I hate that I’m unloveable and alone forever

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sly279
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14 Mar 2019, 1:49 pm

i wish society was t so superficial and horrible.
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14 Mar 2019, 2:10 pm

You're not unlovable Sly. You're a wild and crazy fox and plenty of us love hearing from you myself included. *hugs*


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14 Mar 2019, 2:44 pm

its called "i havent met my soulmate yet"
only narcissists are unloveable, because they only love themselves.
u dont sound like one of them...


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14 Mar 2019, 6:42 pm

Awww. Poor little fox. I know that feeling. It's hard to see a way out :(

I don't know what to say. When I've been in that place nothing anyone said to me made me feel better.

I ate too much. I watched a lot of tv. It was difficult to climb out of, but I did it

You can too. There's always something to live for.



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14 Mar 2019, 10:12 pm

I almost always feel unlovable, my mind tends to make me feel like no one likes me and I have to try to shrug those feelings off and tell myself it's just my self loathing making me feel unworthy and worthless. So I can relate to feeling that way, but you are not unlovable sly. Look how many people give you support, you are liked.


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18 Mar 2019, 1:31 pm

hurtloam wrote:
Awww. Poor little fox. I know that feeling. It's hard to see a way out :(

I don't know what to say. When I've been in that place nothing anyone said to me made me feel better.

I ate too much. I watched a lot of tv. It was difficult to climb out of, but I did it

You can too. There's always something to live for.

Yeah I’ve gained weight and not kept to my calorie limit as I’ve nit bother to track it


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18 Mar 2019, 1:33 pm

serpentari wrote:
its called "i havent met my soulmate yet"
only narcissists are unloveable, because they only love themselves.
u dont sound like one of them...

But many narcissists are loved and have relationships while due to being disabled and poor I’m seen as unlovable and not worthy of relationship. :cry:


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18 Mar 2019, 4:42 pm

that is depression speaking, sly. and i wont repeat it again. u only feel that way, because u make urself believe that. end chapter. end book. amount of money or disability doesnt stop one from being loved. my personal experience says so. u are closing ur own door, and that is only problem. that is my last post on this topic, because im tired of those.


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18 Mar 2019, 5:14 pm

Brother Sly, what are you saying is BS at the highest level because like many, I am glad whenever you post here on Wrong Planet. In fact Brother Sly, making yourself believe that you will always be rejected by people around you is even worse.


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18 Mar 2019, 6:12 pm

You are not unloveable and you will not be alone forever. Just be yourself and keep on trying.



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19 Mar 2019, 1:34 am

AnonymousAnonymous wrote:
Brother Sly, what are you saying is BS at the highest level because like many, I am glad whenever you post here on Wrong Planet. In fact Brother Sly, making yourself believe that you will always be rejected by people around you is even worse.

I’m constantly rejected for those reasons it’s not bs.
Most people on here agree, men who don’t habe a good income and life together aren’t dating material


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19 Mar 2019, 1:54 am

Some women look beyond that stuff.

They would like it that you save money.

They would want you to buy a car, rather than a gun, though.



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19 Mar 2019, 3:32 pm

sly279 wrote:
AnonymousAnonymous wrote:
Brother Sly, what are you saying is BS at the highest level because like many, I am glad whenever you post here on Wrong Planet. In fact Brother Sly, making yourself believe that you will always be rejected by people around you is even worse.

I’m constantly rejected for those reasons it’s not bs.
Most people on here agree, men who don’t habe a good income and life together aren’t dating material


Sir Kraftie is right. Perhaps one day you may meet a girl who may come from a similar background as you.


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19 Mar 2019, 5:14 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Some women look beyond that stuff.

They would like it that you save money.

They would want you to buy a car, rather than a gun, though.

Why so I can have another car sit in front of my house until they tow it away or landlord threatens to kick us out?
I can’t afford the car upkeep and it’d take me 10+ years of scraping to get a new car as I’d have to save up 20,000


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19 Mar 2019, 5:15 pm

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sly279 wrote:
AnonymousAnonymous wrote:
Brother Sly, what are you saying is BS at the highest level because like many, I am glad whenever you post here on Wrong Planet. In fact Brother Sly, making yourself believe that you will always be rejected by people around you is even worse.

I’m constantly rejected for those reasons it’s not bs.
Most people on here agree, men who don’t habe a good income and life together aren’t dating material


Sir Kraftie is right. Perhaps one day you may meet a girl who may come from a similar background as you.

The idea of meeting some lady in my 80s isn’t appealing to me I’d kindly reject her.


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19 Mar 2019, 5:18 pm

AnonymousAnonymous wrote:

Sir Kraftie is right. Perhaps one day you may meet a girl who may come from a similar background as you.


When did Kraftie get knighted ? I musta missed that thread :lol:


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