pschristmas wrote:
Willard wrote:
I hear that so often on true crime stories on television it makes me paranoid. Some thickheaded cop saying "Well, I was immediately suspicious of so-and-so because they didn't show the emotional response you would expect someone to display under those circumstances."
Yeah, I cringe when I hear those lines, too. I was watching one the other night and the police were suspicious of the wife because she was immediately upset, but then pulled herself together and calmly answered their questions. I'm thinking, "Well, of course she pulled it together. She couldn't very well deal with you lot of she didn't, could she?"
That's what I always thought people were supposed to do -- deal with the situation first, then manage the emotional response later in private. That's how I was raised.
Seanmw: I'm very sorry to hear about the young woman's death.
Ditto. One of the things I learned in Crim J is that most police officers aren't trained as well as they could be in terms of knowing the wide variety of possible psychological responses, etc. Their thinking can be very black-and-white in the field because, for the most part, that serves them well (they learn how not to get shot and killed out there).
The only way they learn otherwise is through experience.
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He acts without unnecessary speech,
so that the people say,
'It happened of its own accord.' -Tao Te Ching, Verse 17