Anyone never been on a date over 16 years old?

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chrissyrun
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30 Oct 2010, 7:29 pm

I am 17 almost 18 and I have NEVER been on a date.

I was just wondering if I was the only person having this problem?



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30 Oct 2010, 8:38 pm

I went on my first date at the age of 18 during my senior year of high school. It was an arranged date by a friend of mine. I dated the girl for almost 7 years, then we got married. We have now been married over 20 years and have two sons. Our youngest son, like me, has Asperger's.

I found the link for this thread off of the main page not realizing it was the adolescent forum. I am 45 years old---a bit past adolescence :lol: .


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30 Oct 2010, 11:21 pm

actually it doesnt mean anything wether or not you have never dated, dating is overrated.

20 here never literally dated and i would not like to.



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31 Oct 2010, 12:55 am

I'm 18 and I've never dated. Doesn't sound like my cup of tea, to tell the truth.



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31 Oct 2010, 1:18 am

18, nearly 19 and never dated.

Damn it. >_>



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31 Oct 2010, 5:54 am

17 never dated had 2 girlfriends though well still have one.



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31 Oct 2010, 8:08 pm

chrissyrun wrote:
I am 17 almost 18 and I have NEVER been on a date.

I was just wondering if I was the only person having this problem?

It isn't a problem. Most NTs that date young are in it for sex or popularity. Aspies, i have found, are wanting a long term relationship with someone and are looking for love but don't know what it feels like or looks like. :heart:
PS 17 going on 18 and haven't dated yet. Want to find true love not false love.


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31 Oct 2010, 8:42 pm

I'm an 18-year-old guy in college and I have never dated anyone, nor do I have any concern over whether or not I'm in a relationship.



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01 Nov 2010, 10:13 am

Hey I'm 19 years old. Ive watched all my friends have relationships -Uni life is full of them. Never really had any contact with girls -other than friendships. Strangely I have fairly high self esteem, and I am hopelessly honest about my situation. If someone asks me something I have to tell them the truth.

Truth drinking games are always eventfull- I never have done anything that most people do. :D



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01 Nov 2010, 3:11 pm

I'm 19 years old and I've never been on a date with anyone. I'd like to, though... :hmph:



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02 Nov 2010, 11:46 am

hola, jajajjaja tengo 14 y tengo Asperger tendria que esperar a comprenderlas :)



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02 Nov 2010, 6:46 pm

Descartes wrote:
I'm 19 years old and I've never been on a date with anyone. I'd like to, though... :hmph:


I'm in the exact same position. :?



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03 Nov 2010, 8:21 pm

I am 18 years old, and I have never had a boyfriend, never been on a date, and I have certainly never kissed anyone. It's kind of lonely... :(

Though part of it is my fault. I am quite selective. :?



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07 Nov 2010, 7:59 pm

Im almost 19 and have never been on a date with a girl. I have had offers from girls that i wasnt attracted to and girls have been willing to hangout with me but i guess they never followed through on it. I didnt really care about dating in high school but now i really care. Maybe ill see some success soon, at least i hope i do!



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08 Nov 2010, 7:10 am

I am happy to say that I never dated and I'm almost 18 years old. My mother says that will likely change in college



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08 Nov 2010, 8:15 pm

Well, as a literal thinker, I would say technically I qualify. I did go on a date when I was just 13, but have not had one since, and I am currently 17. :D

I would probably be the male version of ImaginaryTime. I'm not horrifically selective, but it does always seem like the good ones are always taken, except for my female best friend, but we determined on a previous thread that that was out of the question.