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I have an out of date calender with flowers on my wall from last year. I need a new one. lol

I do use them to put events and other things on. I am more organized with a physical calender I can manually cross dates off of.

Do you have any freckles?

Yes I do. I had more when I was little and I remember my mother saying they would go away when I turned eleven (?)

It seems like most of them did, surprisingly, but I have a few. I used to have one on my thigh which exactly at the appropriate length for wearing short skirts at work. A colleague pointed that out like it was a measuring stick lol.

That's funny that you also have an out-of-date calendar. I do keep mine on the right month, at least.

Name a song from the first time you had a crush on someone.

I am not sure what song to answer that with, since I don't think I associate a lot of songs with my partners and can't remember a specific one.

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For Dave. My best friend's boyfriend, circa 1981. We did fool around a bit (lol whoops), and I still miss him.

I wouldn't be surprised if we were kind of meant to be together.

Do you like guys with long hair?

I actually do like men with long hair. A lot of guys I've liked have longer hair.

Do you like men with beards?

Sure. Long hair, short hair, bald, beards, goatees, clean-shaven. I'm ... easy ? (lol) I hope you know what I mean.

I don't like when men shave their chest or body hair, that's about my only specific preference.

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"I'm... easy?" gave me quite a giggle, Isa.

I guess I'm a bit "easy", too. I don't have hard preferences, but I do slightly prefer men with beards. I also don't prefer men who shave their body hair. I like body hair on people, I'm weird.

Do you shave your body hair, and if you do, do you like doing it?
(I don't know if this is a personal question, but when I thought I was cis I made myself do it and I hated it, so I'm curious.)

I shave my lower legs but I don't do it very often because the hair is quite fine and hard to see. I guess I'm not very hairy lol.

Do I like it? Um, I never really thought about it. It just takes five minutes in the shower when I'm doing a hair conditioner.

I won't do wax or any of those other horrible-looking treatments you see on TV.

I'm glad you stopped doing it if you didn't like it.

Do you like slow dancing?

Not particularly


Which life skill are you the worst at ?

I am really bad at making phone calls. They're so awkward and weird to me.

I also guess I asked the "like" part of my question because I've heard some women say they shave fully out of preference and not expectations, and that they enjoy shaving/waxing. I personally find it a chore. lol

Are you good at handling phone calls?

I was going to say phone calls and verbal communication are among my worst skills. I'm also very bad at expressing emotions verbally. I shut down. In terms of practical skills I'm bad at any outdoor work because I have agoraphobia, scopophobia, and a fear of soil. I'm not good at car repairs either.

I hate phone calls. I've never left a voicemail message in my life. I seldom answer the phone and I get angry when it rings. I avoid making important calls as long as possible. I've even registered with Relay services who will place the calls for me.

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The biggest issue I have with phone calls is I can't see the person at all, so I have no idea when to respond. They're also usually unexpected so I can't mentally prepare for them, and it makes me lowkey freak out the whole time.

I have left voicemails before, but I always write down a plan for what I'm going to say and I rehearse it before. I also leave them at times where they won't be seen and replied to until the next day.

What is your least favourite social expectation/rule?

all the efforts you should make to keep up,
why???????????
[spending money you don't have to impress people you don't even like?]

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I don't like being invited to ... anything. I don't need to go to your wedding, or celebrate your child's first birthday, or have a glass of wine on your anniversary. I don't like when people plan events far in the future and expect me to go. If I have a shutdown and can't make it I always feel guilty sending my regrets. It would be much nicer if people sent photos and video of their big events, if I ask to see them. Going places in person is always a huge stressor especially when the events are for other people and not myself. Secret tip: Nobody really wants to be invited anywhere.

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i can always get out of that because of the animals and the travel, i think americans have lots more of socialising expectations going on; idk i saw a "playdate" and the house was full of people, thats crazy, here at least we do one child at a time (that's for dutch parents, french not much at all, schooldays are very long and rural makes it unpractical also)

Any plans for today?

Not really. I should do some financial paperwork but there's no rush. I hope I can read a bit or work on my book.

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