League_Girl wrote:
I'm sad to see you have left here, I really enjoyed your posts here. I hope it wasn't me that said anything that you felt was transphobic as I have defended trans people before and have even reported transphobic threads here.
I get paranoid about that sort of thing too. A couple of years ago there was a member here (no longer a member) who wrote a thread saying she was leaving because she felt she was being picked on. Out of paranoia I said that I hope I wasn't responsible for making her want to leave, and she unexpectedly exploded and told me that I was the exact reason she was leaving (no, she wasn't joking). So ever since then, I get paranoid whenever a member says they're leaving because I worry that I might have said the wrong thing to them and that it's my fault. I'm a tactful person normally and I value people's feelings by nature (unless I am personally upset by someone and feel I need to stand up for myself).
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