Are liberal women attracted to conservative men more?

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17 Dec 2021, 4:20 am

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i could not handle dating somebody who was deliberately rude to the wait staff.


I think I've dated somewhere between 50-70 women (lost count) met them in coffee shops mostly, but also restaurants and bars and I can at least say I have never met a girl who was rude to the wait staff. But plenty who are rude to me, usually the gig is up when they are more interested in their phone or some random friend who just walked into the bar



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17 Dec 2021, 4:32 am

cyberdad wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
i could not handle dating somebody who was deliberately rude to the wait staff.


I think I've dated somewhere between 50-70 women (lost count) met them in coffee shops mostly, but also restaurants and bars and I can at least say I have never met a girl who was rude to the wait staff. But plenty who are rude to me, usually the gig is up when they are more interested in their phone or some random friend who just walked into the bar

the ones i've observed looking down on the wait staff invariably were right-wing.



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17 Dec 2021, 4:34 am

auntblabby wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
i could not handle dating somebody who was deliberately rude to the wait staff.


I think I've dated somewhere between 50-70 women (lost count) met them in coffee shops mostly, but also restaurants and bars and I can at least say I have never met a girl who was rude to the wait staff. But plenty who are rude to me, usually the gig is up when they are more interested in their phone or some random friend who just walked into the bar

the ones i've observed looking down on the wait staff invariably were right-wing.


One talent I had was to screen out fascists from my dating pool



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17 Dec 2021, 4:34 am

^^^a handy talent, that.



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17 Dec 2021, 4:35 am

It's hard enough as it is :wink:



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17 Dec 2021, 4:54 am

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.I only date Republicans.I have no desire to date a Democrat


Dude! that's 50% of the female population you are throwing out.

That may be true but I will still take my chances.



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17 Dec 2021, 10:37 am

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.I only date Republicans.I have no desire to date a Democrat


Dude! that's 50% of the female population you are throwing out.

That may be true but I will still take my chances.


I like your attitude! Better alone than in unsuitable company.



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17 Dec 2021, 11:25 am

auntblabby wrote:
from an early age i knew that if they had mean eyes, they were dangerous and to be avoided. every right wing person i've had the misfortune to meet had those eyes, eyes that would not smile with the rest of their face.


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i have found that a big problem with conservative men getting with liberal women, is the men more often than not engage in mind-rape [forcing the woman to adopt the man's opinions/philosophies] of the women they paired up with. it is not just the woman having to put up with the man's toxically masculine right wingness but also fending off the mind-rape.


And the women accept. I've seen plenty of mind rape where women coalesce and submit to their husband/partners beliefs, Even if they don't believe it. Especially true of inter-faith marriages.


I think American smiles are often like that. I don't like their lizard-tongues either. I try not to look at their eyes in case they mind-rape me. We don't have too many yanks here, thankfully.


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17 Dec 2021, 11:39 am

American folk seem to be more friendly and open but the ones I have met seem to be arrogant as well. So positives & negatives really.

I treat everyone with respect when I am mentally stable (which I am mostly, in general, with a couple of meds to keep me ticking over).

One particular American I met, was critcising a waiter in a pizza restaurant? Like, the poor dude was on minimum wage and I had paid for this persons pizza and they were having a go at him as if they were a millionaire in a high class restaurant?

That would never happen with a British person. We respect our poor, oppressed, capitalist slaves.


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17 Dec 2021, 12:11 pm

Sigh, I just wish yanks wouldn't show off their lizard-tongues. They're so freaky. I mean, what would it take for them to keep their tongues to themselves?


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17 Dec 2021, 1:26 pm

Lizard tongues?


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17 Dec 2021, 2:47 pm

I think liberal and conservative are red herrings in this case. It's nothing to do with their political views. I've noticed that too many people actually SEEK some degree of conflict/fighting in their relationships. They don't want peace. Verbally they say peace is great, but in their behavior they reject peace. That's one of the main reasons why the world is so screwed up -- many people don't want peace, cooperation, and improvements. They view peace and cooperation as boring and weak. They want competition to the point of fighting and winning and harming others. Look at how popular competitive sports are -- this means people take pleasure in the loss/defeat of other people -- that's not peaceful.

Some women view a man as "weak" if he agrees with her on most topics. They feel more attracted to a man who argues with her, or even criticizes her. This is a danger for this type of woman because it leads to abusive relationships.

Read a book about how to be a "player" to have sex with "beautiful 10/10" women. It's disgusting, really awful stuff, but unfortunately these player tricks do succeed with a percentage of women who are attracted to bad characteristics in men. Fortunately this type of woman is only a minority of women, and not the desirable type. These players who think they're winning are actually losing.



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17 Dec 2021, 3:16 pm

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Lizard tongues?


This. What Americans have lizard tongues? I am sure there are a small amount of people who have them crafted that way, but yeah - what?


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17 Dec 2021, 3:30 pm

LOL!! ! :lol:


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17 Dec 2021, 4:40 pm

The Queen shows off hers so it can’t be bad manners to do so.lol
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17 Dec 2021, 4:45 pm

^ :lol: That was funny. Jimmy Carr's face as well!


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