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Don't ever give a narcissist a "second chance" or generally allow them anywhere near you and your loved ones, don't ever give them even the most apparently inoffensive personal information or agree to the tiniest concession/compromise, they'll use it to f*****g eat you alive. I don't care if they're family and everybody tries to guilt-trip you into it, stay the hell away from such people, they poison everything they touch

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I know you're one of the few who get it, we probably need to learn these things the hard way

What drives me insane is the f*****g "enablers" that go out of their way to guilt-trip and pressure the victims back into that kind of soul-destroying situation because "family is sacred" or some other similar self-righteous BS, not to mention the kind of ridiculous excuses and justifications they come up with! I think I'm starting to hate them even more than the abusers themselves, it's sheer sadism disguised as good intentions.

And it's extremely common for narcissists to have an enabling partner - the only sane and safe thing to do is to stay away from both types, don't buy into "but he/she luuurves you", "they've changed", "they made a few mistakes but they're trying their best" or anything else of this sort. You'll be the one paying the price and it's going to be a crippling one.

Sorry, at least it's the rant section, I'm just so pissed off right now.

Most people don't have a flying clue, Bender. Nor do they listen to a damn thing we say.

So very true
My idiotic inability to refrain frm telling him everything resulted in pain fr me n my family in many ways
He wd manipulate n ruin things in such a genius way

I told him u shd have been in the army strategizing at leadt tht wd be productive


Or a lawyer asthe way he thinks he wd probably be able to help a lot of ppl as well as win most cases very quickly

He cd do either job really well idk why he decided to target innocent ppl

MY rant is that i suck at time management n focus n also im always tired

My other rant is that my online app therapist who is way cheaper than my face to face therapist , managed to unravel a big issue fr me far more efficiently (2 sessions) and the lady i paid way more to and had spent a yr with did not tell me these things or help me just sat there nodded n listened n said only a few relevant things

However it may have been that i myself did not get to the core of the issue till now and before i wasnt ready

But wasted time dwelling on things. My rant is that ppl who psychologically break ppl down

know its way more lasting than any other damage

And then it affects everything else every other interaction n experience seems to confirm what they trained u to believe n think
Also the way they do it is so insidious that outsiders like lawyer think u are making it up as ‘he doesn’t seem like a bad person’

My last rant is that i need meds to fix my focus as Welbutrin has stopped working im only on one pill 50 mg but i cannot adjust and my dr sucks n is always overbooked with rude secretaries who pretend to put you on hold but hang up after a couple of minutes of u waiting patiently

So i need a new dr

Do you think I like some ~10 pound furball who gets depressed every 20 minutes if she's not kept entertained around me?. The idea of looking after one for 15+ yrs is sure as f---k not appealing to me!.

Demoralization:

When you go on a walk with a dog and are reminded of how the only real reason this is done is for the animal to not excrete or urinate indoors..

...>:( >xI and the f---g tremendous risk!, you take in having wait (with a 'baggy' in hand) of the constipated creature to excrete on a person's lawn and you cursing the creature for the d---n poor choice in doing it at that location and you risking your head to not wind up arguing with a jacka--.

People who abuse animals are sick. There's little in life that makes me more angry and disgusted than someone who will be cruel to animals that are smaller and weaker than them just because they can. Animal cruely is a sign of impoverished character.

Oh my f***ing god, why the f*** are we manually inspecting the style for code submitted by 100+ students? This is why linters f***ing exist. Because we don't have linters integrated into our grading scripts? Well, boo f***ing hoo, either we do the job properly or admit that we shouldn't grade students for their code style. Don't f***ing erect some facsimile of doing it to trick ourselves into thinking it got done just because we get a number out the other side. I may as well make up the numbers entirely for all the randomness that this method engenders! Allocate the man-hours to do the f***ing job or give up. What? There's no funds for it? Then that's the answer, don't do it! F***!

I happen to always feel like the dumb one out of any group I am in, and anyone around me can outsmart me in just about anything, and if they can't they have a reason, so I am still outsmarted.

There is a difference between not caring and being care free.

Cleaning a dog bowl, I think I got at least one grain of rice stuck in my right ear.

f**k people who use their mental illness to insult others and calling innocent people pedophiles and f**k double standards. It's okay to wish death on a Nazi but not on someone who calls us pedophiles when we aren't even one. f**k you Jerry. f**k you people for your double standards and f**k you Jerry apologists.

I hate the expressions 'fit in', 'good fit for you'..I profoundly hate the expressions 'fit in', 'good fit for you'..

=_= we are not clothes or a product used to cover the body with..

When you think that an all-punishing, all-hateful, almighty God might make a 'cosmic thunderbolt' in not giving you social assistance b/c you j---k--d o-- on a date pretty close to when you would expect social assistance.