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Caz72
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24 Sep 2022, 5:39 pm

just a autism/nt marriage doesnt work for me

he might come back he might not

the men who dont hate me at work keep asking if its over for real because they want to date me but i keep telling them no because i dont want to date any of them

im fed up with men except for my son of course but thats unconditional love i love him no matter what


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24 Sep 2022, 5:53 pm

So sorry to hear that. I thought he loved you?


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24 Sep 2022, 5:55 pm

He went off with his friend?



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24 Sep 2022, 6:11 pm

Joe90 wrote:
So sorry to hear that. I thought he loved you?


well he did

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He went off with his friend?


he moved in with his friend at the moment


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24 Sep 2022, 7:24 pm

I’m so sorry, Caz. That’s a horrible feeling of being rejected.


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24 Sep 2022, 10:55 pm

So sorry, Kaz.

Your husband lost someone special.



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24 Sep 2022, 11:00 pm

I am so sorry to hear this.



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24 Sep 2022, 11:22 pm

My deepest condolences.



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25 Sep 2022, 2:32 am

Caz72 wrote:
just a autism/nt marriage doesnt work for me

he might come back he might not

the men who dont hate me at work keep asking if its over for real because they want to date me but i keep telling them no because i dont want to date any of them

im fed up with men except for my son of course but thats unconditional love i love him no matter what


Well this is a shock. I don't really know what to say except to repeat what everyone else has said. I'm really sorry for you.

I think the men at work have got a bit of a nerve just waiting to jump on you as soon as your husband is out of the way. Tell them to get lost.


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25 Sep 2022, 10:23 am

Oh no! Hope you and your son are ok.



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25 Sep 2022, 10:56 am

Yeah I'm sorry to hear that too



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25 Sep 2022, 11:32 am

He doesn’t know what he has lost.He will regret it later and beg you to take him back.Think carefully then, you might be better off without him.
Take care of yourself and your son, that’s all that really matters.


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25 Sep 2022, 12:43 pm

thanks people

but i will be all right

i dont really know what emotion to feel or how im feeling really
anyone else find that hard? like what am i suppose to feel ?


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25 Sep 2022, 12:45 pm

I'm sorry to hear this. I hope you can sort out your life how you'd like it and have lots of support :heart:


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25 Sep 2022, 12:50 pm

I don't think there's any right or wrong way to feel to be honest.

As long as you're managing to function and you've not fallen apart then you're doing well.

I suppose the way a person feels depends on the kind of relationship they were having.


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25 Sep 2022, 12:56 pm

Is he gay?
My husband left me for a man when our daughter was six months old.
I remember feeling relieved to an extent, but numb and confused.

Hang in there.