Cutting the cables at once and for the last time

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08 Feb 2024, 12:22 pm

Today, without any goofing around, in all seriousness, I have made the tragic move and cut contact with my trans friend on Discord. I want no more from them. I need to re-evaluate myself and I am officially redefining my preferences on when it comes to befriending people.

For someone to be my true friend, they must be like-minded (have an interest in history, gaming, politics), they too can also have interest in coins and maybe even have a coin collection of their own (optional for the collection hobby part). But most importantly, I cannot consider myself capable of being friends with any person who happens to be trans (expressing genuine signs of gender dysphoria and asking me to use pronouns opposite of their biological sex). This may sound harsh but I genuinely am not with that mental capacity to uphold such a friendship. I don't wanna harm any trans people anymore. I don't need them and it's fine if they don't need me. I'll let them do whatever they want. Let them transition. I just don't feel comfortable being friends with any person who is trans.

Wish me luck. If I don't accomplish this and if I don't get to find any like-minded person then I might as well consider to put a stop to my life at the age of 30 because I don't want to die as a lonely old man.



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08 Feb 2024, 12:25 pm

I wish you luck in your life.

Sounds like you've had a bad experience


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08 Feb 2024, 12:28 pm

babybird wrote:
I wish you luck in your life.

Sounds like you've had a bad experience


I know. I am crying right now. I cannot stress the amount of grief I am going to experience throughout the following weeks. I just really can't do this no more. I had a second chance with them but seeing that it didn't improve any better, I have decided that I don't want this anymore. :cry:

This is the Beginning of the End.



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08 Feb 2024, 12:31 pm

You don't have to get stuck with anyone in your life no matter who they are if they don't make you feel happy

Some people never understand that but you've learned that already


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08 Feb 2024, 12:34 pm

babybird wrote:
You don't have to get stuck with anyone in your life no matter who they are if they don't make you feel happy

Some people never understand that but you've learned that already


I've learned it... But if I can't find anyone of my generation (born 2004 - 2006) in my country who is like-minded, then why bother living if I am unworthy of a human relationship? I don't want to strike back at people. I'd erase myself from society by the time I am 30 because I'd have nothing to lose in terms of friends.



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08 Feb 2024, 12:53 pm

Yeah I can tell you're quite emotional right now.

It's difficult sometimes to meet people who tick all the boxes but sometimes you can meet people who tick one or maybe two.

I wish you all the best


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08 Feb 2024, 1:02 pm

babybird wrote:
Yeah I can tell you're quite emotional right now.

It's difficult sometimes to meet people who tick all the boxes but sometimes you can meet people who tick one or maybe two.

I wish you all the best


Thank You, I guess...