Why can't I admit these things?

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Summer_Twilight
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25 Apr 2024, 8:44 am

Hi:
I am having a hard time admitting a few things
1. That someone who I thought was a friend threw me under the bus last year
2. I am angry with this woman

Please see the history below


Most recently, someone who I thought was my friend tried to re-add me on Fakebook. This was after she seemed to disappear from me for a year in a half. Before that disappearance, she completely ignored some personal things that I had been going through. Instead, she cut me off and started dominating the question by bragging about her life and life with my family. She also seemed more interested in showing off her fancy health club that she belonged to as well as some landscaping in her front yard. In the meantime, she didn't seem to like what I had to say and was very rude and critical.

Anyway, when she attempted to re-add me last week, I put my foot down. When I confronted her for not being a good friend, she made excuses.

She "Forgot about my situation." :roll:
She "Lost her phone one month later" :roll:
She "Had been too focused on her problems" and would not admit that she is self-centered and a bad listener. :lol: Yeah right, she would cut me off all the time and seemed to like to hear herself talk.



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26 Apr 2024, 12:08 pm

You do not have a hard time admitting these things. You already have, You have a hard time accepting them. That has to come from you.



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27 Apr 2024, 9:07 am

I have a hard time accepting that this woman is a jerk.