beating
In
Out
Hearts...

PS.. Hope
'You' Got
Lots of
Chocolates
And Roses And
Particularly Hot
Chocolate if You
Were
Cold....

Where is the
Edge of Love
Do Hearts Know

Taking all of this in Together
in my Seek and Find of Life as
i am Just Moving in Flow Here
And Doing Life and Love and not
Particularly ever Looking Forward
to anything
But Loving
Life
Now
Life is Not Fair
Roses Are Not Fair
for they Both Smell
Sweet and Are Beautiful While they Make
Us Bleed No God is Not Fair if God Was Fair We
We Would All Be Perfect Robots And All Be Dead Inside.

So it's True in this way of Metaphor
of Evolution there are the 'Chosen Ones'
To See and Be and Love as the 'Entire Rose'
And those who Never come to See and Be
And Love as the 'Entire Rose' 'God'/Love.
In this
Way it's
About as Hard
for a 'Conservative'
Closed Minded and Hearted
Person to Seek and Find and
Come to See and Be and Do Love
as the 'Entire Rose' God/Love
as it is for
A Camel
To Pass
Through an
Eye of a Needle.

i am so Glad to Be A *F iN FLaMinG *Liberal
What A BLeSSinG BLiSSinG WhaT A Gift As God A-Rose LoVE Do.

Thanks For YouR HelP..:)

The Song 'Time' was my Mother's Favorite
Song; She Died Two years ago about this Time
Our Beloved Cat Died the Year Before about this
Time and Our Last Beloved Cat Just Died Recently
And My First Cousin Died LasT Year at this Time too;
This iS How i Deal
With Grief;
Never
'Mind' me;
I Will Never
Lose my HeART AGaiN No one Will 'Crucify' My
Love For i Feel And Sense How to MakE LovE LiVE.


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