31 Jul 2021, 2:19 pm
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31 Jul 2021, 2:56 pm
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31 Jul 2021, 3:51 pm
Even if a woman is at a sex club, naked, holding a sign that reads "I am here for sex", that STILL doesn't mean she's there to have sex with YOU. Even if she bangs literally everyone else there except you, that still doesn't mean she wants to, or has to, bang you too. No matter how "unfair" you think it is. It's still THEIR body, and THEY get to choose who they give it to, regardless of what they're giving, or who wants what they're giving, or how much you want it too.
That aside, even if a woman is at a sex club, and naked, there's still a wide variety of reasons she could be there. First of all, she could be gay, and has no interest in you. She could be there to cruise other women. She could be there with a friend, male or female, just to be there with them. She could be a voyeur, and isn't interested in "doing" anything. She could be an exhibitionist, and simply likes being looked at. ONLY looked at.
The idea that there's somehow enough "reasonable doubt" that it's perfectly acceptable to go dickenpoken anything you want, just cos it "looks" available, is self-indulgent wishful thinking. Even if the woman wants sex, that's not necessarily sex WITH YOU. The idea that "if they don't want it, they can say no" ignores the fact that they could have said no BEFORE you tried to accost them w/o asking first, if you'd just ASKED FIRST. Ask with your words, not by thrusting your little wee-wee at her.
Somma y'all don't really seem to understand consent, and it shows.
The whole thing sounds suspiciously like "If I don't ask, they can't say no - and if they don't say no, that's basically a yes".
Right wing men are probably so mad cos they don't get enough sex. They blame women for the fact that women aren't attracted to them, despite being such a "nice guy" 
and won't whack off cos "that's for losers" or "jesus will cry" or w/e stupid reason they have for not doing it. So now you have a sexually frustrated man who doesn't know why he isn't getting the release he wants, and blames other people for not satisfying him FOR him.
Not to mention the failed promise of the house / yard / picket fence / wife / 2.4 kids / career that conservatism seems to loft upon a silver platter as being the key to happiness - those that don't achieve it feel "denied happiness", and those that do achieve it feel slighted when having it doesn't give them the happiness they expected. So they blame everyone else, the wife, the kids, the world - cos surely it can't be THEIR fault, they jumped through all the right hoops and everything! Where's my happiness?!?!
I'd be mad too, if I bought a box that was supposed to be full of "happiness" and it turned out to be a box full of bricks. Most people realize it's a scam at that point. But some people are sufficiently entitled, they still expect someone or something to make good on that promise of "happiness".
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31 Jul 2021, 5:43 pm
31 Jul 2021, 5:54 pm
That aside, even if a woman is at a sex club, and naked, there's still a wide variety of reasons she could be there. First of all, she could be gay, and has no interest in you. She could be there to cruise other women. She could be there with a friend, male or female, just to be there with them. She could be a voyeur, and isn't interested in "doing" anything. She could be an exhibitionist, and simply likes being looked at. ONLY looked at.
The idea that there's somehow enough "reasonable doubt" that it's perfectly acceptable to go dickenpoken anything you want, just cos it "looks" available, is self-indulgent wishful thinking. Even if the woman wants sex, that's not necessarily sex WITH YOU. The idea that "if they don't want it, they can say no" ignores the fact that they could have said no BEFORE you tried to accost them w/o asking first, if you'd just ASKED FIRST. Ask with your words, not by thrusting your little wee-wee at her.
Somma y'all don't really seem to understand consent, and it shows.
The whole thing sounds suspiciously like "If I don't ask, they can't say no - and if they don't say no, that's basically a yes".
Right wing men are probably so mad cos they don't get enough sex. They blame women for the fact that women aren't attracted to them, despite being such a "nice guy"
and won't whack off cos "that's for losers" or "jesus will cry" or w/e stupid reason they have for not doing it. So now you have a sexually frustrated man who doesn't know why he isn't getting the release he wants, and blames other people for not satisfying him FOR him.Not to mention the failed promise of the house / yard / picket fence / wife / 2.4 kids / career that conservatism seems to loft upon a silver platter as being the key to happiness - those that don't achieve it feel "denied happiness", and those that do achieve it feel slighted when having it doesn't give them the happiness they expected. So they blame everyone else, the wife, the kids, the world - cos surely it can't be THEIR fault, they jumped through all the right hoops and everything! Where's my happiness?!?!
I'd be mad too, if I bought a box that was supposed to be full of "happiness" and it turned out to be a box full of bricks. Most people realize it's a scam at that point. But some people are sufficiently entitled, they still expect someone or something to make good on that promise of "happiness".
Your verbal smack-downs are always a joy to read.
Also, "dickenpoken."
31 Jul 2021, 7:05 pm
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31 Jul 2021, 7:58 pm
And men wonder why women ignore them whilst their out having fun with their friends.
I have sympathy for you - but this is, alas, the horrible post-Christian world we have collectively, negligently created. I would much prefer a different world, but this is what we are and what we have at the moment. ^ That, like it or not, is how many people socialise and seek short-term-maybe-later-long-term partners today. Camille Paglia once said in regards to clothing and behaviour "If you're advertising, be ready to sell" I understand the point but I don't much like it, even that sounds a bit too rapey. I would tweak it "If you're advertising, be ready to be approached by and to deal with prospective buyers".
It is rather simples.
There are simple-minded people out there who will misread the situation or lack self-control.
One must be cognizant of that simple fact of life.
Walking alone in a dark alleyway is not recommended either.
Making oneself a target for neanderthals is not the smartest thing in the world to do.
Personal responsibility is a needed consideration.
Once again, this is not a binary/black&white situation.
Simples.
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31 Jul 2021, 8:14 pm
Making oneself a target for neanderthals is not the smartest thing in the world to do.
Personal responsibility is a needed consideration.
Once again, this is not a binary/black&white situation.
Simples.
What do you mean about "personal responsibility" being a needed consideration?
What isn't black and white?
31 Jul 2021, 9:22 pm
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