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08 Jan 2012, 2:32 pm

Do people often think you're a 'no-lifer'? And is it bad to be a no-lifer? Do you feel bad about it?

I only feel bad about it when other people remind me... I'm always doing the same stuff with the same few friends and it doesn't really bother me until people say it's not normal.



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08 Jan 2012, 3:56 pm

yes I am treated like a person with no life and I look back and see what I have missed.


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08 Jan 2012, 4:16 pm

Eh, I had been told I had no life a few years ago a couple times, I think. Now I look at my life, and think to myself, "This is a life. I'm living, not dying every day." Although sometimes I feel the latter, those moments are less often than ever.


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08 Jan 2012, 6:15 pm

I've got my own, unique life. I don't need you normal life.


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08 Jan 2012, 9:34 pm

I've got a life and I'll live it my way, thanks.

Imo, people who never think deeply or ponder things have "no life". What is life if you're not curious, intrigued, or learning something new each day?



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10 Jan 2012, 12:12 am

I don't have much of a social life, but I try to make my life extremely busy to make up for it. Five AP classes, two varsity sports, a job, managing an athletic team, and volunteering at a hospital during the year don't really allow me to have a social life. I love being busy. It makes life seem a lot less lonely. It is nice to feel that I'm not losing out on life by constantly having some kind of commitment.



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10 Jan 2012, 3:59 am

I think so. I only feel bad about it when other people talk about all their social plans and all mostly.



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10 Jan 2012, 9:52 am

The one thing that hurts me is seeing couples out doing things together and know that no matter how I try it seems elusive to me and seeing that usually makes me feel bad no matter where I go all by myself. Reminds me of my loneliness.


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10 Jan 2012, 9:54 am

I consider myself a no-lifer because of my lack of employment and formal education, even if I think I do more than a lot of of normative ppl.



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10 Jan 2012, 4:48 pm

Well... it's not my fault that Newcastle is utterly terrible and there's barely anything to do! That's my excuse, anyway



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10 Jan 2012, 5:18 pm

whocansay, is your username Horrors related???



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10 Jan 2012, 5:30 pm

i've actually had some of my friends say that my life is too packed. but other kids in school don't think of me as having no life, just a normal one. i may not have the coolest life, but like everyone else (including all of you that deny it), we all have some sort of life[style] that we choose to live either independently or a with a friend or two



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11 Jan 2012, 6:14 pm

I may have no life in the sense they see it. But I enjoy every minute of it. I try and make sure I spend as much time doing what I like as possible. I wouldn't trade it for anything.



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16 Feb 2012, 4:07 pm

I have no life, I'm part of other people's. They all look after me and care too much, especially my Mum. Which is why I'm not ready to be 16, I want to be more independent and have my own life before 11th December, then I'll be ready to turn 16.



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16 Feb 2012, 5:17 pm

Yes, when I was being highly introspective about life and playing music for hours.

I think that everyone should take time to ponder for themselves though.


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25 Feb 2012, 2:35 am

I try not to.