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02 Sep 2008, 9:25 am

Why does that sound like, "If you kill yourself, that is how you will spend your time on this planet"

Being 21 is still young, but when you love someone, it's the same feeling for everyone with whatever diagnosis under the sun. You know when you are in love. Maybe you just need some time to go and visit?



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02 Sep 2008, 6:07 pm

I am feeling better , I just lose hope every once and awhile.

My life is very hard and its hard for me to stay positive but all your kind words help me stay positive .

Thank you guys!



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02 Sep 2008, 10:09 pm

just-me wrote:
I am feeling better , I just lose hope every once and awhile.

My life is very hard and its hard for me to stay positive but all your kind words help me stay positive .

Thank you guys!


well, we are all there now and then, so we truly understand.

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03 Sep 2008, 11:19 am

I got on dissablity after all. It turns out my moms lawyer steped in and got an appeal for me and now I have dissablity , I just called there office today and found out.

So yay now i may have enough money to move out . I have to wait and see if they lower my SSI or not. but either way yayay!



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03 Sep 2008, 8:04 pm

just-me wrote:
I got on dissablity after all. It turns out my moms lawyer steped in and got an appeal for me and now I have dissablity , I just called there office today and found out.

So yay now i may have enough money to move out . I have to wait and see if they lower my SSI or not. but either way yayay!


yayay, just-me! it is so different to make your own decisions with your own money! Your values change and you find out how you feel about things, and not just be reactionary to everything from a feeling of 'having to' because finances ultimately make the decision for you.

I wish you a nice register to write in about what you want, and how you want to go about it. What a nice chore! :wink:

yayay!

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05 Sep 2008, 9:15 am

I may have found a place to move .

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp1689397.html#1689397



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05 Sep 2008, 9:16 am

I know it may sound egotistical but I am so proud of myself for taking charge of my own life. 8)



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05 Sep 2008, 9:23 am

just-me wrote:
I know it may sound egotistical but I am so proud of myself for taking charge of my own life. 8)


not egotistical, it sounds normal, it sounds like a maturing woman that has brains in her head, that is making normal decisions about life just as you are supposed to do. I found my AS only delayed my maturity, not keep me a child for life!

so, hold your head up and do it, it is your prerogative. You are not doing it defiantly, you are simply assuming your own control. Your own money empowers you to make your own way. Smile and assume control of your life gracefully, my dear. I think you are marvelous!

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05 Sep 2008, 1:54 pm

Thankyou sinsboldly , I figured I was doing the right thing. I had to put my foot down and "tell" my mother I was moving out instead of ask. I was not rude I just phrased it as a statement instead of a question.

And it worked , it looks like my parents are going to help me move my stuff (sence I dont drive) when I find the apartment I want.

There not turning into a drama, I am glad they are seeing me as the adult I am .



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05 Sep 2008, 7:20 pm

just-me wrote:
Thankyou sinsboldly , I figured I was doing the right thing. I had to put my foot down and "tell" my mother I was moving out instead of ask. I was not rude I just phrased it as a statement instead of a question.

And it worked , it looks like my parents are going to help me move my stuff (sence I dont drive) when I find the apartment I want.

There not turning into a drama, I am glad they are seeing me as the adult I am .



yea!! ! you go, girl

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