Fear of being alone for the rest of my life

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By the way Emp what makes you the ruler of this place? How do you know what other people think? You aren't other people. You're just annoying professor who only making assumptions of other people. Have you heard of what assumptions make of you? An you know what out of you. So next time if you want to help please pm me next time. This was actually a thread that was dead and over with. If you want to hurt me please continue. I really don't care.

One more Emp, this is called the Haven where others and I get support not critizism. I just wish you never arrived.

Hey, Tiger! Take a chill pill! You know you're going to get everyone's opinion on this matter once you post a thread! Now...for mine.
You are a very nice person but a little confused. You have not even lived half of your life yet unless you plan to die early at age 46! (didn't you say you were 23?)
Your lonliness is only a temporary condition. One day when you're on day 5,629 of your marriage and the kids are screaming and tearing up the house and your wife is whining about how you're only into your obsessions and not her you will think back on this day and tip your hat to the wisdom of Bland. I used to think that NO ONE would ever love me and I would be alone for the rest of my life because I was too weird and unconventional for anyone to be interested and now look at me! I've had not one but two husbands! not to mention lots and lots of dates. and six kids. I would love to have some time alone now! Now doesn't that make you feel better? Probably not but you will see that things have a tendency to turn out so much different than you expect them to. Think about some of the things that you thought 5 years ago. Much of it is probably not what you thought it would be, huh? You will get along just fine.

TigerFire, this is what you posted: I don't why every time I try to make friends with the opposite sex it always ends that way. I must have scared her away. I just don't want to know that I'll be alone for the rest of my life. I hate being alone. I've been alone for the first half of my life so why can't I find someone some girl who I'll give my all to her? I so need to be in love. I think one of my intrests must be trying and failing to have a relationship with some girl. I just want to let everyone know that I also have OCD and I'm still suffering through Depression. I hate being depressed all the time when I want to be happy but the fear of being alone really scares me. Scares me to death. I hate it.
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In the cold of night a lonely wolf howls for his mate. A steady wind belows and he catches scent of his mate. He runs towards the smell but instead of finding his mate he finds food. He lets out a howl of sadness.


And that is what I responded to; your fear of being alone. I said that I was weird and unconventional; not you! You're just an average ordinary guy. You took me wrong.
You said that you were alone for the first half of your life and expressed that you didn't want to be alone for the rest of your life. I took that to mean that you felt that you had already lived out half of your life! (also I thought that you had stated somewhere else that you were 23; must've been someone else; my mistake, sorry)
I guess what I was trying to communicate to you was that so many people think that they will forever be alone but they usually aren't. I just gave you a personal example. Heck, I thought that I would never live to see my 18th birthday, never get married, and never have kids. I was wrong on all three counts! I will say, though, that I made out the best in the "love" department when I wasn't focusing on it so much!

If you want him to stop wanning some him something more than best wishes

conel1fan was looking at me too. I did to her first though. I guess she interpeted it as a flirt

aspie women are shy. Tare it down with a complement by first a wink on aspie affection. Sutle first or else it appears creepy. It may seem like you are rushing them and want only sex. If I am a in a good mood I will be receptive to their cues, otherwise I am like everyone else.

I flirt too. I ware tank tops and smile alot. I look right at them.

emp why would you assume he is going to do it everywhere? Personally, I do it only when people think I am nutty and only here. The scientific reasons are typically causeing everyone to pass out. He told me everything and I don't think he would do that else where. Most of us know how rude nt can be. Haven H-A-V-E-N you are supposed to give sympthy. I do like the way you ended it though. What is your deal emp? Have compassion. Some people are have so much s**t it messes with their mind. I think hyperion did the same thing. I have seen some aspie women do that too. They tell everyone on their myspace.co they are aspies. I hate to say it, but there are rude people, watch what you say. Sorry if I came across harash. My guess it fealt unfinished, of which only haven is appropiate for.

Simple relaxation exercises are beautiful at reducing all agitation.

Florescent can we say you're a bit a obessive. Plus I thought this was dead and burried? Down thread!

What are you talking about? I have waited long enough. My life has been on hold for 23 years. For all that I missed plus 2 girls at ounce is it?

Even I, the Great and All-Knowing Bland, cannot interpret all of that! But now I know who said that they were 23! (sorry for the mix-up)

Emp why don;t you and Hale bopp get married? You both act the same, so why not? If you want him to stop whinning, you must contribute something useful. Why don;t you ask him why this issue continues when people try and help. Ask him why he must fake every emotion to get support. This is suppose to be a haven, that means you don;t attack, you help. Please don;t come into his threads if you don;t want to help. If you continue to slash him, without trying to help I will assume negative motives. I will take actions against you also. Try reading his blog for questions, if he annoyes you so much.