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I am undiagnosed but I have a child who is diagnosed, and I definitely think I have Issues.

I am about to be run off another on-line forum -- but made up of a community with real-life connections -- because people are tired of my "circular arguments, endless back-and-forthing, 'trying to see what other people think' playground bullying that is vicious."

I know people find my perseveration annoying (and it is true that I can't drop a topic). I am not sure whether the perseveration itself is seen as bullying, or whether it is that I sometimes lose my temper and say mean things in response to what I see as attacks.

Anyone else face similar response from people or have any advice?

In the past I had same problem and yes, people hate it. They sometimes thougth I have memory problems etc. I must confess it is hard to give it up with nice people. I heard simply "we talked about this, conversation is over now" and I think it helped me