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I also am hoping one day you will have a girlfriend, Brother Marknis.

My older brother always rejected women who were, in his view, nice because he thought going for a high maintenance woman was a “challenge”. When I listened to him say that, I said in my mind “No, you are just an idiot.”

Again, you're gambling with your sanity and that's extremely dangerous.

What can you do to take a bit of control over your happiness and sanity?

It’s better to be alone then with the wrong person Marknis. Also you can’t rely on someone else to make you happy. Still I hope you’ll meet people and I wish you well. I hope it gives you the opportunity to talk to women and become more confident. Only thing i wouldn't mention if i was you, is how depressed you feel about being single, incase it sounds like you're desperate and it can be off putting, of course it's understandable that people get lonely or need to talk about how they feel but if i was you, best to stick with talking about hobbies and interests.

In regards to your brother,I just don’t understand why someone in an unhappy marriage would go on to have another kid. Perplexes me. Same goes if someone says they hate there wife or husband or moan about them when separated it means they secretly still have feelings for them .Often those that act hostile or moan about there ex or partner, normally have feelings still or maybe they were dumped by them , even if they made out they did the breaking up.

Congrats though on having another niece or nephew on the way and i hope your husband and sister in law will resolve things. It's good that if he's approached by women, he tells them he's not interested.

Let us know how you get on with the speed dating! It’ll give you a confidence boost and good for you for getting out of your comfort zone and getting out there . Have fun Marknis.

Well no one should tell you how to think or feel or suppress you in anyway Marknis or tell you not to talk about how you feel but what i meant was, some people especially those you don't know very well may not have your best interest at heart, some people kick others down when they're feeling down. I didn't mean you shouldn't talk about feeling low i'd advise not to talk about feeling low due to being single but of course, it's up to you and you don't want to come across as desperate for the sake of not wanting to be alone, even though of course others are in the same boat and seek potential love and companionship too. Still I hope it all goes well for you i really do! Have fun and enjoy!

I’m sure Marknis you’ll meet a good women.

Nothing wrong with life goals Marknis. However, some times things just happen when they're supposed too. Often find if theirs blocks from the start and it continues, not worth pursuing, it's a sign it's not meant to be. All in good timing! Take care.