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JP88
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17 Aug 2010, 12:36 am

I hang out with my friends a good bit but when I hang out with multiple friends for a day and do something say like a poker tournament at my house or going to see a baseball game, an event that allows us to hang out the whole day.

After everyone leaves I always feel down maybe because something good or fun has ended. I really don't know if that's it but I get very depressed and start thinking about my issues and my shortcomings and it just feels odd to me...maybe I think of how some of my friends are sucsessful with everything and some are like me with no girlfriend, shy, etc...

Anyone have a different opinion?



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17 Aug 2010, 8:01 am

sometimes after socialising with or being around lots of people i feel quite worn out and like i need time to recover almost. that can end up with me feeling abit down



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17 Aug 2010, 1:27 pm

I spend time, with a lot of people, and as a result, I also need a lot of time to myself.


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17 Aug 2010, 7:25 pm

The social "high" wears off. That's how it feels to me at least.


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17 Aug 2010, 10:00 pm

JP88 wrote:
I hang out with my friends a good bit but when I hang out with multiple friends for a day and do something say like a poker tournament at my house or going to see a baseball game, an event that allows us to hang out the whole day.

After everyone leaves I always feel down maybe because something good or fun has ended. I really don't know if that's it but I get very depressed and start thinking about my issues and my shortcomings and it just feels odd to me...maybe I think of how some of my friends are sucsessful with everything and some are like me with no girlfriend, shy, etc...

Anyone have a different opinion?

i agree, actually. sometimes i don't want it to end... maybe because social situations are so often a bummer, so when i have a lot of fun i wish it could go on and on?


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18 Aug 2010, 5:42 am

Yeah, it's not nice when a good time is over.


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